Get him really excited by kissing him and neck kissing and using your hand kinda on his back I guess. But a big tease... you like.. 'makeout' with his stomach. Boy that feels amazing... and go really near his boxer line.. maybe lifting them a tiny bit and licking JUST underneath them... that REALLY gets a guy on.. but don't go for long or he'll start getting weird..
a good tip that works with my boyfriend, is to tease him with your tongue you could try:
Licking him lips,
licking down his breast bone (then blowing on it)
nibbling his ears.
kissing him.
running fingers over his body lightly
kiss his inner thigh, not his old man tho,
then u could advance, take his boxers off, and kiss/lick round his willy, but dont touch it, - then carry on licking round it and lick it now and then, just flick ure tongue over it once ina while...
i dont recommend doing this for too long tho, because when i do it to my boyfriend he has a tendancy to cum to quick.
seduce him. get sexual when he doesnt even suspect it. like if you're watching tv some night just get up and when you come back into the room, straddle him. i love to sit on my guy like that. you can feel his manhood and it hits right between your legs so as you slowly kiss his neck, ears, whatever, you can feel him getting aroused... an obvious sign to work your way down :-)
this may sound wierd or nasty, but my wife will, when we're kissing, suck on my tongue as if she were giving me a blow-job, sounds wierd but it gets me where I'm going.
My favorite is just to start kissing him, and then stopping, smirk and keep going then he gets going so fast, and the funny part is I would alwasy do it right when hes trying to go to bed haha.
[QUOTE=Analist74;110324]this may sound wierd or nasty, but my wife will, when we're kissing, suck on my tongue as if she were giving me a blow-job, sounds wierd but it gets me where I'm going.[/QUOTE]
That feels too good. Also same thing but with lips.
Licking neck... collarbone... basically anywhere will get me aroused...
(Maybe hold his arms down while doing that... another thing that really gets me going).
i kiss my man slowly, building up speed, and then i run my hands through his hair pulling him close to me. or i'll run my fingers lightly up and down his back. he's really ticklish on his sides, so lightly tickling him really gets him going.
My ex loved his earlobes being sucked on, and at the same time, my breathing into his ears turned him on so much. He said it felt so intense, that I could never do it for that long, but it sure got him in the mood ;)
i usually do a lapdance for him, like right in his face, but keep him handcuffed or wont let him touch me....he usually ends up pounching on me and having good old rough sex loll
[QUOTE=Analist74;110324]this may sound wierd or nasty, but my wife will, when we're kissing, suck on my tongue as if she were giving me a blow-job, sounds wierd but it gets me where I'm going.[/QUOTE]
I've found that kissing him slow and passionately really gets him going, also (this may be a little mean) I have him lay down and rub and kiss him all over but I don't let him touch me, that drives him crazy.
I like to tie up my man. It doesn't have to be rough. I normally use hankerchiefs made of silk or maybe a silk tie or two.
Then I slowly kiss and lick him all over, but never directly touching his private parts.
Sometimes I use an ice cube as well, to get his nerves going wild.
Directly after the ice has touched his skin I kiss the place, so there's a contrast between the cold and the warm.
I go crazy when she slowsly rubs my legs (pants are on), and then shell go down and rub/tease me haha. I find this gets me even harder then if it were her hand to begin with.
I think teasing is really experimental.I don't deny that a lot (all?) of these things work, but it really depends on the person, its trial and error. Try some of these things that people mentioned, and see which he likes best. =)
Btw the sucking on the tongue thing isn't gross...my fiance and I do it to each other and love it :P
My suggestions:
touch him anywhere, with clothes on
lick/kiss him in various places (neck, chest/stomach, ears, groin; not his actual cock work well)
gently brush his cock through his pants/boxers, or simply kiss it then move away
straddle him, and grind against him (never met a guy who doesn't enjoy that to be honest)
kissing deeply/passionately
some guys get turned on when you hold them really tight, or act really dominant/submissive (depends on the guy)
moaning, most guys like to hear a girl enjoying
Get him really excited by kissing him and neck kissing and using your hand kinda on his back I guess. But a big tease... you like.. 'makeout' with his stomach. Boy that feels amazing... and go really near his boxer line.. maybe lifting them a tiny bit and licking JUST underneath them... that REALLY gets a guy on.. but don't go for long or he'll start getting weird..
