It could...You never know... It always depends on the girl. I am very active in sports and stuff, and i was fingered before i had sex and it hurt me a lot, So it really depends
Good answer, and yes, much of how the experience unfolds is based upon how the two of you approach it. In addition, are the physical aspects that may be contributing factors; those being whether the hymen is intact, and, how pliable the vaginal opening is at the time. From your description it seems as if the hymen is not a factor and with the ability to accept a couple of fingers, the opening has probably expanded sufficiently to accept a penis.
There are a couple of key factors to consider. First, that the two of you spend plenty of time arousing each other. The more aroused you are, the more prepared you will be physically and mentally. Plan to devote no less than half an hour to this and more (within reason) if possible. Second, consider using the Woman Superior position in which the man reclines face up and while the woman straddles his body facing him. You can kneel or squat and rest on your hands or forearms or rest upon him. The benefits of using this position for initial intercourse are that you control the placement and to some extent the angle of penetration, the amount of pressure used during insertion, the speed and depth of penetration, the timing, speed and tempo of stroking, and then thrusting. Another important benefit is that this position is one of the few that permits a woman to have intimate and nearly continuous contact of her genitals with the man in order to generate the required friction to help bring about an orgasm. Now, having said that, do not expect that first intercourse will go without a hitch or will result in an orgasm for you; therefore, many sexperts recommend having an orgasm before intercourse if it is your wish.
Your partner can participate by raising his hips to match your movements, and, he has ready access to your face, front, including breasts for his caresses. The position benefits women moreso than men so if he is not able to orgasm, you can take care of this, later. Meanwhile, you can rock and wiggle against his pubic area to stimulate yourself as needed.
I mentioned, above, about taking your time and devoting plenty of time toward arousal and preparedness; so too, should you go slow with the actual insertion. You control the placement of the penis and the amount of pressure used to pass through the vaginal opening. Do not shove, or, jab, just use pressure as required.
Not in the least.
Consider that many women have hymens particularly in Middle East cultures and other places. Shucks, even in Western societies to some extent, although being much more physically active, this is becoming less and less the norm. That said, if bleeding as a result of the hymen rupturing was a bad thing...well, you complete my thought.........
i don't wanna bleed everywhere, my boyfriend doesn't even know i'm a virgin, n that would give it away n be pretty embarrassing! also, imagine if i bled all over his bedcovers, i'd feel awful!
What's wrong with being a virgin? A lot of guys find that a turn on, actually. I wouldn't be worried about it if I were you, and if it's a problem for him, then girl I'd reconsider giving my virginity to him if I were you
i second that ^
if he is turned off by your virginity-- he isn't worth keeping around. most guys will find this a mix of intimidating and exciting, with more of the latter. i bled just a little my first time and the guy was extremely caring and sweet about the entire experience...i was very glad that i held out for someone who really cared about me and it made it much more pleasantly memorable
yea, and if you tell him, and you Do bleed, you wont bleed on hid Good bedcovers, cause he can put something down, like another blanket or something, ya know?
It could...You never know... It always depends on the girl. I am very active in sports and stuff, and i was fingered before i had sex and it hurt me a lot, So it really depends
Good answer, and yes, much of how the experience unfolds is based upon how the two of you approach it. In addition, are the physical aspects that may be contributing factors; those being whether the hymen is intact, and, how pliable the vaginal opening is at the time. From your description it seems as if the hymen is not a factor and with the ability to accept a couple of fingers, the opening has probably expanded sufficiently to accept a penis.
There are a couple of key factors to consider. First, that the two of you spend plenty of time arousing each other. The more aroused you are, the more prepared you will be physically and mentally. Plan to devote no less than half an hour to this and more (within reason) if possible. Second, consider using the Woman Superior position in which the man reclines face up and while the woman straddles his body facing him. You can kneel or squat and rest on your hands or forearms or rest upon him. The benefits of using this position for initial intercourse are that you control the placement and to some extent the angle of penetration, the amount of pressure used during insertion, the speed and depth of penetration, the timing, speed and tempo of stroking, and then thrusting. Another important benefit is that this position is one of the few that permits a woman to have intimate and nearly continuous contact of her genitals with the man in order to generate the required friction to help bring about an orgasm. Now, having said that, do not expect that first intercourse will go without a hitch or will result in an orgasm for you; therefore, many sexperts recommend having an orgasm before intercourse if it is your wish.
Your partner can participate by raising his hips to match your movements, and, he has ready access to your face, front, including breasts for his caresses. The position benefits women moreso than men so if he is not able to orgasm, you can take care of this, later. Meanwhile, you can rock and wiggle against his pubic area to stimulate yourself as needed.
I mentioned, above, about taking your time and devoting plenty of time toward arousal and preparedness; so too, should you go slow with the actual insertion. You control the placement of the penis and the amount of pressure used to pass through the vaginal opening. Do not shove, or, jab, just use pressure as required.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
probably..and probably not.
considering that a tampon (and/or 2 fingers) is not as big as a penis should be, it could hurt a little.
depends.
and she probably wont bleed right?
that again depends on the girl.. I bled a tad bit..nothing to worry about though, if she bleeds, it's all natural...a lot of girls bleed....
yes.
but is that a bad thing?
Not in the least.
Consider that many women have hymens particularly in Middle East cultures and other places. Shucks, even in Western societies to some extent, although being much more physically active, this is becoming less and less the norm. That said, if bleeding as a result of the hymen rupturing was a bad thing...well, you complete my thought.........
i dont think bleeding is bad?
i don't wanna bleed everywhere, my boyfriend doesn't even know i'm a virgin, n that would give it away n be pretty embarrassing! also, imagine if i bled all over his bedcovers, i'd feel awful!
^^^i think he prefers knowing that ur a virgin and if you wana lose it to him i say you tell him
What's wrong with being a virgin? A lot of guys find that a turn on, actually. I wouldn't be worried about it if I were you, and if it's a problem for him, then girl I'd reconsider giving my virginity to him if I were you
i second that ^
if he is turned off by your virginity-- he isn't worth keeping around. most guys will find this a mix of intimidating and exciting, with more of the latter. i bled just a little my first time and the guy was extremely caring and sweet about the entire experience...i was very glad that i held out for someone who really cared about me and it made it much more pleasantly memorable
yea, and if you tell him, and you Do bleed, you wont bleed on hid Good bedcovers, cause he can put something down, like another blanket or something, ya know?