Right i have a best friend named Lucy. We are both females and really close. The other day we were just chillin at hers and were lying in her bed when she kissed me and her hands were moving up and down me. We didn't actually do anything but she kept hinting that she wanted too. I'm really confused. She has a boyfriend so what does it mean? Please help.
Thu, 07/26/2007 - 14:49
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Very close girlfriends - Help!
Maybe she is bi?
I know but shes like never done that before. I've always thought about doing stuff with her but i was quite scared when she did that cuz its not like her :S
so maybe shes bi go for it if u want to? unless she was drunk then it might not have been exactly her
Perhaps she has a strong physical attraction to you?
No she wasn't drunk. If it happens again i think i'll just go for it. But do you think it would ruin our friendship? And if she does act like this again , what shall i do to her? Thanks for all your help guys.
I have no answers for you. Why don't you read under "Bisexual, Homosexual, and other behavior" forum heading for some insight.
You mentioned she already has a boyfriend, is this an exclusive relationship? If it is I would say that if you both decide to pursue your feelings for each other next time, that this would constitute cheating. I don't think this would be very fair for the boyfriend. Some relationships end after a partner is found to be cheating, it wouldn't bother you that you could be the catalyst that sets it off? I know SHE initiated the moves on you but you have a brain and you can control your actions and evaluate the consequences. Perhaps next time, instead of just acting on your impulses you should discuss with her what exactly what is going on and what are her intentions, keeping in mind she is in a relationship already.
Just a thought. Please decide wisely and best of luck.