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Very high sex drive

I was wondering if there is anyone out there the same as us. My boyfriend and I have very high sex drives.

It is on our mind all the time, he states that his has been high since he was very young! Plus he never really had girlfriends, he only lost his virginity at 19- we are both 26 now.

I watch the telly and sex is on my mind then. We will go shopping and see couples and then I often wonder "I wonder if they will have sex tonight"

When my boyfriend and I have sex, I want more straight afterwards, I cant get enough of it.

We do it as often as 3 times a day, I love if when we have sex and then just get back to what we were doing.

I was with an ex for 5 years who had a very low sex drive, to the extent that he only wanted it once a week. If we did have sex, he would be tired the next day and need a few days to recover! I used to go into a very bad mood if I did not get sex if I wanted it. I would get jealous of colleagues who say that they had great sex the night before!

If I say to my boyfriend "Do you want to cum in my face?" he will get an erection straight away! That amazes me.

Do you have a high sex drive? Have you been with someone with a low sex drive?

yeah i had a recent ex girlfriend we did it all the time apart from her time of month week, we did it twice on her first periods after we met, never did it after that.
one girlfriend i had a few years ago we would go through stages of doing it alot and other times we wouldnt
i dont see the problem or anything wrong with having a high sex drive, just as long as the partner has one as well or if they dont just work around it

Yes, I do and no, I have never been with a low sex drive man. I wouldn't because if he's not putting out by the second date and regularly thereafter, he's gone.

Kinda sad that some people won't be with others just because the sex doesn't match up, there's more to it than sex

anyway, Caramel_gal, only 3 in a day?
the day after we got married (about a month ago) my husband did me about 9-10 times a day for three days and we still try to sneak it in about 5-6 times a day xD;; (back then it was almost all vaginal, now it's mostly oral except on weekends)

I think that's a high sex drive, it was wonderful, I didn't even bother wearing any clothes, he would just come up behind me and we'd do the Bodyguard position during the day and then anything else at night. Yes, it's kinky to just make out and then continue with what you're doing, although that has nearly cost us a few burnt dinners in the oven xD;;;
He's always up for some fun, and I can never say no because I love it :3
If one of us wants it, the other is more than happy to oblige ^^
(unless we're sick, but even then I can't get enough of sucking him off at least)

A bit ironic F-A that you'd say there was more to it than sex and yet..enjoy sex up to 6 times per day.

In my never to be so humble opinion, there is indeed more to life (and) sex than just sex.

I know that young lovers and lovers young at heart and newly married make love more times those first few months than at any other time in their lives together; however, the "more to it" comes from doing lots of other things, even as mundane as household chores and paying bills, during the day. Better me thinks to spread out those love making sessions so each one takes one more importance, significance, and intensity.

[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;251230]A bit ironic F-A that you'd say there was more to it than sex and yet..enjoy sex up to 6 times per day.[/QUOTE]

it's just a bonus ;3
I enjoy it, but it's not the core of our relationship. Even if my husband couldn't keep up with me I'd still be with him.
it helps strengthen our relationship xD
I've said this in other replies but for me and him, it's like saying "I do!" all over again, and as they say, "actions speak louder than words", so it feels more...binding, i guess, that just verbally saying "I do". Makes the sex much more pleasant having that underlying love and care behind it :3

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;251236]In my never to be so humble opinion, there is indeed more to life (and) sex than just sex.

I know that young lovers and lovers young at heart and newly married make love more times those first few months than at any other time in their lives together; however, the "more to it" comes from doing lots of other things, even as mundane as household chores and paying bills, during the day. Better me thinks to spread out those love making sessions so each one takes one more importance, significance, and intensity.[/QUOTE]

Agreed, my husband and I do a lot more than just sex together. We do chores together, shower together, play videogames together, make meals, etc etc. We try to spread it out but we got married a little over a month ago so it's kinda hard to stay away from each other xDD
though as we pull out of the winter months, chores here on his uncle's farm are gonna eat into our personal time >w<

No, I don't really have a high sex drive.. my ex had pretty much the same as mine.

[QUOTE]Kinda sad that some people won't be with others just because the sex doesn't match up, there's more to it than sex[/QUOTE]
That's true. But sex does have a big meaning in the relationship aswell. If everything is well with your boyfriend for example, but you've never had an orgasm with your partner, or he never touches you, then you lickely won't be very excited at the idea of having sex. Some people actually feel depressed or feel like crying after a few tries of not having any orgasms :/

Yes, yes, you do everything together...for now... but you two have only been married for a month. In time, you will find yourselves having to do the various jobs separately just to get them done - a divide and conquer method - as the house, the two jobs, the kids, the dog, the dry cleaning, the taxes, the biz trips, your family and his family having functions on the same day on opposite ends of another state (don't laugh - it happened to us).

To say that sex is not the core of your relationship is to ignore how profound sex actually is. If you had been male, would you have married him? Denying what you are is almost as bad as denying who you are.

Yes, the lady is quite right to be concerned at the lack of ardor in the man she has selected. A younger man who doesn't want sex at least once a day should be checked out; first for physical ailments and then for mental or attitudinal difficulties.

That she's willing to come here and ask for help shows she's interested in working this problem out and I wish her luck because if he doesn't want to change, he's not going to change and then her decisions will be harder to make and much more painful.

Agreed! Even being married nearly 10 years at age 33; almost 34, and my wife a year younger, we find that once every other day is hardly enough for an hour long or more love making session. Rarely though do we have time or energy for daily, but there are times it happens! It is called having an active family...so sex happens at night as we don't know when the kids will wake in the morning, but rarely do I wake without the feeling of her mouth around my shaft. Luckiest man in the world I am to have married a girl who loves to give oral regularly!

Don't worry though, I make up for it regularly as well!

yes, me and my gf have very high sex drives, we usualy do it at least 3 times a day, usually more. and wen we do it we usualy do it for at least an hour at a time, and yes ive been with people who have low sex drives, i would get tail, maybe once a monthish, i could'nt do it though, and there wasnt much love for them, but when your partner wants to have sex just as much as you do its definately a killer bonus :D

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