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Vaginal Opening 101

I was wondering does everyone have 3 holes down there its stupid and i feel that way but which one does the dick go in when u have sex. if you guys to could inform me it would be greatly appreciated!

Just do the same thing. You can't be perfect the first time. You have 2 options, 1 you move your hands around yourself and find what you are looking for, or 2 you have her show you. If you put your penis around where her vaginal opening should be, even if you haven't actually found it, and gently push you should start to slip in.

Are you guys skipping right to sex with no foreplay? Foreplay is going to make everything a lot easier, so do a lot of it. Plus, it is fun.

ok I have a lil problem, here goes: Im 19 now and have had sex before (the last time when i was 14 but it doesnt really count as it was just two teens messin round) however Im seein a new girl and we get on very well but Im scared about sleeping with her for the first time. My problem is this (I'll try not to sound vulgar lol) finding where I'm going so to speak, you know - finding her vaginal opening, how am I supposed to do that, when i was younger I just fumbled about with my fingers and then "followed" them, I very scared about this, surely I dont just wiggle it about and hope for a result, I just want it to be ok and not embarrassing.

Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated

thanks,

Be sure she's ready to "accept" you before you go poking around. Easy answer to your question tho- leave the lights on and look, you can't miss it.

Click on the following link for the Female Anatomy Chart - this will give you a pretty good idea of what is where!

[QUOTE=Quote (mrlink @ Feb. 11 2003,18:24)]Click on the following link for the Female Anatomy Chart - this will give you a pretty good idea of what is where![/QUOTE]
lol i know where am goin its just err well guidin meself if ya get me

If her legs are spread it's not going to be so hard. It's fine to hold it to guide it in, then take your hand away when you get it in. It just slides in, don't worry haha.

Posted by ASR (moved by moderator)

i did some body discovery and found out that the first hole really isnt anything so i couldnt really mix em up since the second hole is so close it goes into that hole i just never noticed anyways sorry to waste ur time. i feel smarter now

ok if you think ur stupid ... i must be even more stupid ... i must have missed something cuz i come up 2 really obvious holes ... then there is a very very tiny one ... what hole is that ... do ppl do things with that one? obviously i am new to this please help

Yeah...this is new to me too.. I mean..I always thought it was 'front door' and 'back door'.... A third..? Is this something that non-virgins like to laugh at virgins for not knowing/realizing? Please..do enlighten, someone...

I strongly suggest that several of you find a book or website that shows female sexual anatomy or reproductive anatomy. The old standard Gray's Anatomy is available in most libraries and has an online site.

If you picture a woman lying flat with the legs spread, inside the labia majora or outer lips you will find the labia minora or inner lips. The outside lips cover everything else when she is not in an aroused state. Within the inner lips from top to bottom (or front to back) is, first, an inverted "v" that is the hood over the clitoris. The clitoris is often not visible until she is aroused. Just below the clitoris less than a centimeter is the urethral opening. This is where the urine comes out. Unlike the male, this is only urinary and not directly involved in sexual functioning. This opening is quite small and often not felt or seen by males. Behind this is the vaginal opening. This is the larger opening that admits the penis and delivers the baby nine months later. behind the vaginal opening is the perimeum discussed recently - it is just a flat space back to the anus. The anus, then, is the third opening. This is a one-way opening and while sensitive, sexually, (I love to have mine played with by finger tips or tongues) it is not intended to be part of sex. Many do engage in anal sex. I have written many posts on this topic. Pregnancy is still possible because of drainage close to the vagina and there is always some damage in anal sex.

maybe its just me but ive only found 2, there maybe 3 but as far as i kno of, im only concentrating on one. if its not the vagina im not goin anywhere near it!!

Posted by ASR (moved and edited by moderator)

I have 3 holes first one i get fingered in the second im usually f***** in and the 3rd aint touched! Is this correct or am i just pathetic beyond all capacity im sorry it was my first time.

hi ASR,

I know you are new here, so no problem. Here are a few tips to make your experience here as pleasant and helpful as possible.

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You all are way ahead of me, I only know of one deep, dark hole. Well, I guess there's 2, but 3? Wow...

