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ASR
Vaginal Opening 101

I was wondering does everyone have 3 holes down there its stupid and i feel that way but which one does the dick go in when u have sex. if you guys to could inform me it would be greatly appreciated!

Luvs2plzU

:mad: :rolleyes:

The amoxycillin will not be effective. If you cannot differntiate between a thrush infection and a bacterial infection do see a doctor.

marinejoey
getting ****ed in all holes

[QUOTE=ASR]I was wondering does everyone have 3 holes down there its stupid and i feel that way but which one does the dick go in when u have sex. if you guys to could inform me it would be greatly appreciated![/QUOTE]
you can get ****ed in any hole yo have

Anonymousmouse
Is Brandi A Doctor ?

Wow. You always got a good answer going, its like you wait for everyone to throw in thier opinion, and then you set it straight. Good work.

Richie1213

hey, thanks for the advice, i lotioned her up some more, and i sorta teased her, by caressing her inner thy....(kinda not sure what to do down there)... and she got really wet, and I was in. Thanks for the help. Thrid times a charm.......

listen guys i know that guys only respond to this but i couldnt help reading. first of all there is only two holes. the pussy hole and the ass hole. when u do anal sex u put ur dick up the ass hole and when u finger a gurl and f*** her; u put ur dick in the cootchie hole. now if u have a friend that's a gurl and ur really close to her lyke brother and sister ask her if u could look at her pussy if u don't know. i am an expert at this stuff believe me. just do more research boys because obvisiously u don't no much about our pussies.

baby_girl198

[QUOTE=Risky;97079]Well there is the anus hole, the vagina hole and the urinary hole which she pees out of. *The urinary hole really isn't that noticible anyway. *Hope that helps [/QUOTE]

wow lol 3 holes i had no idea there r 3 lol i thought there r 2
the"poop" hole n the " pee" hole lol n i thought that the "pee" hole was where u wouldpee n like a d*** would enter or a tampon lol i feel REALLY stupid i had no idea there r 3 geez lol i was never taught 3 lol

Shorty43

Just do the same thing. You can't be perfect the first time. You have 2 options, 1 you move your hands around yourself and find what you are looking for, or 2 you have her show you. If you put your penis around where her vaginal opening should be, even if you haven't actually found it, and gently push you should start to slip in.

Are you guys skipping right to sex with no foreplay? Foreplay is going to make everything a lot easier, so do a lot of it. Plus, it is fun.

Scouse_Carl

ok I have a lil problem, here goes: Im 19 now and have had sex before (the last time when i was 14 but it doesnt really count as it was just two teens messin round) however Im seein a new girl and we get on very well but Im scared about sleeping with her for the first time. My problem is this (I'll try not to sound vulgar lol) finding where I'm going so to speak, you know - finding her vaginal opening, how am I supposed to do that, when i was younger I just fumbled about with my fingers and then "followed" them, I very scared about this, surely I dont just wiggle it about and hope for a result, I just want it to be ok and not embarrassing.

Any help/advice would be greatly appreciated

thanks,

dancingdoc2

> me n my bf of 2 years r ready to go up a step

> > me n my bf of about a year have had oral sex

Which of the above statements is correct?

> wow lol 3 holes i had no idea there r 3 lol i thought there r 2
the"poop" hole n the " pee" hole lol n i thought that the "pee" hole was where u wouldpee n like a d*** would enter or a tampon lol i feel REALLY stupid i had no idea there r 3 geez lol i was never taught 3 lol

I am surprised that you have not yet been able to determine that the urethra is in a different location than where Tampons are placed.

If you are this naive and have yet to explore your own body, you are nowhere near ready to "go up a step"! I recommend using a good light and a mirror and exploring. You can also search Google for illustrated drawings of the female anatomy.

As recommended in another reply to another of your posts, I recommend that you read each of the articles listed in the Index, particularly the section on having intercourse for the first time. You have much to learn; as important, you do not yet know what you do not know. Encourage your boyfriend to also read and then discuss what you have learned. Knowledge is empowering.

