Hello Room
I am a first time user of the message board as well as to oral sex, which is why I am placing the post.
I am actually 20 years old and I am still a virgin, which is not the probably for me. Here lately I have been very curious not just about intercourse but about sex overall. I am not ready to make love to the guy that I have been dating but I am curious about other things. The one in paticular would be, and sorry to be so direct, but "eating out" We have talked about it and my boyfriend isn't pressuring me into doing anything, it is actually just my curiosity.
But my whole problem is that I am just nervous. This is going to sound wierd but I really need the advice or someone else opinion that may have had the same problem as I. But I would like for him to eat me out but I am scared that he may say that I smell down there!! I myself don't experience any vaginal odor but its just like the one thing on the mind that makes me paronoid about the situation!
So anyone with any help please help my clueless soul.
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Thanks
Tue, 06/15/2004 - 22:10
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Virgin to Oral Sex help
Hi and thanks for responding!!
Any tips help out alot!
We have been dating for a while and I really like him alot and he is really experienced so he has done just about all of it!
Sometime when we fool around or kiss it gets a little heated but because I am a virgin to it "all" I always end it. He has never pressured me into doing anything and once I even mayed mention to him but he refused because we were both under the influence so....
But I guess I feel like I have kept my virginity for so long that I don't want to lose it over a heat of the moment thing. Rather planned out and made into a special event. I have always wanted to wait until marriage but here recently curiosity is getting the best of me and I really like this guy and it is like he is opening these sexual feelings inside that no other guy has before.
But until the right time comes I will wait!!
But I will keep your tips in mind.
Thank you
i know how you feel i was a virgin till i was almost 23.
although, i was more nervous about giving him oral than him giving me oral.
we'd already had sex a couple of times before i got the nerve to do it to him lol.
anyways, you shouldn't worry so much about it.
has he asked to do this to you yet?
has he done it before?
i would just suggest if you know you guys will be together and might be fooling around to prepare yourself a little.
try to have taken a shower fairly recent so that you will be clean down there, or both take a shower together.
maybe even shave or just trim up real good down there to surprise him.
im sure he would appreciate that lol.
other than that, just go w/ the flow and enjoy. it is definetly worth it