Hey everyone! This one goes to the ladies.
I read somewhere that using a vibrator too often will only make having an orgasm without the use of toys harder. At first I was iffy on this but I seriously thought about it and I think that's what I did. I haven't used it that much but I remember the first time I did the orgasms were intense. Now, they are just alright. Same goes for sex. I don't have an orgasm during sex. And ofcourse the same would go for when my bf puts his hand down there.
I've stopped using it to see the results but I just want some opinions here!
Thanks!
Wed, 04/11/2007 - 04:12
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Vibrator causing problems?!?!
There are complete threads on this. Remember that a quarter of all women never experience orgasm and only a quarter experience orgasm during penetration and thrusting. The other half of us who are orgasmic need something extra.
If you use a vibrator all the time, you may simply become impatient without. I am not a big user of vibrators. I generally use my right hand but do occasionally use my girlfriend's vibrator. It is generally too intense without a towel for padding.
I would hazard a guess that you could desensitize the area but I am not confident that this would be a physical more than psychological dependence.
Dependence on a vibrator can cause a woman have difficulty to have an orgasm having conventional sex
A mans pines will never be able to vibrate like a vibrator dose and there will be very little stimulation for the woman
It is a nice sex toy if not abused
No man wants to be replaced by a toy LOL
Well, actually, if you get a vibrating ring, a penis can vibrate very well! Anyway, toys aren't a replacement, they are an enhancement. :)
If you feel you are starting to become dependant on the vibe, just don't use it as often or as long. You'll be able to acheive orgasms without one again (I'm assuming this was the case before hand) if you give your BOB a tiny break. Which you are doing anyway - let us know how it goes!
Well, I did stop using it ever since I posted the question. I still cannot have an orgasm during sex. We try switching up the positions but still nothing. Luckily my bf likes to go down on me and we haven't had any problems so far. Thanks for the help everyone!
I've put the vibrator away...far away lol.
LOL Just remember that they are fun, but too much use can cause a relapse. haha