?wiseman?

Be sure she's ready to "accept" you before you go poking around. Easy answer to your question tho- leave the lights on and look, you can't miss it.

RedRoses
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the holy search for the urethra

Well, in case people are feeling stupid, let me share my stupid story :o

[INDENT]I've spend half my life, searching for wherever my urethra was. Even though I have been looking down there since my menses started (age 11) when my mom gave me a mirror to discover where the blood came from and where to put a tampon (had she known I knew exactly where my vagina was by the age of 4, not even knowing it was even called a vagina ;)) So I had been looking at drawings of the female anatomy, that placed the urethra somewhere between the clitoris and the vagina. All not that accurate... Several descriptions said that it should be a few centimeters past the clitoris. Me searching, not finding...

So I started having sex age 22, and about 2 months after that I started using natural family planning. I knew exactly where my cervix was and how it felt like and changed during my entire cycle and had read a lot about the female cycle at that time. And with practice for about a year I was able to control my pelvic floor muscles like a pro. And then, it happened: I started squirting* while having sex. And as a lot of women; I was very much afraid I had just peed... :eek: Even though I was very sure I had had an orgasm and my bf was simply happy, I still felt confused... Time for the holy search for the urethra again!

I started going through pictures on the internet, cause I wanted a real picture, maybe that would help me out. Damn... the things you get to see... but it was in the name of science! And yet: not helpful... I went back to the source several times. One after noon; there I was looking down that area that I knew so well. And I had noticed that since my sexual interest and activity a little bulge at the entrance of the vagina had become larger**. I was always a little nervous touching it, cause it was sensitive. It's not directly at the entrance, you really need some time to relax and spread all the tissue surrounding it and it's on the front (bellybutton) side of the vagina. And as my interest in this particular sensitive area started growing, I starting feeling and wiggling it around, I suddenly saw this very tiny little hole peeping from underneath it. Mirror-equipped, I went to the shower. Thinking; what the heck, it's my shower, I clean it, and I want to know! And yes, there it definitely was, that golden ray was definitely came from that tiny hole.[/INDENT]

[SIZE="4">Eureka!!! I had found it![/SIZE]

**The surrounding tissue is called the urethral sponge (confirmed by my doc) and the location of my urethra is in fact: normal. This tissue can be very tiny or a little larger (as in my case) and again: normal. And yes: then the urethra is not easy to find, if you're not a medical professional. It's really close to the vagina, so looking in between your legs while on the toilet, you may think you're peeing from 1 hole, though you truly are not! Or you may even think it's really close to your clit, cause the pee may tend to flow that way, but there's a good chance you'll need to look a little further for the true source. To all girls; have fun discovering!

*PS: Yes, it wasn't pee, I can squirt. Though I only know by trial and error. After several visits to the bathroom and pushing every last bit of pee out, I can still orgasm with heavy fluid. So I just called it confirmed and have just enjoyed it instead of worried about it :)

mrlink

Click on the following link for the Female Anatomy Chart - this will give you a pretty good idea of what is where!

Here guys, this will solve all your problems.

Click Here.

There, now you'll most likely kick yourself for stressing so much.

See where it says "Opening of Vagina"?
You put it there.

Scouse_Carl

[QUOTE=Quote (mrlink @ Feb. 11 2003,18:24)]Click on the following link for the Female Anatomy Chart - this will give you a pretty good idea of what is where![/QUOTE]
lol i know where am goin its just err well guidin meself if ya get me

ilikegirls
hey

hey listen to the good sex doctor.
he'll teach u everything u need to know about sex.
i'm starting to think does he work as a sex councelor or sexual intercourse lecturer. hmm wat other reason r there for someone to know so much rite.
hey doc have u ever thought of becoming a gigolo. i'm sure u'll make tons of money with the experience u have in sexual intercourse........hahahahahahaha

baby_girl198

lol ok that cleared it up lol ty

xx22xx

If her legs are spread it's not going to be so hard. It's fine to hold it to guide it in, then take your hand away when you get it in. It just slides in, don't worry haha.

