if this 13 year old is for real, i think he needs help and should not be left alone with this 9 year old girl. i think her parents would appreciate knowing about what this young boy is thinking of doing to her. that is just disgusting. i don't know of any 9 year old, girls or boys, who are into sex. sick.

[QUOTE=Quote (BabyBlue @ Dec. 02 2004,10:26)]Just imagine that being part of your sexual history FOREVER...“I once had sex with a 9 year old”  
This is not acceptable in any way because a sexually active 9 year old may actually have been abused by someone and may have been made to believe that it is normal.  

jerk off at home instead.[/QUOTE]
i couldnt have said it better myself. speaking from the perspective of someone who has had intercourse with a
step-relative (step-sister) who was very young (i was 8 or so and she was maybe 9) I can tell you that it does not make for an emotionally stable adult. Every time I think back on what she and I did together, I feel dirty. I have recently been able to come to grips with the gravity of the whole situation, but I can say that it wasn't easy. Even if you think that you're ready and she is telling you that she is too, there is NO WAY that she is! A mind so young can't fully comprehend (or correctly adapt to) the psychological changes that will take place after such an event would take place.

i do have a feeling that this is a fluke...

BUT if its not, I agree with lots of what been said here. She is ONLY 9!!!!! She cannot naturally be "into" sex. There had to have been some sort of abuse in her life, and perhaps it is still going on. And if you have sex with her, YOU will become another abuser. Do you want to live the rest of your life knowing that you sexually abused your nine year old cousin? Seriously, WAKE UP!!!! And maybe you need to tell somebody about her being "into" it. This child could be seriously suffering, and you would just be adding to it. Think about that.

That post was so freaking disturbing. At nine I believe I was still playing with my barbies??

If you are 5 years older than the child you are considered to be a pedophile. We just learned this is my abnormal psych class. If you're under 18 and 5 years or more older than the other person. Who knows when his 14th birthday is? Once you hit it, you're a pedophile. That is just gross. Even at 14 I wasn't really thinking about actually having sex. I liked boys, but didn't want to go quite that far!

That terrifies me.

Just imagine that being part of your sexual history FOREVER...“I once had sex with a 9 year old”  
This is not acceptable in anyway.  If you think she is or has been sexually active it is not up to you to take advantage of her, it is up to you to tell someone just as morena said, because a sexually active 9 year old may actually have been abused by someone and may have been made to believe that it is normal.  

Make no mistake if anyone found out you had done anything sexually with her they would find it hard to believe a 9 year old was a willing participant, instead they would see you as someone who abused her.  Unless you want to be branded a child molester for the rest of your life stay well away…jerk off at home instead.

WOW 9 man!!
Seriously i know u know inside thats too young. I know your only 13 but still . U have enof sense to relize that a 9 year old is way to young. EVEN if she was a total stranger.
At nine ... u cant even count her years on both of ur hands. And I know u arent ready to have sex with anyone if u think a 9 year old is fair game . U deffinatly need to grow up a bit.
And if u think she wants to do it , shes nine and she would say alot to make u happy . Not cuse she wants to , but becuse she doesnt want to dissapoint u .

But yea man ... NO!!

I shouldn't talk because I became sexually active when i was about 13, but didn't start having sexual intercourse til about a year and a half later. To tell you the truth, waiting is the best thing you could do. You lose respect for yourself when you lose your virginity at such a young age, and it could lead to a lot of other complications.

She's your cousin. I mean, maybe you aren't blood related, but if you are just looking to screw around with someone just because, you should not do it with your cousin, or a 9 year old.

Look around. Find a girl your age that you truly like. Go out with her for a while. Wait til you know her well to get into things like that. Sex is not a necessity, especially at such a young age. You should not feel a need to do it so bad that it needs to be with your cousin.

I would suggest not to do it.

No, there's no age limit. We've had people younger than 13 on here before.

It's an information and an education site and I think as long as the person is mature enough to handle the content, then age really shouldn't be an issue.

Isn't there a age limit to this site? Give me a break!! The poor baby girl probably thinks she is worthless and is why she is so called "into it". Do the right thing and tell an adult. Your a lil' kid too, if your mature enough to stop yourself and question it, that means you know its wrong.
For the baby girl sake tell someone who will help her please!!

i'm pretty sure this is one of those fluke posts we get every now and then but, just in case, as everyone pointed out... no.

No matter if she consents or not, to sex or just oral, it is *still* considered statuatory rape and indecency with a child.
You can be held and tried on both of those accounts and possibly more.

Think about it for a minute.  Do you want to go down to to juvi and spend quiet a few years there and then perhaps, when you reach 18, go to regular prison?
I'm thinking not.

Well she's his step cousin, so technically they aren't related.
No matter that, I would definetly say NO.
Are you still a virgin myboo? is your cousin?
Im hoping the answers are yes, but now a days, you never know.
I agree, she is just 9 yrs old. You say she's into that kinda stuff and she'd do it? what exactly does that mean? Are you just seeing if you CAN get her to do it?
Has she already made advances at you in a sexual manner?

To answer your question, NO to both sex or oral. If you just totally feel that YOU have to have sex right now, at least find a girl who is your age. I would prefer you wait a little while longer, but ya know?
Besides, think of the consequences. And doing something like that w/ a family member (step or not) usually makes things weird and uncomfortable for all parties involved.

This just might be the most disturbing post I've seen since being here, but anyway...NO! Do not have sex with your 9 year old cousin. She is only 9 years old and she's your cousin! Wait til you're older and seek out someone not directly related to you(more distant than 3rd cousin, as the law would require for marriage would be a good start.) Note: to determine what level cousin you are, find the members of your family who are cousins(ie.their uncle's son/daughter would be their 1st cousin). For every generation on each side, add 1. So if your mom and someone are cousins, you're that woman's 2nd cousin, her children are your 3rd cousins, etc. I only explain because many people don't know this for some reason.

Its very simple, NO.

Plz oh god plz WAIT, go play with ur friends for another 2-3 years before you start wanting attention from the opposite sex.

Stay in school my advice. Your cousin is a kid, you are kid as well. And i boleive the last thing she thinks about is sex, you as well, with all due respect.

WHAT IS HAPPENING TO THIS WORLD?