Hey... my boyfriend and I had sex last night for the first time... we were both virgins... well, it took forever to get him inside of me. And when he finally did, he didn't get real far in. Hell, he goes farther when he's fingering me. Now here's the thing... my twin sister was walking around the house at the time, so we had to be descrete about it (ya know... she might think something's up if she walks in and sees my pants off and him on top of me) but how do we get more pleasure out of it. Is it supposed to take that long to get him inside me? Does us worrying about my sister walking in have anything to do with it? Or because we're virgins? Would a different position help? I was scared of my first time hurting... now I just wanna feel something!!!
please help us!
Fri, 11/24/2006 - 21:14
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wanting more
take your time, since you both are still new to it, i remember my first time i needed her to guide me into her (i was 14) im sure next time wont be like that, and if ya worried about someone entering maybe go somewhere else that you wont be so worried and can really concentrate on each other.
I agree with Zan, if you're worrying about your sister coming in, you should go somewhere where you can be alone, I know thats hard when you both live with your families, but it will take a lot of the pressure off. It's not abnormal for him to take ages to get inside you, and it's neither of your faults. It's basically because of inexperience, and because you were a virgin, you would have been very tight and therefore he would have had a hard time getting it in. Next time should be mich easier and it should go further in, and you'll both feel the difference. As for the position, I think missionary is a good one to start off with, but it may make it a bit easier for both of you if you go on top.
No you two aren't abnormal just new to this. You do need to be more private. The lack of privacy was inhibiting the experience for both of you. Relaxation is very important in these beginning stages. Missionary is fine as long as he gets his penis at the correct angle at various depths. Up for the G-Spot when just inside then downward under the cervix for full insertion.