ilikegirls
hi

remember to visit this page
http://www.sexinfo101.com/node/1028440

tell me your thoughts about it

RedRoses
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Dear Baby-girl, you're very welcome :)

O, and do take the advice of our dear Dancing Doc about reading in the index, together with your bf. I definitely recommend you to familiarize yourself with all the info. Cause though I wasn't able to find my urethra, I was very well informed about everything else when I started having sex and that came in very helpful. There really is good stuff around here and there are some excellent advisers, such as the Doc, on the matter. Just don't feel stupid about anything. Like my momma used to say: only stupid question, is a question not asked! :)

NXS

Is it possible to get a woman pregnant with out sex? like if semen just runs on the outside of the viginia?

Marebear1991

I have a quick question! Whenever my bf tries to finger me, his fingers always seem to hurt. But, when we have sex it feels really great. Could it be the angle he tries to finger me from? Or maybe the roughness of his hand?

moderatorII

Posted by ASR (moved by moderator)

i did some body discovery and found out that the first hole really isnt anything so i couldnt really mix em up since the second hole is so close it goes into that hole i just never noticed anyways sorry to waste ur time. i feel smarter now

thisone

ok if you think ur stupid ... i must be even more stupid ... i must have missed something cuz i come up 2 really obvious holes ... then there is a very very tiny one ... what hole is that ... do ppl do things with that one? obviously i am new to this please help

shugotenshi

Yeah...this is new to me too.. I mean..I always thought it was 'front door' and 'back door'.... A third..? Is this something that non-virgins like to laugh at virgins for not knowing/realizing? Please..do enlighten, someone...

I strongly suggest that several of you find a book or website that shows female sexual anatomy or reproductive anatomy. The old standard Gray's Anatomy is available in most libraries and has an online site.

If you picture a woman lying flat with the legs spread, inside the labia majora or outer lips you will find the labia minora or inner lips. The outside lips cover everything else when she is not in an aroused state. Within the inner lips from top to bottom (or front to back) is, first, an inverted "v" that is the hood over the clitoris. The clitoris is often not visible until she is aroused. Just below the clitoris less than a centimeter is the urethral opening. This is where the urine comes out. Unlike the male, this is only urinary and not directly involved in sexual functioning. This opening is quite small and often not felt or seen by males. Behind this is the vaginal opening. This is the larger opening that admits the penis and delivers the baby nine months later. behind the vaginal opening is the perimeum discussed recently - it is just a flat space back to the anus. The anus, then, is the third opening. This is a one-way opening and while sensitive, sexually, (I love to have mine played with by finger tips or tongues) it is not intended to be part of sex. Many do engage in anal sex. I have written many posts on this topic. Pregnancy is still possible because of drainage close to the vagina and there is always some damage in anal sex.

raunchy gal

Yes Marebear it could quite possibly be the angle at which he is inserting his fingers or also that he may have grazed/nicked the cervix with his fingers.I have experienced the same problem with previous partners of mine.I have felt the most pain when one day my husband decided to insert his whole fist without giving me prior warning.It was like giving birth only in reverse.

dancingdoc2

> I was wondering does everyone have 3 holes down there its stupid and i feel that way but which one does the dick go in when u have sex.

WRONG. Pornography is not the place to get sexinfo 101, so to speak. Oh, it might help spruce up your sex life in other ways once you have a life, but it isn't all that great for the basics.

