whats the point in having sex with some one your not comfortable around?
what do you mean your fooling around with him?

If he has been "foolin around" with you then he must not mind your body. I would think that he would probably deffinitely go for having sex if you want to.

Everybody has something about him- herself that we do not like or at least wish was somehow different. With guys it is most often a penis thing. Girls have a breast thing. Yet when a guy falls for a girl, he pretty much falls hook, line, sinker, and with the parts yet to be seen as well. Don't worry. If he is with you, we wants you.

The sexiest thing a woman can do is be confident! I have cellulite, a tummy bulge and imperfect skin, but I know that if he wants me, he thinks I'm sexy. Just know that he wants you and don't worry about the way you look. Yeah, I don't have an airbrushed, photoshopped body either, but I don't worry about it in the least when we are getting busy.

If he is your boyfriend I do not think he is disgusted by you. Keep that chin up!

If in the end you still feel uncomfortable, things can take place in the dark and/or you wear a dress or skirt, something that requires little disrobing.

Just don't become dependent on hiding yourself.

If you do not like your body then you have two choices:

1. fix it through proper diet and exercise
2. just tell him to keep his eyes closed

Males are truly not all THAT particular and if they like you as a person, they usually will accept your body as it is. The vast majority are just happy that you're paying attention to them.

if you are of a larger build thats nothing to be ashamed about, you could keep a top on or even go fully clothed like have a skirt on and no undies then go for it,

Emo...let me give you some advice...I am not a model, I am not well hung, I do not have washboard abs, chiseled arms. In fact I dont have a very flat stomach it does have a bit of a bulge lol. The first time my girlfriend pulled off my shirt...I thought I was going to have a heart attack cuz I was just soo...ashamed of my body, but I faked it and pretended I had confidence after she said she liked being able to touch my actual body...so I faked and I would take my shirt off when we would make out after a while...she liked it, and she even started complimenting me on my body....today i stand before you confident about my appearance.

JUST BE CONFIDENT!!! fake it if you mus, and it will eventualls come to you.

CONFIDENT, imo, is the most sexy thing a girl can have. every body is beautiful (although there are some acceptions) is he a virgin?? if he is the 1st time you have sex he will be more worried about him that what you look like.

Even though this may not apply to your situation specifically, trust me, there is a demand out there for EVERY type of female physique.

That is true...in fact I think nowadays women who are slightly larger are in more demand since they actually have curves and are not like haveing sex with a tube...like an incredibly skinny woman.

And I understand that people were trying to give you ideas on how to help you feel comfortable. But the human body should be celebrated, not hidden during sex. you should be able to relax and not feel like you must hide behind clothing, dont fear what you are born with, be proud and celebrate you curves, or lack of them. Because every woman out there has at least one man who finds their body to be utterly perfect....cellulite and all!

i agree with ducy im not perfect my gf thinks im really skinny but its just who i am after 4 years of being called anorexic in high school i thought i was, then i met my gf who thought i was thin but not to thin yes you can see my hip bones but i cant put weight on its just who i am you should be happy with your body in all its glory.

As long as she is healthy whatever size she is is fine.