I so also agree. I love to see my guy get off. But I also love to take the control and make him get off when I want. It is one thing that gets me so hot. I'am getting hot just thinking about it now.

Its great fun when a gf asks this. Such a turn on to do it for someone... nad if they end up joining in ... so muchthe better. Then mabe i get to do my other turn on... cumming on them... hmmm

This thread is definitely a turn on!  I love to watch men do this.  I'm in a new relationship and we've messed around some and I've told him I want him to masturbate for me.  I cannot WAIT to see it!

The whole thing is sexy...their breathing, the noise they make, the movement of it, seeing exactly how they liked to be touched, the release at the end...  Mmmmmmmmmm. But I agree with the other women. It is VERY difficult to resist joining in!!!

I love watching a man masterbate.
I love hearing the noises that he makes while pleasing himself.
I love watching the facial expressions that he makes - especially when he's right at the edge....
I love asking him questions during like, "does that feel good", or telling him to jerk harder, or to tell me what he would love me to do while he's doing himself.
(I'm all wet just thinkking about this!)
I love watching him do so from behind - watching his arm motion, his ass motion, his head rocking and thrashing....
I 99% of the time can't help but start on myself while watching. Sometimes for fun, I'll keep fully clothed and tell him what I want him to do - example - while driving.
I love everything about it.
I love the cockiness he has while doing so (no pun intended!)

I don't watch my man get himself off, he can do that on his own time, but he doesn't need to he has me. I stroke and suck him off my self. When AF visits, I always give him a "massage" just for him. So I have to say no to the masterbation for him, but he loves to watch me.

I love watching my boyfriend masterbate. I always get so hot from it I end up following suit and start touching myself.

in reply so something you said earlyer PassionateMan....

I LOVE it when he makes noises.. whenever.. when he's masturbateing, when were having sex or when im giving him head espically it makes me feel like a goddes!

I love the faces guys make when they masurbate to.. there so sexy.. makes me want to stop them then and there get on top of them and f*** them so hard untill they cum.. but that's just my fettish!

[quote=PassionateMan,May 07 2004,10:46][/quote]
[QUOTE=Quote ]I'm curious how women feel about watching a man masturbate and ejaculate for their entertainment.
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I enjoy it very much especially if I'm the object of his arousal.
I personally like to stand behind him at the beginning just for a bit and wrap my arms around him and put my hand on top of his while watching so I can feel his hand's movement, nibble his ear and kiss the back of his neck.

[QUOTE=Quote ]Would it turn you on to have him put on a slow, sensuous dance while he strocked his penis. And a slow build up to a powerful, deep, orgasm with full, spurts of creamy sperm shoot out of his cock?[/QUOTE]
Whew,  I have to unbutton my blouse a bit with the thought of that... I think I would have to get up and dance with him....Just where would that sperm be aimed, may I ask?

[QUOTE=Quote ]Would it turn you on to have control of him? You would be in charge of how he stimulated himself ... and he wouldn't be allowed to cum until you give him permission. Then at some point you tell him to cum, and he obeys on command.[/QUOTE]
Well, I like control but not to that point... unless he really wanted it that way then I'd get my whip out.

[QUOTE=Quote ]What pushes your hot button about this? What's the turn-on?[/QUOTE]

The control factor is kind of fun... I prefer seesaw of control.. He's in control, then me, then him, then me with him in control at the end.

I'm still thinking about the dance, that just sends me over the edge to see him dancing like that. I am just dying to know in anticipation where he's going to aim the sperm and hoping it will be all over me.

something for th eforrest!!!

lucky lady.

Speeking as a guy, this works both ways. It is an incredible turn on masturbating for the lady in my life. And of course watching her too.

As you say it is hard not to have audience participation..... not that i am complaining!

I think its a turn on when guys masterbate infront of you. I just can't help it than to help him and let him just relax. The expressions he makes are a big turn on.

