Hi, um this is really weird for me because I dont normally like asking questions or getting help on anything but this has been worrying me.
About two weeks ago i lost my virginity to my boyfriend and it hurt alot, which surprised me cuz I knew it hurt a little but not as much as it did. Another thing that kind of surprised me was the fact that my hyemin was still intact, I thought it had broken years ago in one of my various activities. But my problem now is that everytime we have tried since, or even when he fingers me, he starts hitting this one spot that just hurts like hell. It even hurts afterwards for awhile. It is like this throbbing pain and it just feels like he is hitting something he shouldn't be. It is painful, and I feel horrible because I know he feels guilty and horrible for making me hurt. I wanted to know if this is normal or if I should go talk to a doctor or something?
Wed, 05/03/2006 - 13:30
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Virginity and Pain
Every woman should have a complete gyn exam (see Branye's Chick Chat) before becoming sexually active. In your case, it is time now to get that checkup and tell the doctor exactly what you are experiencing.
Could be something very simple; could b more complex. Check it out, NOW.
See thats the thing; I have just recently; like two weeks before we had sex, gone to the GYN and she told me everything was fine...thats partly why I am slightly worried
OK, good for you. That makes it more important to see her again. A little nick with a scalpel could solve everything. You are sore at this point and, perhaps, just a rest will be what is recommended.