I have a guy friend who wants to video tape us having sex. What is the risk in doing this? Since he will be in the video, do you think its unlikely he'd distribute it? :confused:
Sun, 03/05/2006 - 05:35
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Videotaping Sex
My personal advice would be to not do it. Once you have something on tape, you're pretty much assured it is permanently and cannot be taken back. Like your guy friend for example, even if you're totally sure that he'd be against distributing currently (which you don't even sound sure about), you don't know how he may feel about it in the future. Also, another possiblity is that it could wind up in someone else's hands besides his, and then who knows what would come of it.
All these are pretty much disaster scenarios, and it is entirely possible that you could do this and nothing bad come out of it whatsoever. But, just personally speaking, the risk of things getting out of my hand is too much for me.
Well I pretty much figured that since he'd be in the video as well, he wouldn't want to distribute it.
This can be risky. I've seen numerous "revenge" videos posted by annoyed ex boyfriends where the guy's face was clearly visible.
Though more often they post still photos of the woman only.