I want to have sex and I'm ready in almost every way. It's just I can't get over the fact that I think and KNOW that i'm too skinny. i'm 5'4 and weigh 90 pounds. im very very skinny and ive come to learn guys want "junk in the trunk". ive got small breasts, and a very small butt. how can i be good at sex if im so skinny? someone please help me on this, i cant get over it.
Fri, 01/07/2005 - 23:01
#1
Verrry Body Concious


hi rosie - be happy with the way u r...im tall n quite skinny, but you should be glad. loads of ppl would kill to be skinny! i'm a virgin, but i know that ur weight wouldn't have ne effect on ur performance
uncreativename
Hi Rosie,
So many people are body conscious... with very little reason. Trust an old hand at this. No matter what body type you are, no matter how you think you look, there will be people in this world who find you attractive. Be you skinny, overweight, tall, short, bald... whatever.
Now, will everyone find you attractive? Of course, not. That can even be said for the Brad Pitts and Sophia Lorens of the world. No one is going to please everyone. Just be happy with how you look and confident that you are the best you there is.
Except in extreme cases... and this doesn't sound like you... sexually ability doesn't depend on body type.
instead of reading about my problem and leaving could u please reply to it.
You cant expect someone to respond right away. People will read a post and not respond because they dont have an answer. You cant just catch an attitude with us over it, your problem isnt exactly common ya know. And if you take a second look, someone DID reply. Just have some patience.
this is so ridiculous. people need to realize this is a message board and not a chatroom; they can't expect immediate replies.
you have to realize this is more like email than a chatroom. people aren't on here constantly. it's something a person might check maybe once a day or once a week, or maybe a couple of times a day. and if someone doesn't have an answer they probably won't reply.
it's too general to say that guys would prefer a little junk in the trunk. everyone has different tastes. some like em skinny, some like em big. you being skinny won't interfere with the actual sexual act. the only challenge is finding a guy who is attracted to you.
hmmmm - 5'4", 90 lbs...... your problem is WHAT again? im 45 and EXACTLY same height and weight. only problem i have with my size is finding jeans that are long enough! clothes are MUCH less expensive in the little kids dept. but i look kinda foolish wearing shirts with barbie written in glitter across the front.
you think youre ready to have sex but dont have junk in your trunk and your boobs are small and youre skinny...
if you want to gain weight and put junk in your trunk, eat more junkfood and refrain from exerting physical movement. sit or lay around eating as often as you possibly can. eat large portions of fatty foods every 2 hours and snack on bags of chips and candy bars and drink soda by the gallons between times.
get together with a good dr and have breast enlargement surgery asap. until then, get bras that will fit your new boobs and stuff em with klenix or socks or whatever will fill the cups until your implants are in.
provided you have surgery next couple of weeks, in less than a month your problems will be solved and your big boobs and body weight and trunk of junk are sure guarantee that your performance in bed will be just as good as good can possibly be
Rosie...you are in about the same boat as me. I'm 5'1 and about the same weigh. Being skinny does not mean that you won't be good in bed. Sex is not sumo wrestling. Believe me. I'm small and my bf is still very very satisfied. A guy who is worthy you having sex with, will love you for who you are, not how you look. However, you might concider putting on some weight, if not for your confidence in how you look, then at least for your health unless your doc said that you're fine. Anyways, if you wanna chat more, PM me
Ok first off, no need to make two posts on something.
Second, I'm 5'2" and only weight roughly 95 to 98 pounds. And believe me when I say, not all guys want "junk in the trunk".
My guy likes me just the way I am.
And if someone can't take you for who you are, then that's not your problem.
And just because you're skinny (or overweight) doesn't mean sex can't be enjoyable or you can't be good at it.
Sex takes time and takes practice. The more you do it, the more you'll get used to it, and the more pleasurable and enjoyable it will become.
But if it bothers you so, as Fury said, try gaining some weight. Go see a doctor, see if he thinks you're too underweight and maybe he can help you gain a little.
You just have remember everyone is built different. Some people are naturally skinny (like myself) and others can gain weight just looking at food.
But just remember you have to learn to accept yourself for who you are. And the sooner you do that, the sooner others will accept you for who you are as well.