Well there is the anus hole, the vagina hole and the urinary hole which she pees out of.  The urinary hole really isn't that noticible anyway.  Hope that helps

I never realised the urniary hole and the vagina were separate.. That's probably funny, I know.. but seriously.. I'd always figured that one didn't "count", if you know what I mean...

LOL im sorry but LOL i've never heard of anyone thinking there were actually like THREE holes, even though in reality there is...LOL...get a diagram!!!

Click on the following link for the Female Anatomy Chart - the answer to all (well, almost all) your questions!

Of course there are 3, but one is most likely not noticeable. The front would be the urethra, or urinary passageway. The second, of course, being the vagina. And third the anus. I dont think it's possible to be fingered in the first one so im not sure why that person said they get fingered in the first one. Don't worry aobut slippin in the wrong hole, its easy, start up top, go down and it just kinda opens up.

hummm I always ready to fill that one love hole...... but what happen the target increased one to three... lol..... difficult to fill three instead of one... ! one is better than three.....!!
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the vaginal opening is easy to find.. it is in the front, but not too high.. the only other hole that you can get mixed up with, is ur urinary tract and that is really small, so if u cant really fit ur finger in it, u know youve got the wrong hole.. also youd have to be pretty dumb to think that the hole in the back of ur girl is the vagina, and if u do think that, i would seriously consider telling your parents that your sex ed teacher is inept... also i would tend to agree with the people who advised to go find some porn and figure it out... there are many sites that u can find out just where her vaginal hole is...

your urinary hole is towards the front of the vaginal opening. it can be hard to find.

[QUOTE=Quote (MrsPickels @ May 10 2005,15:09)][/QUOTE]
I love you MrsPickels!!!

duh.

ME I AM 16 NOW AND I NEVER HAD A PROBLEM I LOST MY VIRGINITY 7 MONTHS AGO AND I FOUND IT BY RUBBING MY PENIS UP FROM THE BOTTOM IT SLIPS IN EASY THAT WAY AND IT WILL BE LESS WORK.

if you want to discover more about your vaginal opening try playing with it when you're horny, stick your fingers in where your feelings lead you and you will discover thats' where the dick goes, or cock, which ever you prefer to call it, i personally discovered it by playing with my opening and when i made myself cum i creamed so i knew that was the right hole

LOL, and if you think that is complicated............

The female opening isn't as simple as many would think. It is complex in its functions and still fairly trouble free.

If you want to study the male organ and its function it will
also leave you saying.....I didn't know all that was there and went on. That is if you are inclined to think it is so simple being a guy.

I've listened to sex ed teachers advocate the marriage license
require a series of test concerning these issues. Such that
a young couple have this understanding prior to marriage in order to give them the knowledge to be responsible adults.
At one time there were more homes for unwed mothers which
schooled the mothers to be while they were there. It was thought to help protect them from making the mistakes again.

eDJ

My God... Hole 1: Urethra- Used for expelling urine.
Hole 2: Vaginal Opening- Your target.
Hole 3: Anus- Backdoor. In my opinion (and my g/fs) this should remain a One-Way street, so to speak. I don't walk this road at all. Go for door number 2, kiddo.

hey, thanks for the advice, i lotioned her up some more, and i sorta teased her, by caressing her inner thy....(kinda not sure what to do down there)... and she got really wet, and I was in. Thanks for the help. Thrid times a charm.......

thanks helluva lot demonbuttercup, i really apreciate the help. Well, I'll try and see ::crosses fingers::

1st Time Pain and Bleeding
read all these posts if you haven't already
as you'll see every girl is different some have trouble their first time...some no pain or bleeding at all.
if she's been masturbating and you've fingered her w/ at least 2 fingere her hymen may already be gone.
also, if she uses tampons it could be gone.
i masturbated and used tampons so my first time was just a little discomfort at first then i was fine... no bleeding at all.
apparently you can see the hymen from the outside. check online for some pics.

