I was with a girl, named Marin. We started dating at a church play (we were both in it). I went to her house one night, and she was playing poker with me and some friends. She wanted to turn it into make out poker, and I vouged against it.
So, her friends leave, and she jumps over the table and gets down on me, about to unzip my fly, with her head right next to my...Ya know.
So, I stand up where I am, tell her to go f*** herself, and leave.
To this day, friends call me a huge pussy, and tell me all the time I should have done it.
But on the other hand, my girlfriend is proud of what I did and tells me that what I did was the right thing to do.
Whadda you think? Did I turn down something good, or make the right choice?
You and me both Brandye, you and me both. Why am I such a klutz? If I were as wise as you, Endless, I wouldn't have eaten that Italian dish loaded with garlic before hand because of nerves and we all know what garlic does and I tried to mask the smell with mints but she noticed and dumped me on the spot then spread a rumor that I am gay and threw up during sex because I was so 'so grossed out' (and those who know me know that I am metrosexual not homosexual) of course if I were gay why the hell would I ask her out in the first place but the rumor didn't pick up speed, if it did my social life would be ruined (more than it already is) but then this is why I asked why I have to be so uncoordinated because after that I was happy and really coordinated (or so I thought) and I was thinking "Wow I am so coordinated!" and then I tripped, fell flat on my face and rolled down a flight of stairs and the stairs at my highschool are concrete, steel, and linoleum.
But all in all that was a really good choice and you are wise beyond your years (assuming you are a teenager)
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I agree with Hung. Done is done.
If you acted on your feelings that this wasn't something that you wanted to do, then the decision was the right one for you. You should NEVER be pressured into anything you don't want to do.
If you really had wanted to do this, but reacted out of fear or uncertainty, then you may have missed a nice opportunity. However, this is hardly the worst thing that you could do.
It's really up to you to decide.
You were true to your own feelings at that time. I wish that I had been as wise in my teen exncounters.
First and foremost... it doesn't matter what WE think, or what your FRIENDS think, or what your GIRLFRIEND thinks. All irrelevant.
The only thing that matters is: Do YOU feel it was the right thing to do...? If you feel justified in what you did and that it was done for the right reasons, then it doesn't MATTER what we think.
If you're looking for validation, then it's truly going to be an arbitrary response from most people. Some will say you did the right thing, some will say you were nervous and foolish, some may say your making a big deal of it, others will say the story is a made-up lie. And truthfully, none of it matters.
Again... if YOU feel it was the right decision for YOU... then it was! Period. You don't need any of us to validate it. If you're second-guessing your actions, then maybe you were acting out of fear... I don't know... I am not you, but only YOU know if it was right or wrong.
Sorry I am not more help... but personally... I say accept it and move-on. It's something in the past and not worth dwelling on.
Peace...