Hi there,
So, Valentine's day approaches, and I'm contemplating what to get my girlfriend of nearly a year. She saw this girl at school wearing a sweater, and she said how much she liked it three times, so I'm figuring that that's a safe bet.
I'm also thinking of buying a pair of handcuffs for us to use together. The only reason this came up was because the last time we were having sex, we were talking afterwards and she was telling me all of these things that she'd do to me if I were handcuffed.
So, I'm thinking of buying these, but I'm still a little afraid that she'll open up her present and find a pair of handcuffs and freak! I guess I'm just looking for a bit of reassurance that since she talked about it already, she won't go nuts about it. I'm also wondering whether the fuzzy ones are worth getting? The lady in the sex store recommended them because they are restraining but don't dig into your skin.
Any opinions would be appreciated!
I think its a great idea...just get some furry one's and try not to get the cold metal ones which don't feel nice.
Its a great toy in bed without being too much of a sextoy... more of a sex aid i guess.
Why not? I don't think she'll freak out. If my boyfriend bought me handcuffs I'd love it, but that isn't his style.
I think she'll say "Thanks"! and maybe more beside!
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Hey Andy. Handcuffs are a great gift. They're classic and mild enough that very few people will freak when given them. The furry ones are far preferable to the plain metal ones as they don't dig nearly as much and pretty darn cute. Still, I much prefer velcro SportCuff wrist restraints. They're nylon that's padded with soft fleece and close with velcro. There's a buckle in between to hold them to eachother and you can also separate them and tie them to the bedposts and such. They don't dig at all, are far less likely to break, won't tighten down if you struggle and cut off the blood supply to your hands, and you never have to worry about losing a key and not being able to get out of them. You can find them at most adult stores and on the web. Here's a link in case you'd like to see what I'm talking about.
SportCuffs
Go for it. Maybe you can even find some red and white ones for the holiday.
I think you've goot an almost certain great present if she already told youd shed like to have sex with you while you handcuffed you can't go wrong with that present and even if she doesnt want to handcuff you and isnt into the bondage thing than you can say it was a gag gift.
For those of u with a bit more cash at hand, you might want to try this cool addition to your cache of sex-related items: BONDAGE BEDSHEETS..here's one link: http://www.rubbererotica.com/contents/bondring/ss20.htm
Now, they aren't for hardcore bondage, but they sure do the "jsut tie me down" fantasy..plus, they don't cause any damage to your bedframe (ie: cuffs can scratch).
Check it out!
Hell, yeh. If your woman is the kinky/adventurous sort and loves the times in bed with you, then fluffy handcuffs are the way to go!
Just dont get the plain old metal ones, you'll both regret it later when you can't get off because you're concentrating on where they're stabbing you! I wish my man bought home cuffs one day. Mind you, i bought these "love ties" that are black silky material that you can use as a blindfold or to tie up your lover - they're great because you can do two things at once and it feels great (the blindfold suggestion is also a goodie
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Good on ya, Andy, your girlfriend is very lucky to have such an open minded, initiated boyfriend
Have fun!! Let us know how you went!
I wish my girlfriend would compeletly restrain me to the bed, so I can't even move a muscle, and then proceed to make love to me. Drools!!!. When I bring it up she says she might do it, but I don't know if she is serious.