Out of curiosity, what does a man think when a woman has a vibrator? Is it a turn-on or does a man feel threatened thinking that he cannot give pleasure to the woman?
Tue, 12/20/2005 - 14:03
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Vibrators for Women
Its awesome for a woman to own a vibrator. But dont make the mistake of using it after sex. That makes a man feel very inadequate. I have had my girl squirting and screaming and gone for over an hour. I thought it was a great session. Then when Im spent, she takes the vibrator and has a few more clit orgasms. Talk about busting my bubble.
Hey I think it's great as long as she lets me use it on her some of the time, and also lets me watch her play with it some of the time.
Every man I've talk to think that it's extremely hot when a woman owns a vibrator. And like it's been said a lot of them really enjoy being part of the fun or just watching. My boyfriend likes to help me out by playing with my boobs, kissing me, whispering naughty things in my ear, etc....
And I'd like to make a comment about what GoodWood's post. Women shouldn't be afraid to use a vibrator after sex. There's no reason for the woman or the man to feel bad if this happens. It doesn't by any means have to mean that the sex was bad. Since women are able to have multiple orgasms a lot of women are not done just because the man is. Men should be understanding of this fact and shouldn't be offended if a woman uses one. I sometimes feel the need to masterbate after sex and my boyfriend has no problem with it. Like I mentioned before, he even helps me. It is not at all because the sex was bad. For me it's because I get so turned on by his orgasm that even if I have just orgasmed experiencing his orgasm just starts the fire again.
Thank you everyone. We've been together for almost 8 years and don't talk about sex much, although he wants it all the time
My libido has risen these past few weeks (I am sure he is happy) and now I am feeling that I need to satisfy him more and vice versa. The same old position, etc. is getting dull and now I think it's time we spice up things and start being more communicative of our wants and needs.
My libido has really sucked for over four years due to having a couple of children during that time and pregnancy and being so exhausted. But now, well, it's coming on stronger.
My boyfriend bought me a vibrator at my request, and his only rule was that he use it on me first! I was so happy with it, we use it a lot, on him and on me, and he never feels inadequate, I made sure that didn't happen. Nothing wil ever replace him.
Every guy I've ever met gets turned on if I even show him my vibrator. If I let him help, they all go nuts :)
I get a new one for my wife once and a while. She likes when I use it on her before sex. We don't use it all the time. But it's nice to make things interesting sometimes. About using it after sex. I have tried that on my wife but she sayes it tickles after we are done.
After an seeing my friend when I was on holiday about five months ago, he suggested I get a vibrator as I was still "tight" for him to insert his big vibrator into me as I found it painful. I actually enjoy myself with it and have told him that should we meet up on my next visit to where he lives next month (going back there on a holiday you see). Have also told him that I would like to use it on him given the chance. But I actually enjoy my little friend most nights...
I think it's freeking awesome. I helped my girlfriend pick out hers and then she promptly took me to her bedroom and I watched as she tried it out. She uses it when I’m not around or sometimes during sex. I don’t mind at all. Just so long as we are having fun, it's all good ^^
Vibrators are the only way that I reach orgasm. They are the greatest inventions since traffic lights!
I found that men love when i tell them i use a vibrator and ask if they can watch me using it! Sometimes They want to use it on me! They are the best things to own
i just got one for my gf and am SOOOO looking forward to using it on her (shes been away 6 weeks, only 3 days to go yay) i figure it'll be less strain on my fingers and tounge. anything to get her off, more and better. i got the "ultimate pulse dolphin" anyone have anything to say about it?
interested in jack rabbit vibrator.
anyone had any experience with one