I have a plan, now, for it! I'm gonna get a string bikini type underwear thing (...) and play a game with him. Tell him he can't untie it with his hands, only with his mouth. I dunno, that'll get him near the area, and then I intend to moan so loudly he's never gonna wanna leave. :D Woo!
Lemme know how it works out? I feel like there's a lot of us, sadly, on the same boat.
When my girl and I first started dating, I had never done anything with a woman other than kiss and a little bit of boob stuff. Then one night we were making out pretty hot, she took me by the neck, looked me in the eyes, and said "kiss me!" So I kissed her on the mouth, neck, chest etc... Then she put her hand on top of my hand, put them both over her vagina and squeezed like she meant it. Then looked me in the eyes and said "NO, kiss me here!" It TOTALLY blew me away!!! I wasn't expecting that at all, it was awesome! I know that it wasn't the beast that she ever had, but I could tell that she loved it! Guys like to be taken charge of sometimes. I know that I would not have done it for her that night, but when she told me to...I swear it was soooo hot!
when i first started dating , i was seeing this girl with alot more experiance than i had. all that i had done was kiss, and some boob stuff, so i felt a little uneasy about doing anything else. one night we were making out pretty hot, and she said "kiss me!" so, i kissed her neck, shoulders, and lips. she then took me by my hand and rubbed it between her legs, looked me in my eyes, and said "No, kiss me here!" to TOTALLY blew me away!!! i loved it, and i know that she did too! sometimes guy love to be told what to do, this maybe one of those times.
That's very true. Us guys are expected to be in control all the time, or at least we are brainwashed into thinking we should be. When a woman turns the tables and takes control, it can be a real turn on.
(Actually, its the women who are really in control anyway. Its just that a lot of them haven't realised that yet.)
Hey, I'm in the same situation with my new boyfriend... Odd for me too since all the guys I was with always loved doing it. Anyway, people gave me some awesome advice on the matter here: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/dating_and_new_relationships/19945-oral_sex_double_standard_in_my_new_relationship.html
I have a plan, now, for it! I'm gonna get a string bikini type underwear thing (...) and play a game with him. Tell him he can't untie it with his hands, only with his mouth. I dunno, that'll get him near the area, and then I intend to moan so loudly he's never gonna wanna leave. :D Woo!
Lemme know how it works out? I feel like there's a lot of us, sadly, on the same boat.
When my girl and I first started dating, I had never done anything with a woman other than kiss and a little bit of boob stuff. Then one night we were making out pretty hot, she took me by the neck, looked me in the eyes, and said "kiss me!" So I kissed her on the mouth, neck, chest etc... Then she put her hand on top of my hand, put them both over her vagina and squeezed like she meant it. Then looked me in the eyes and said "NO, kiss me here!" It TOTALLY blew me away!!! I wasn't expecting that at all, it was awesome! I know that it wasn't the beast that she ever had, but I could tell that she loved it! Guys like to be taken charge of sometimes. I know that I would not have done it for her that night, but when she told me to...I swear it was soooo hot!
when i first started dating , i was seeing this girl with alot more experiance than i had. all that i had done was kiss, and some boob stuff, so i felt a little uneasy about doing anything else. one night we were making out pretty hot, and she said "kiss me!" so, i kissed her neck, shoulders, and lips. she then took me by my hand and rubbed it between her legs, looked me in my eyes, and said "No, kiss me here!" to TOTALLY blew me away!!! i loved it, and i know that she did too! sometimes guy love to be told what to do, this maybe one of those times.
Guys like to be 'controlled' far more than you know!
So tell him what you want him to do. No need for cutesy little games etc. Just say - eat me!
nice approach, i would love if a girl was like that...
That's very true. Us guys are expected to be in control all the time, or at least we are brainwashed into thinking we should be. When a woman turns the tables and takes control, it can be a real turn on.
(Actually, its the women who are really in control anyway. Its just that a lot of them haven't realised that yet.)