thanks for the info, didn't know the angle was more to the back. Since it is her first time, wouldn't she bleed?....and wouldn't i have to "pop her cherry"....I hear that sometimes some girls already have broken their hymen, but if not, how do I know?.....maybe this might be the reason....thanks for ur help

well of course w/ it being her first time she will be tight.
you said she was really wet. thats a  start making sure everything is very well lubed.

have her help you find the place i mean she knows where it is.
just have her help you guide it into the right place. even if she can just get the head right to where you are about to enter.
or, you could finger her and get her worked up and stretched out a little bit then just get into position... leave your fingers at the entrance a little ways so you know where you are going and then put your penis where your fingers are.

everyone has argued that there is 3 holes and someone mentioned a 4th im not sure about that one.
yes there are 3 but only 2 of them are big enough to put a finger/penis in.
thats the vagina and anus.
well the anus is pretty much easy to find...you can't miss it.
another thing you could try is to just rub the head up and down her slit. this feels good especially when you rub over the clit at the top.
rubbing it up and down also makes sure everything gets good and wet then start at the top and just start applying a little more pressure as you slide down and i usually find it glides right in. remember the angle is more toward her back, not just straight in.
hope this helps.

Hi, Im 17 and my girlfriend and I have tried having sex twice now, but to no avail have we suceeded, I know that might sound pathetic, but Im frustrated. I guess it's my lack of knowledge. We are both virgins, and I cant seem to enter her vagina at all. I tried to narrow my problem down, I figured maybe I was putting it in the wrong place, so I looked at the diagrams, and it shows that the vaginal opening is right next to the anus, and that around the area i was. I fingered her on both occasions and she was really wet, but when I tried again, i just simply wasn't getting in. Am I aiming for the right place?, is she too tight for me to get into? should i try some specific position to enhace me getting in. She also feels bad that "it's not working", and I try to tell her it's not her fault at all. Should I suggest anything to her as well, she has begun masturbating, but i didnt see any improvement around the second time..... We trying again soon, and I wanna get it right, I dont know if im putting it in the right place, (I think I am....not much to get wrong there) when i do finger her though, i can hardly get two fingers in, any suggestions?

Actually, there are 4 holes total and in the following order: Urinary tract opening, which is pretty small, followed by that is the Vaginal opening, and immediately after is a very small hole where the outer lubrication is secreted from, can't remember the name of the gland, but it's there... then it's the anus and that's it... therefore there's 4 holes, 2 of which you have to worry about actually getting into: anus and vagina, and it's pretty hard to confuse those two... good hunting

listen guys i know that guys only respond to this but i couldnt help reading. first of all there is only two holes. the pussy hole and the ass hole. when u do anal sex u put ur dick up the ass hole and when u finger a gurl and f*** her; u put ur dick in the cootchie hole. now if u have a friend that's a gurl and ur really close to her lyke brother and sister ask her if u could look at her pussy if u don't know. i am an expert at this stuff believe me. just do more research boys because obvisiously u don't no much about our pussies.

Man, I wish I had this website when I was a virgin. To all the virgins on here looking to take the leap. Try to relax. Easier said than done and it will be easier to relax after a few times, but if it's your first time, ask for assistance. Dont know where something is on her then ask. Same goes for the girls. Dont know where something is on us or what to do, just ask. Something I see missing in this post is communication. I find it hard to believe that people aren't more familiar with the female/male "parts" with so much porn online. I dislike the handdrawn diagrams outlining the parts to. Try to find REAL pictures of REAL men and women. You're not having sex with Homer Simpsons so try to stay away from the cartoon drawings.

And if there are "non-virgins jokes that are played on the virgins for laughs" I haven't been told. Though I always suspected there were as well.

Most important thing is dont be afraid to ask. If you've thought or wondered about something I can gurantee someone has already thought about it or asked it so it dont hurt to ask again.

Here guys, this will solve all your problems.

Click Here.

There, now you'll most likely kick yourself for stressing so much.

See where it says "Opening of Vagina"?
You put it there.

> I was wondering does everyone have 3 holes down there its stupid and i feel that way but which one does the dick go in when u have sex.

