Okay. Last nite was the first time me and my girlfriend had sex.
It was good.
But this morning her best friend called to talk about it, and her mom was on the other end listening.
She now knows.
She told me to tell my mom that we had sex, or shes gonna tell her.
Even if I do... I still wanna have sex again.
But I dont know how to get around the parents....
Its bad.
I dont know what to do.
How should I go about telling my mom?
How can I have sex again?
Mon, 05/14/2007 - 00:34
#1
We Got Found Out.
First you have to decide if you want her to tell your parents or if you are going to. Then just tell your parents the truth and tell them what happened. Then I think you have to talk to her mom...you are going to have to see her sooner or later...Just be a man about it.
Wait until you are asked by your mother and then tell the truth. Unless you are totally underaged and it's illegal, you will (only) be disappointing your Mom's expectations. But just remember to tell the truth when asked. That will be "manning up"..Good Luck
Excuse me but how old are you two? Did you use condoms? Did each of you treat the other well? If yes and you're both underage there should be nothing to regret. Is your dad around and can you talk to him? If yes, then do so - he'll understand and will, it is hoped, support you. the fathers need to be involved in this as well. No one did anything wrong here, or so it appears.
I agree with kitten, to me it seems like no wrongs have been done, well as long as it wasn't unprotected
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;179024]Excuse me but how old are you two? Did you use condoms? Did each of you treat the other well? If yes and you're both underage there should be nothing to regret. Is your dad around and can you talk to him? If yes, then do so - he'll understand and will, it is hoped, support you. the fathers need to be involved in this as well. No one did anything wrong here, or so it appears.[/QUOTE]
hold up...I agree with you, but we have to be careful here. We are not this person's parents, and so it is really not up to us to say that nothing has been done wrong. Perhaps in our opinion nothing has been done wrong, but it is not up to us and it is not our business to undermine the teachings of parents (as long as they are minors).
This is especially a delicate situation if it involves religious teachings. I am not much of a religious man, but I do no it is not my place to impose my beliefs on others. As such, it is not really my place to tell a minor who lives in a home with a specific religious code that what his parents are teaching him is wrong. Even if I feel that is true.