I'm assuming that this egg is the type that is placed inside and not in some harness around your vulva and clitoris. I also have the impression that you do not know your body very well.

Every woman's body is shaped differently and responds differently as well. It could be too small, rest in the wrong position inside of you, be too weak, or even just be a cheap and poorly designed product. It could also be your mental state.

Something placed internally is not nearly as likely to provide immediate pleasure by itself as something placed on the clitoris, even if it is the right size and sits in the right position. The nerves are more spread out and many hotspots require heightened arousal that results in increased bloodflow and sensitivity. The same stimulation can feel very significantly different depending on your arousal level. It is quite common for women to be unable to orgasm internally until they have externally.

If you cannot orgasm from vagina stimulation alone, be it the g-spot, anterior fornix, or posterior fornix, then you aren't likely to get too much pleasure from an egg. It might help with foreplay flirting prior to returning home, but it will likely require your mind to already be aroused in the first place.

If it doesn't work for you now, it might very well in the future as you learn more about your body's responses to different types of stimulation. You can also try placing the egg on your clitoris and seeing how that works.

Dear snowgirl,
I think you should take the advice of funinthesun. Hope this will work for you! :)

If it doesn't, than maybe your body is a bit too sensitive. I've got a naughty duckie, my bf bought it for me, so that I could give new flavor to playing with myself. But my problem is that it feels cold, hard (not warm and sturdy yet soft as his penis is). Usually gets me dry within seconds (even with lube, whereas normally I'm like a waterfountain ;)). It vibrates too much, so that in some places, I don't feel it cause it goes numb. In other places, it just hurts. O well, maybe I should get me one of them eggs, cause I know I can get internal orgasms ;)

> It might help with foreplay flirting prior to returning home, but it will likely require your mind to already be aroused in the first place.

YUP! What he says.

Has your boyfriend ever "jumped your bones" and tried to get you all hot and bothered without any general kissing and caressing, first? If so, how did that work for you? More than likely not so much, and, depending upon your mood or expectations at the moment, you may have become slightly annoyed, not so much by what he is attempting, but rather by the shortcut approach.

My first recommendation is to determine if the vibrator has any effect when you are not aroused by trying various placement locations; second, to fool around a bit, first, as noted, above, and then finding a location that is more of a hot-spot than others; third, when you do go out in public, set the mood by flirting, either rubbing your leg against his under the table, or vice versa, holding hands, whispering sweet nothings to each other--anything innocent that will begin to raise your ardor, excitement, and, anticipation. Whether he turns the unit on immediately, or teases you by holding off, you may find that your level of excitement increases as does your anticipation. Either way, continue to flirt and fool around until the inevitable happens!

Experimenting beforehand and knowing where your hot spot is located should help with the placement of the unit, especially if it should shift out of position, later. (I am not familiar with the unit, so if it has two or more speeds, I recommend the slowest one in the beginning. This is true for any vibrator including the larger AC powered wand units.)

So, experiment and learn together, beforehand, then apply what you have learned, privately, out in public. :D :eek: ;)

Why on earth did you by an internal vibe as your first vibe?
Those you insert are not for beginners. Yes, I know you thought it was a cute idea but the reality..well.. not so much fun.

If you are not yet able to achieve orgasm from penetration, then internal vibes will not work. The connection between nerves and brain has not yet been made and you can't really do that with a vibe in the first place. For that your partner is the best 'helper'.

Since you got this egg, the best thing for you is to experiment with it by placing it on and around your clitoris - remember to move it around, as too much in one spot will deaden the nerves instead of stimulate them.

Relax, breathe calmly, and have a wild fantasy going on in your head while using the vibe. See if that doesn't help.