Yeah it can be really sexy, but do make sure you do it with one you trust completely and hang on to the tape/disc yourself.

I am sure your man will love the idea.

I would love it, my wife would hate it. Discussion over.

Buck: not to argue the point, and not to discredit you for your 'discussion over' position, because I applaud it.....

But what's so alluring about video taping it? I just don't get that. Anyone??

it depends on the guy, i personally have no real interest in that, but i can see where a guy would like that, the good thing about this kind of idea is i doubt that he will be repulsed by the idea so you should bring it up to see if he wants to

Honestly, I would just love to see my wife having sex from a different point of view. I really don't think I would keep a copy of it. It's just a curiosity more then anything.

Sure but I wouldn't ever trust the data out of my hands. It'd have AES, Serpent, Twofish, and all the combination of those encryption methods and my RAM would be flushed every time I unlocked and mounted the file and only on a computer that was not connected to the internet.

In other words, it'd be hot but it's not worth the risks unless with someone 100% trusted combined with the same security measures I'd take with Classified documents.

[QUOTE=lnt1103;224973]Buck: not to argue the point, and not to discredit you for your 'discussion over' position, because I applaud it.....

But what's so alluring about video taping it? I just don't get that. Anyone??[/QUOTE]

Curiosity. Sometimes things can be so intense that both parties only remember vague details. It's interesting see one's most intimate moments from another point of view. There have also been plenty of times in the heat of the moment that I've found a very specific angle/position that works wonders but the sex continues way past whatever that one thing did and I can't recall the specific motion for it. Possessing a negligible refractory period myself and having been with multi-orgasmic and very well lubricated partners tends to result in frequent sex marathons that can last the entire afternoon/evening with quite a lot of penetration from shallow and gentle to fast hard and deep and everything in between on top of all of the foreplay and oral involved. It's hard to keep track of what the heck just happened sometimes.

There are also many people in long distance relationships, especially military, who want to have a more tangible memory for certain moments.

[quote=wannabehis4ever;224958]are guys turned on by the idea of their gf suggesting taping sex session? i'm thinking it would be totally hot but didn't know what males think about (or even females)[/quote] Never tape or photo anything you may not be happy with your family, friends, grandparents, employer seeing. This is one major rule; people get angry at times & do odd things. You may never expect where the pictures are uploaded to.

One way to get around this which I saw somewhere is to set up the camera to display directly onto a tv and have sex in front of it without recording, then both parties are safe from the tape getting leaked. If I were to do it, that is probably how I would do it. But really it doesn't hold a big appeal for me.

Taping could be very hot, but so could mirrors. I remember having sex in front of a mirror (ex had a double door closet, which had mirrors on them) and when I looked over to see the way her hips were moving while she was on top, I came so hard she thought I pssed out.

I think its just a visual aspect.

Mirrors are indeed awesome, but I kind of like trust in a relationship. I would never share a movie of any of my ex's and I am sure they would show the same respect too.

See pornhub.com, there are many home made videos. see the wife and husband or sincere loving partners, the good thing about them are you can see the face expressions of some of them, enjoying their partners(wife and husband) even some getting hurt or shy if the wife is forced or little willing into doing the video, see them with your wife /partner before you start the camera. well all which i have seen are foreigners to me so do not worry that someone might recognise you or your wife, try it you will love it. I have done it , kept for a while , then distroyed it, but we still remember it. now we have big mirror in our bedroom which is also like watching our sex act (in privacy no hackers to bother)

Have before and is a little weird watching yourself having sex, but when you are alone watching for your own gratification, looking at you partners naked, moving body can be very arousing and fun

Hell Yeah!!!!!!!!!
To be honest a women suggesting to watch Porn is sexy too me too!

For the most part we are turned on anytime a woman suggests something, especially if it's a little dirty or kinky. We sometimes wonder if women are into exploring as much as we are and it gets old being the one who has all the ideas. I am sure most men would love to star in their own porn video and the fact that a woman suggests it is going to make it all the hotter.

My wife and I do! We are bisexual and enjoy group sex. The group that we are with are all bi and we have made some videos that are for our own use only. We love to go to Hedonism II in Jamaica. It is a nudist resort that allows sex in the open almost anywhere on the grounds. It is great to have others watch us having sex & watch other people as well.

Did it once with my ex... It was awesome... but we got rid of it shortly afterwards for discretion purposes.

When we have a sex party, we usually start with a porn video. They are purchased ones & some of our own. They get us warmed up, as if we were not warmed up all ready.

It can be very sexy, sex is a part of life and film is often about catching life unawares. Some of the most reveiling moments come from the heat of a moment, you'll forget the camera is there and loose yourself in the passion of it all.

the key is to not take it off the camera and just record over it later, remember all digital recording is destructive recording. So the only way someone will get it is if you up load it onto your computer, or make a copy. Hook the camera up to a TV and enjoy, after a couple days later, erase it.

Made a video - watched it afterwards - and all I saw was EVERY figure flaw both of us possessed - yeah, THAT was a "turn on" - riiight.

Burn, baby, burn!

but its the flaws that make us the most beautiful...who am i kidding, take some time to light it and toss on at least a small blur filter. Oh and not too much of that POV shit.

[FONT="Comic Sans MS">Never, ever have video sex. You will always have a nagging fear that it's out there for anyone to exploit. As for men enjoying watching themselves have sex... They'd rather go to the dentist.

Later Gator[/FONT]

The thing is - to do it so it looks decent - you have to have a film crew there - doing what it is they do.

And I'd rather not.

I've done it.. but far from a Hollywood production. A couple of times on the mobile phone and here and there with a camcorder.

It was more for the novelty of just seeing myself and having a bit of a laugh.

I've got a funny story about this actually. I was once at a 21st Birthday party, and long story short, I ended up in a bedroom with a bird. Things were going well.. the clothes were off! Anyways, I look up and notice about 4 camera phones poking through the door.. my mates decided to film it. And the second I seen it being filmed, I just lost "it". Talk about stage fright. :o

You don't need a crew, just one person who knows what they're doing. Trust me.

Tried that too - didn't help.
Hard to stroke AND take the video simultaneously.

From personal experience, it can be very fulfilling....as long as you are into that kind of thing (Exhibitionism, Voyeurism etc) I hadn't until my current partner brought up the idea, and have found that it's a definite turn-on for both of us. It has a different effect on us, however, as we're not in an actual relationship, but are just sleeping together, and we'll watch the videos in-between the times that we see each other. Both of us have very nice bodies (I work in modelling, he works in a military trade) and as such I haven't come accross the flaw issue. He has, however. It can be a really sensitive subject, but brought up right can be fun!

As for the filmcrew, it depends also on (if you watch) what type of porn you prefer. We both prefer (and watch together) amateur films, as they feel very in-the-moment, the camera catches everything while making you realize that it's a set of real people. The camera fumbles can be fun too, as you see big smirks and laughs (I find sex hilarious occasionally).

Just depends on what you're into.