I don't know about your Mrs mate.. but I can guarantee her vibrator isn't being insecure and getting worried about being replaced.

But anyways, whats the basis for your thinking mate? She slowed down how much times youse are spending in the bedroom? Lets get to the bottom of that before we start having visions of you seeing the Mrs walking down the road hand-in-hand with her battery powered friend..

Toys are one thing
Vibrators are part of the fun
You are another thing and funner than all the rest. People have toys and use them as an adjunct to their partnership. You are worrying about the wrong thing. Better to learn how to become (an even more) skilled lover. Begin by reading the articles listed in the Index.

If you are pleasing her, then the vibrator is not as good or better than you overall even if it does produce intense pleasure.

unx3 - this is right up there with "should I worry about her reading romance novels?".

Do you really think a machine - any machine - could ever take your place???

Don't worry,My wife does this when we have sex and I think its a thrill to see her come so many times!

[QUOTE=unx3;231126]My wife loves using a massager and vibrator on her clit. Should I worry that this may be taking my place as her lover? I am afraid she will find more fun than me with the massager, etc.[/QUOTE]

Thats asking if she prefer's masturbation to sex...

if you ask yourself the same question... - do you???

Sex for anybody, but I've heard especially women, has a large psychological and emotional component. Vibrators can't fulfill that. You're not so much worried about it replacing you, just it replacing your penis. You could always use the vibrator on her if she prefers it to your tool. Odds are she'll want variety though, and want to make you happy, and not just totally ignore you though.

i was worried the first time we used sex toys that they would eventually replace me as my wife's lovegiver, and for a while they did because i believed in it so largely. but its true what many people are saying here- its a tiny motor that runs on batteries as opposed to the living, breathing, loving and caring body of a person. no matter how good a vibe is, a well prepared session will always be better.

however the vibe and varieties have become part of our sex life. sometimes when we spoon i'd be using the vibe on her as well as myself, adding to both our experience!

often people forget about the other side of this argument as well, which i think has a thread about somewhere... anyways- Will his jerking off replace me? {jase80 hasn't forgot! good on ye!} same story [ish]. there's nothing to worry about.

and i'm glad to see you sorted it out on christmas eve! what a present that must've been! ;)

I've said this before and i'll say it again, nothing, I mean nothing can replace a living breathing man. I dont care if it twirls, jumps, sings, lights up, spins or vibrates NOTHING can replace that very thing that was nature made to pleasure a woman.

Men are the best...which is why I have four of them.

I wouldn't worry too much about that at all. A vibrator will never break up a couple.

My X used to call me at work of her using the vibrator. The only bad part was when I arrived home sometimes I was go to go & she would say I had to much already! WOW I miss her & the teasing.

By the way, they have a vibrator for men also that is incredible when having sex with your partner. You should purchase one while your having sex with her. She'll want you around more often! JMO

Thanks for the smile! :p