WRONG. Pornography is not the place to get sexinfo 101, so to speak. Oh, it might help spruce up your sex life in other ways once you have a life, but it isn't all that great for the basics.

Here are two very excellent websites for teens. Together, they address most if not all the questions boys and girls have about their bodies and imerging sexuality:

* Boys Under Attack
http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/link.htm

* Scarlet Teen
http://www.scarleteen.com/

In addition, this website gives some good illustrations of typical vulvas:

http://myvag.net/images/

The clitoris is easy to find.
* The first way is to trace along one of the inner labia with your thumb and forefinger upward until you find the juncture of the two labia. In front or just below the juncture is the clitoris.
* The second way is to run your finger between the folds of the upper vulva toward her crotch. The ridge you feel is the shaft that is buried beneath the skin.
* The third way is to ask your girlfriend.
* Borrowing a phrase used by the Martian exploration team, you can "follow the water". More often than not, her vagina secretions will lead you back to the source.

The vagina is in the middle between the urethra and anus--and, just in front of the rear juncture of the two labia. So, tracing rearward along one of them will lead you to the vaginal opening.

The opening of the urethra is tiny and I rather doubt you could find it by just running your finger along the midline of her lower vulva.

Your consternation about there being three openings is not unusual. I remember how perplexed I was upon first learning about this possibility. My first sex manual posed more questions than it answered and this is probably what led me to help others in matters of sex, love, and romance.

I hope this is of help to you and others. Got questions?

dancingdoc

[QUOTE=dancingdoc2]
* Borrowing a phrase used by the Martian exploration team, you can "follow the water". More often than not, her vagina secretions will lead you back to the source.

Got questions?

dancingdoc[/QUOTE]

I have a question... so you want us so you want us to grab a flashlight, head inside the dark cave, follow the breadcrumbs left by the monster dwelling in the cave, find the monster, attack it with all of your might without creating a cave-in, run out of the cave, have a cigarette, and go back in the cave because you forgot your keys back there?!

Great advice doc, I can see you helped alot of folks n your day.

There are three holes. The average person would only really count two though. The one closest to the clit is the bladder ending of the uriary tract only urine is expelled ther. The other two are for you knoe what.

[QUOTE=jamesdavis86]I have a question... so you want us so you want us to grab a flashlight, head inside the dark cave, follow the breadcrumbs left by the monster dwelling in the cave, find the monster, attack it with all of your might without creating a cave-in, run out of the cave, have a cigarette, and go back in the cave because you forgot your keys back there?!

Great advice doc, I can see you helped alot of folks n your day.[/QUOTE]

Why didn't you just look at the anatomical drawings offered elsewhere on the site? Brandye and others are right--too many jumping in before they explore the site for answers FIRST before posting.

These R Wat Da Holes R And Wat They R Used For:

Ok, first of all there r three holes down there. the top one is the place where a women pisses out of, so leave that alone, the one below that is the vigina (where you put ur penis in) lol, and da 3rd 1 is the anus where they poo out of and u can do her there.:)

:mad: :rolleyes:

getting ****ed in all holes

[QUOTE=ASR]I was wondering does everyone have 3 holes down there its stupid and i feel that way but which one does the dick go in when u have sex. if you guys to could inform me it would be greatly appreciated![/QUOTE]
you can get ****ed in any hole yo have

Is Brandi A Doctor ?

Wow. You always got a good answer going, its like you wait for everyone to throw in thier opinion, and then you set it straight. Good work.

Is it possible to get a woman pregnant with out sex? like if semen just runs on the outside of the viginia?

MmM... The last time i saw down there i recognize 3 holes.. :B but i'll check again just in case i missed one ;p

[QUOTE=NXS;172304]Is it possible to get a woman pregnant with out sex? like if semen just runs on the outside of the viginia?[/QUOTE]

Yes, she can. The sperm can travel up inside very quick.

I am glad Brandye explained this because I was about to. I also suggest that before you have sex or any sexual experience that you take what Brandye said study up. Not only will sex be more enjoyable but you will also know what goes where and why. Knowledge in this area will also help prevent STD's and unwanted pregnancy. Good luck.

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