Recently I read a post on this forum which got me thinking.
So far I have had only one serious relationship, thing is after reading said post and remembering what I did with my ex got me thinking.
Am I actually a virign.
I can't decide so I thought it would be a big help if I asked on this forum as you are all very nice people. 
What happened was:
It was quite late at night and my ex and I were making out when she straddled me and began sort of rubbing against me.
She then unzipped my jeans and our genitals met through our under-clothes.
The rest is a little hazy but she said through our clothes I penetrated half way up her vagina.
Does this mean I am not a virgin?
Sorry if this is a stupid question but I really need to know. I hope I am still a virgin as we broke up and I want the first time to be with someone special.
well then there ya go. you answered your own question.
by your definition you are still a virgin and by your original post, that's something special to you.
so hold on to that till you find that someone special.
I think i'd say we were both still virgins. We kept nearly all our clothes on.
It lasted about a minute and no one came.
That doesn't really seem like sex, it didn't really seem like I was inside her anyway.
Any other opinions still welcome, thanks.
It really all depends on your definition of being a virgin.
To me, losing your virginity means penetration. Even though you still had some of your clothes on, penetration was still made and that to me means you are not a virgin.
However, to others you are still a virgin.
Some do not consider you not being one till one of you came. Others will say that since you still had your underclothes on, and full penetration wasn't made, you are still a virgin.
So again, it all depends on your definition of it.