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Vocal Orgasm Technique

I copied and pasted this from another site (www.sosuave.com). I thought it was a very interesting technique but wanted to know have any guys ever been successful with it? And wanted to know the ladies opinion on it.

FR-- "vocal" orgasms? Proof that "teasing" works!

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hey, I was just wondering, how many people out there have been able to get a girl to climax through talking to her? I was actually thinking about this due to a recent experience, and that it came up on another post I just replied to....

I think that this is the BEST romance/sexuallity treatment I've ever found for a lady that I'm already sexually active with, or one that seems eager, yet restrictive or hesitant about actually having sex. It does require that an attraction already be present, but thats an easy thing to be aware of...

I've had this happen in my experiences a bunch of times, but the most recent one simply amazed me... I dunno if I'm just talented (thats why I'm asking how many others out there have been able to do this!!) , or if she's just that much into me, or what... but I had to post about it.... to get others ideas, and see if anyone else is using this method...

First, let me say, that this lady and I are attracted to each other, and comfortable with each other, if this is something you're trying with a girl for the first time, proceed slowly... timing, and PATIENCE are the key!!
I didn't even have to kiss her, I just talked softly into her ear while holding her, and after a few moments she had multiple orgasms... she and I have discussed that she isn't the type to have multiple orgasms.. before she was with me she never had any M.O's maybe one or two single O's in the act of sex. We have had a sexual relationship now for a few months, and are really a well matched pair sexually, although I have been able to do this at clubs with ladies that were complete strangers, and have also been using this technique for over 8 years now....

We were just sitting out on my patio, talking. when she stood up to go inside, I stood behind her, held her close to me ...eventually, after the first O I turned her around to face me since it was getting harder to hold her up.... all I talked about was what I wanted to do (sexually) with her, like kissing her gently all over her stomach, and her lower back, told her in many different ways how and what about her I thought was beautiful, what I liked about her, described what I found sexy about her ( verbal/ mental KINO), used some slight KINO, caressing her neck and lower back brushing her ear lobe with my lower lip while I spoke ... I never once kissed her, or even had my hands below her waist. within maybe a minute she climaxed....really hard!! a few moments later, I was having to hold her up becuase her legs gave out from a multiple O. It left her entire body shaking, and sweating....and of course desiring more.. what really set her off, and I mean, turned her on to the point she couldn't hold back anymore, was talking about giving her oral pleasure ( no I wasn't "dirty", the key words I used were, "gently, passionately, etc" I.E> "wanting her hands on my head while I gently kissed her thighs" how I was " craving her legs tight around my neck"... that sort of thing.. use your imagination! and telling her I wanted her to be in control,)... and the fact that when she FINALLY calmed back down, I led her inside, laid her down, and just held her in my arms... made her loose contol.... within a few minutes she was taking action over everything I had described, and literally begging me for more... we ended up going at it all night.... LOL we paused only so she and I could call in sick to work, since we were both worn out from an all night session....(maybe 9-10 hours non stop!), and ended up collapsing a little later in each others arms....

This is a very Erotic, and sensual method of "inspiring", is the best word I can think of, a women to tap into her sexuallity... this works really well to get a shy girl to open up... its a borderland between submission and dominance.... Using this method properly, I've been able to make myself through the use of colourful language, the "submissive", while being completely dominant of the lady... tell her how much you want her to control you... women get OFF on that!

ok. enough ranting from me... I'm really interested to see what feedback this gets!!

Has any guy done this before, or any lady had this done to them, or som'n close to it?

www.sosuave.com

your link didnt work so i fixed it

I'm not sure this analogy will work... but which member of the orchestra makes the music?

You do not "get a girl to climax." You may contribute to the cause, certainly... but whatever "technique" you use holds no magic in and of itself. You did acknowledge that there must be "attraction" present but I think you are underestimating the attraction and her role in the experience and in so doing are actually limiting the power of it.

The ultimate orgasm is driven by an overwhelming and overflowing sense of passion and love, trust and intimacy. Doesn't matter whether it's done with words or a dildo, actually. Still, some skill is involved... and I think a couple can develop skills... he can learn to "inspire" with words... she can learn to allow her mind to push her body... he can "tune in" to her wants and needs... she can "tune out" everything except what she feels...

But absent the genuine sharing of love, passion, intimacy and trust it really might just be considered another form of masterbation. I'm not trying to diminish your erotic experience, just suggesting you rethink it.

In other words... nope, haven't done "this" before... we've done more. Sorry, but you're not getting details. LOL

I'm probably letting the greatest tip in world out...but...the best sex ear candy is some Barry White being played....LOL....

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