If I could watch her as she excites herself to a female ejaculation or an oozing or wet climax it would be an extra special moment. Ejaculating inside a vagina can't be seen so why not let her see what effect she has on you by letting her watch it as it happens close up.

Both scenarios are a turn on for me. I love to watch my man cum period!

I would have to say my response is very similar to duckie, as i cant help but get my hands on him and take over for him!

my satisfaction? watching his face and then seeing the pleasure flowing thru him! hard to describe, but its a wonderful feeling pleasing him

Watching my guy masturbate is the Ultimate turn-on. Mostly because I'm flattered and impressed that he has no inhibitions about doing it in front of me. He really goes at it too, not half-heartedly at all, so I figure it's how he does it in private too, and it's not some kind of fake show. It's like an expression of his love and trust for me, but I get so hot that most of the time i just have to have him. I personally think it's *one* of the best gifts a guy can give to a girl.

Hi PassionateMan, and welcome.

Not only women like this.  I love to watch another man masturbate.  Brandye is quite right when she says it is a learning experience ( even we gay guys have to learn the specifics for different men).  

For me, it's not so much about control, although I DO like to give suggestions and encouragement , but it's about being able to feel his pleasure.  I can sometimes reach orgasm myself (without touching myself) if the connection to his
pleasure is intense enough.  WOW!! What a rush!

hell just reading that turned me on!

mmmhmm! I have to agree there! It's makes me totally hot watching my man masturbate but I usually end up getting involved before he can finish, I can't help myself.
I was getting hot just reading this!

I guess for me it's knowing that he can let all his inhibitions go and just be himself and him not feeling awkward about masturbating in front of me.

In my younger days, I learned a lot his and my sexual response by watching one another masturbate. I really learned the process of male response, then, by observing closely while I built him from soft to ejaculating. It is educational and really fun. I still like to do handjobs and watch what is happening.

My girlfriend and I masturbate with different techniques. It is enjoyable to do one another because as much as I enjoy her technique, as things progress, I always slip back to my own habit pattern.

I think that masturbation, and watching, is an important step to learning sex. There have been many studies that relate female sexual satisfaction in later life to the age of beginning to masturbate - usually around the onset of the menses.

Interesting old post that came up. Too bad about the last post that brought it forward being spam, but I will respond to the topic. I have never just masturbated in front of my wife. But we do a lot of mutal masterbation with each other while making love. She loves it during OS to have me stroking myself while she continue to give me OS. Many times she will pull my hand over and put it on my cock so I know she wants me to join in. Many times she also likes to put her hand on top of mine as I stroke my shaft. I enjoy doing this for her and it really turns her on. I enjoy watching her play with herself and so I can understand while she enjoys watching me. I will guide her hand over on herself while giving her oral and she will rub herself. I especially love to see her insert her fingers in her. Some of the time I have stood up to watch and I will stand there watching her and masturbate along with her. Isn't too long before we are on top of each other finishing off with some PIV. But I don't think she has ever watched me finish by me masturbating. It usually involves both of us. Maybe this is someting we should try since I would love to see her finish herself off by fingering herself and stoking her clit. I would then have to decide where to shoot onto her when I finished.

wow...i had to go stick my head in front of the fan after reading this...so obviously a huge turn on...just thinking about my guy standing infront of me with his hips moving slowly and so hypnotically while he was making those whimpers of pleasure just makes me melt.

:cool:
I've ALWAYS loved "putting on a show"for female friends..it's an ego thing ,I know but I'm in show biz anyway,so....The Show MUST Go On!:cool:

I'm sure it's incredible to watch him and I'm sure I would new to it but I love everything about sex.

My wife has on occasion requested that I masturbate for her, which I have done......it is amazing how much more she is turned on by this then many other forms of foreplay we use.......she has however never expressed to me in words what it does for her........On occasion, she has demanded that i stop and enter her, finishing off inside her but occasionally she requests that I come on a specific area of her body......mostly her stomach or her bum.......I love that...the view seems to highten my senses and release.

