[QUOTE=calusari;206517]I just purchased one to use with my guy, and I really want it to be an awesome experience for him. He's never had a woman use a toy on him, so I'm hoping that it will be an unforgettable experience. Anyone out there who has used one, do you have any suggestions/tips for me?

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My wife always uses an anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. He will go wild. Toys we use are Anal T, Anal E-Z Bend, Stectragels Vibrating Anal Tool and Anal Beads. I like them all except the anal beads because it does not vibrate. Recently we purcased a new anal toy-Vibrating Anal Twister Strap On. We use it either as an anal toy or as a strap on. It gives me wild orgasms. All these toys are small and easy to insert with lube. Your guy will love it. Have fun!

H ave never done it with my partners but tell us how it went

Be sure to coat it with lube or saliva, especially the tip...

Make sure to use LUBE, I don't think that saliva really provides enough lubrication to make things comfortable. It helps if you don't have any, but especially for anal play, you really aught to purchase some.

Just go slow and let him control the speed and all. Make sure you ask him throughout how he's feeling and make sure he is comfortable. The most important thing is that he is relaxed and turned on enough to enjoy it, so be sure to do a lot of stuff that really gets him in this state. Don't start off with the toy, start off with your fingers to help him get used to the feeling of it inside of him.

Have you done any other anal play on him? If not, I would recommend that you keep the toy as a sort of goal, but use your fingers first so that you can work your way up to the toy in a week or so. Just think of how you would want your experience to be if it were you.

Is the toy you have a strap on sort or a hand held? Either way, make sure that you are using your hands on the rest of him to keep him relaxed enough. Touch him throughout as much as you can and play with his member also. Keeping him aroused is key. You will also probably find it easier to use a finger to find the entrance then start sliding the toy in.

Tell him how sexy he looks and ask him how it feels and all of that other good stuff. If it is the first time he's had a toy used on him, he will probably feel very much like you did when you lost your virginity. The entire experience is much different from being the penetrator, it is much more vulnerable and self-conscious, so be sure to stay connected with him emotionally throughout. Kiss him and talk to him, it really makes a big difference.

If you have a strap on toy, you will need to get used to the thrusting as it feels very strange for you for a while. It takes practice to get the movement down. It is easier in different positions, but it also depends on your height difference. Practice makes perfect anyway.

If you have a hand held, I find that the most comfortable position for him is usually on his back with his butt elevated on a pillow - so you have better access.

Oh, by the way, I am curious as to what sort of toy it is? Do you know the name of it?