I made a tape with my first serious girlfriend when we were 17 or so. I'm now 29 and she still has the tape.

I don't have a copy and that doesn't bother me. If she shows anyone then that's fine by me too.

Cheers,

Ringo

lol
Yeah thats totally illegal.
taping a person and them not knowing it... eww.. thats sick.

i've been trying to talk my fiance into doing it but she doesn't really want to. i went to high school with a guy that bought one of those little "spy cams" and cut a hole in a little tin box and put it by his bed and stacked some cd's on top of it. it was kinda gross watching him but i got to see a lot of the girls in my classes being royally effed! a little illegel i think, but whatever.

Hmmm... unfortunately, I've heard a few horror stories that won't make the wife feel a whole lot more secure and confident... tapes falling into the wrong hands... spouses turning mean after a divorce...

In one case, a home burglarized and the private collection stolen. Now that's stress! You can wonder for years when your naked body is going to show up somewhere!

In short, her fears are somewhat justified. The only way to pursue this is come up with a mutually acceptable plan that isn't based on paranoia, but does accomplish "risk reduction."

So many of these issues are about comfort, security, confidence, and trust!

Yes, but it is like listening to your voice on a tape recorder....somehow it just doesn't sound like it's you.
The other problem is your camera is in one vantage so there
isn't any zoom in and out or variety of angles.

Imagine it like looking thru a keyhole at a couple having sex.

I told her she could erase the the tape afterwards which she did as we didn't have anyone we wanted to show it to or any need to keep it for postarity.(and heaven forbid she have it to gage the growth of the width of her butt a few years later)
Wouldn't that be sweet....watching our XXX and her crying about her butt having grown larger???

eDJ