I enjoy watching, but I more enjoy helping, whether directly or, like others, by touching other parts of his body while he's focusing on himself. I love feeling his responses to touch in general- my ex was extremely quiet and would not talk except for the occasional "That feels amazing" when I did something he particularly liked, but his body told the whole story.

My wife love lubing me up and playing with the head of my cock watching me squirm with pleasure as the head of my cock get sensertive, she strokes my/our cock till i come see points it towards her so she can see the cum pump out, she sits there and cums with the site of my cum

Sometimes when i am tired or not available, I play with his cock. My head on his thighs. Till he cum on my face. Then we kiss and enjoy.

Other times i face her kneel up over her lube my cock and cum all over her tits or face just so see can see me come,

I just find it a turn on to perform it WHILE being watched by a girl

[QUOTE=PassionateMan;108286]I'm curious how women feel about watching a man masturbate and ejaculate for their entertainment.

Would it turn you on to have him put on a slow, sensuous dance while he strocked his penis. And a slow build up to a powerful, deep, orgasm with full, spurts of creamy sperm shoot out of his cock?

PassionateMan[/QUOTE]

Holy Crap batgirl.. I thought I was the only one with this fetish. I LOVE to watch guys spew. I love to watch the cock head get big and flushed just before it shoots. I love to watch how high it can shoot. My husband, if I make him wait a week will shoot high and a lot. He is more liquidity than thick so it goes everywhere.

Ever try getting that shit out of your hair? :) :)

I love to watch, in case that was not clear!

Salli

I had a girlfriend in college who begged me repeatedly to masturbate while she watched. I was shy about it, but one night I lay on my back and stroked my cock with her curled up next to me, looking closely. When she saw sperm start to spurt she went down to catch it in her mouth. It charms me when I think about it.

I gave my wife a show the other night at the end of our love making session. She loves to watch me stroke myself while she gives me head. But this time she laid on her back and watched me finish myself off and cum all over her pussy. She really enjoyed watching me stroke myself and watching the cum squirt on her. We will need to do this again.

[QUOTE=sania;244423]Sometimes when i am tired or not available, I play with his cock. My head on his thighs. Till he cum on my face. Then we kiss and enjoy.[/QUOTE]

That's ummmm, perfect.

i think that watching a man masturbate is a TOTAL turn on, im gettin hott readin all the posts!!! lol

This is new for us to have her watch me stoke myself. Then to be able to take it to completion and have her watch it squirt out and land on her was a nice change recently to take it that far. I enjoyed having her watch me cum .

I agree with everyone who's posted on this question. I love making my man do what I say and watching him play with his cock. For me it does two things 1) allows me to feel in control and 2) lets me know what turns him on.

The feeling of being in control is so empowering! The rush is a huge high when you are ordering your guy to stroke his cock and direct the speed and the places he focuses on. Usually I tell my man to play with his head and only his head until he looks like he will burst. I agree it can almost lead to an orgasm (not there yet but maybe some day). I learn a lot about what he wants too by watching him so I can do my job better. I aim to please my man and be sure he's happy as well as me. I love to add a little bit of dominance into the mix by spanking him if he doesn't listen and ordering him into different positions. All in all a huge turn on for any girl!

I didn't think there were many girls who liked to spank their guy. Personally I love it.

I used to see this one girl a lot who was into spanking and anal (receiving). We had a lot of fun spanking each other. She would suck on my cock a lot first, and then we would take turns spanking each other while we both laughed a lot. If I spanked her hard, she'd laugh and threaten to get me back harder, and did she ever! She would spank me so hard while she laughed, my ass was totally red when she finished. She was having so much fun, I thought she would never stop, but I didn't mind. We liked over the knee spanking most because I could hold onto her tits while I spanked her.

Tho I never jerked off in front of her, I always finished inside her ass because she liked it so much. I once asked her to fuck my ass, but all she had was a very big dildo. She couldn't get much of that into me before giving up.