Drew
Licking him lips,
licking down his breast bone (then blowing on it)
nibbling his ears.
kissing him.
running fingers over his body lightly
kiss his inner thigh, not his old man tho,
then u could advance, take his boxers off, and kiss/lick round his willy, but dont touch it, - then carry on licking round it and lick it now and then, just flick ure tongue over it once ina while...
i dont recommend doing this for too long tho, because when i do it to my boyfriend he has a tendancy to cum to quick.
seduce him. get sexual when he doesnt even suspect it. like if you're watching tv some night just get up and when you come back into the room, straddle him. i love to sit on my guy like that. you can feel his manhood and it hits right between your legs so as you slowly kiss his neck, ears, whatever, you can feel him getting aroused... an obvious sign to work your way down :-)
For me, my girlfriend being behind me, wrapping both arms around me, then kissing long my neck before nibbling my earsworks wonders
this may sound wierd or nasty, but my wife will, when we're kissing, suck on my tongue as if she were giving me a blow-job, sounds wierd but it gets me where I'm going.
My favorite is just to start kissing him, and then stopping, smirk and keep going then he gets going so fast, and the funny part is I would alwasy do it right when hes trying to go to bed haha.
back massage neck kissing
[QUOTE=Analist74;110324]this may sound wierd or nasty, but my wife will, when we're kissing, suck on my tongue as if she were giving me a blow-job, sounds wierd but it gets me where I'm going.[/QUOTE]
That feels too good. Also same thing but with lips.
Licking neck... collarbone... basically anywhere will get me aroused...
(Maybe hold his arms down while doing that... another thing that really gets me going).
i kiss my man slowly, building up speed, and then i run my hands through his hair pulling him close to me. or i'll run my fingers lightly up and down his back. he's really ticklish on his sides, so lightly tickling him really gets him going.
i nip and tickle his ear with my tongue and i gently nip at his neck too.
My ex loved his earlobes being sucked on, and at the same time, my breathing into his ears turned him on so much. He said it felt so intense, that I could never do it for that long, but it sure got him in the mood ;)
i usually do a lapdance for him, like right in his face, but keep him handcuffed or wont let him touch me....he usually ends up pounching on me and having good old rough sex loll
Like I've mentioned here before...a feather is usually pretty good, but using the WHOLE chicken is just plain kinky!
[QUOTE=Analist74;110324]this may sound wierd or nasty, but my wife will, when we're kissing, suck on my tongue as if she were giving me a blow-job, sounds wierd but it gets me where I'm going.[/QUOTE]
my gf does that and i love it
I've found that kissing him slow and passionately really gets him going, also (this may be a little mean) I have him lay down and rub and kiss him all over but I don't let him touch me, that drives him crazy.
I like to tie up my man. It doesn't have to be rough. I normally use hankerchiefs made of silk or maybe a silk tie or two.
Then I slowly kiss and lick him all over, but never directly touching his private parts.
Sometimes I use an ice cube as well, to get his nerves going wild.
Directly after the ice has touched his skin I kiss the place, so there's a contrast between the cold and the warm.
[FONT="Tahoma">My boyfriend goes crazy when I suck on his bottom lip lightly, and then suck on his finger.[/FONT]
I go crazy when she slowsly rubs my legs (pants are on), and then shell go down and rub/tease me haha. I find this gets me even harder then if it were her hand to begin with.
I go crazy turning her on especially kissing her neck
I think teasing is really experimental.I don't deny that a lot (all?) of these things work, but it really depends on the person, its trial and error. Try some of these things that people mentioned, and see which he likes best. =)
Btw the sucking on the tongue thing isn't gross...my fiance and I do it to each other and love it :P
My suggestions:
touch him anywhere, with clothes on
lick/kiss him in various places (neck, chest/stomach, ears, groin; not his actual cock work well)
gently brush his cock through his pants/boxers, or simply kiss it then move away
straddle him, and grind against him (never met a guy who doesn't enjoy that to be honest)
kissing deeply/passionately
some guys get turned on when you hold them really tight, or act really dominant/submissive (depends on the guy)
moaning, most guys like to hear a girl enjoying
Play with his bum - grab it and pinch it. Grab his penis through his pants.
Chicks grabbing the dick is the best, it's hot.
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