I have tried several times to reassure my gf that when i come into contact with her g spot that the feeling to pee is normal and i maintain with her to trust me that this is the case!! However she still declines me to touch her there obviously i think she is concerned that she will actually pee so i was wondering what ways i could do or say that would help let her let me freely stimulate her g spot!!
Wed, 10/31/2007 - 15:57
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Ways of reassuring about g spot stimulation?
If she doesnt want it dont do it. I mean you can only try to reassure someone so many times before it becomes more of convincing and persuading them to do something they dont want to do. Ask her why, because maybe she just genuinely dislikes the feeling when you stimulate her g-spot.
Has it ever occurred to you that men telling women how our bodies function is less than reassuring? Like a male OB saying. "I know just how you feel, Dear?" or, a relatively inexperienced young man assuring us, "What you feel is normal?"
How do you know you are "in contact with her G-Spot?" Or that such a thing exists? How well do you understand the internal anatomy of a woman or the physiology of the underlying tissues that are disturbed during this stimulation? Do you know why she feels the urge? In other words, there is nothing you can say to reassure her; she needs the experience.
Brandye said it a lot better than I did...and comically too. I have a female doctor, and listening to her tell me how my body is, is a bit strange. The only thing she can really do is to just try it once. maybe in the shower, so if she has the feeling, she doesnt have to worry peeing on the bed, couch, or wherever.
Please scroll down and read Chapter Two:
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of G-spot massage
I think dos is on his period. He'll calm down in a day or w :p
[QUOTE=Brandye;197810]Has it ever occurred to you that men telling women how our bodies function is less than reassuring? Like a male OB saying. "I know just how you feel, Dear?" or, a relatively inexperienced young man assuring us, "What you feel is normal?"
How do you know you are "in contact with her G-Spot?" Or that such a thing exists? How well do you understand the internal anatomy of a woman or the physiology of the underlying tissues that are disturbed during this stimulation? Do you know why she feels the urge? In other words, there is nothing you can say to reassure her; she needs the experience.[/QUOTE]
Maybe he put his finger on her pee hole lol
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[SIZE="3">Now it is my turn to state my distaste to many of your posts, this being the latest.[/SIZE]
I do not know if you are serious or if this is an attempt at humor. Either way, your response is inappropriate. I don't know why you haven't been banned.
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[SIZE="3">Now it is my turn to state my distaste to many of your posts, this being the latest.[/SIZE]
I do not know if you are serious or if this is an attempt at humor. Either way, your response is inappropriate. I don't know why you haven't been banned.[/QUOTE]
Whats wrong Doc? maybe he thought that was her pee hole & thats why she needed to pee. I know if something rubs on the pee hole it makes girls want to pee. Whats the big deal?
[quote=Sirene;197902]Whats wrong Doc? maybe he thought that was her pee hole & thats why she needed to pee. I know if something rubs on the pee hole it makes girls want to pee. Whats the big deal?[/quote]
S: Put differently, "I accidentally stimulated my g/f the wrong way and she had to pee, void, urinate, etc; I think I rubbed her urethra & this happens".
[quote=Sirene;197972]I think dos is on his period. He'll calm down in a day or w :p[/quote]I think it's called frustration; the whole day of responses he wrote...:) Be good :)