Here are two very excellent websites for teens. Together, they address most if not all the questions boys and girls have about their bodies and imerging sexuality:

* Boys Under Attack
http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/link.htm

* Scarlet Teen
http://www.scarleteen.com/

In addition, this website gives some good illustrations of typical vulvas:

http://myvag.net/images/

The clitoris is easy to find.
* The first way is to trace along one of the inner labia with your thumb and forefinger upward until you find the juncture of the two labia. In front or just below the juncture is the clitoris.
* The second way is to run your finger between the folds of the upper vulva toward her crotch. The ridge you feel is the shaft that is buried beneath the skin.
* The third way is to ask your girlfriend.
* Borrowing a phrase used by the Martian exploration team, you can "follow the water". More often than not, her vagina secretions will lead you back to the source.

The vagina is in the middle between the urethra and anus--and, just in front of the rear juncture of the two labia. So, tracing rearward along one of them will lead you to the vaginal opening.

The opening of the urethra is tiny and I rather doubt you could find it by just running your finger along the midline of her lower vulva.

Your consternation about there being three openings is not unusual. I remember how perplexed I was upon first learning about this possibility. My first sex manual posed more questions than it answered and this is probably what led me to help others in matters of sex, love, and romance.

I hope this is of help to you and others. Got questions?

dancingdoc

tiffaniesgurl

maybe its just me but ive only found 2, there maybe 3 but as far as i kno of, im only concentrating on one. if its not the vagina im not goin anywhere near it!!

moderatorII

Posted by ASR (moved and edited by moderator)

I have 3 holes first one i get fingered in the second im usually f***** in and the 3rd aint touched! Is this correct or am i just pathetic beyond all capacity im sorry it was my first time.

moderatorII

hi ASR,

I know you are new here, so no problem. Here are a few tips to make your experience here as pleasant and helpful as possible.

In order for others to help you, please try to be clear in your message as to what you are seeking help with.

Also, if you want to add more posts select "Add Reply" or edit your original post, please don't open more topics on the same subject.

Finally, although this is a sex site and members of this Board are not prudes, we do try to be respectful of each other and refrain from using "vulgar" expressions or profanity.

Thank you,
The Moderator

Smoove

You all are way ahead of me, I only know of one deep, dark hole. Well, I guess there's 2, but 3? Wow...

dancingdoc2

[QUOTE=Marebear1991;262187]I have a quick question! Whenever my bf tries to finger me, his fingers always seem to hurt. But, when we have sex it feels really great. Could it be the angle he tries to finger me from? Or maybe the roughness of his hand?[/QUOTE]

"...his fingers always seem to hurt." I presume you mean hurt you, and not him.

Where do you experience the pain? That it "always seem to hurt" is not as much help for us as "it hurts around the vaginal opening, just inside, way inside along the wall, or, the cervix, etc.

It might be the angle and/or the roughness of his skin. What does his hand or fingers feel like when you take in your hand?

Another likelihood is that he is fingering you before you have become sufficiently aroused and therefore do not have sufficient wetness.

Another likelihood is that you have become sufficiently aroused, yet your vaginal mucus has not been adequately distributed, thus leaving some dry spots that become irritated when a finger rubs along the area.

I suggest that he/you check each of these situations and if necessary apply some lubricant to his finger(s).

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

Well there is the anus hole, the vagina hole and the urinary hole which she pees out of.  The urinary hole really isn't that noticible anyway.  Hope that helps

Marebear1991

Sorry I wasn't specific! But, it hurts when he firsts starts to enter my vagina, right in the vaginal opening. I never let him go any further than that. His fingers are pretty rough to the touch, also. I recently started making him use lotion to protect his hands more often. I will try different angles as well!

shugotenshi

I never realised the urniary hole and the vagina were separate.. That's probably funny, I know.. but seriously.. I'd always figured that one didn't "count", if you know what I mean...

xx22xx

LOL im sorry but LOL i've never heard of anyone thinking there were actually like THREE holes, even though in reality there is...LOL...get a diagram!!!

mrlink

Click on the following link for the Female Anatomy Chart - the answer to all (well, almost all) your questions!

Just Wonderin'

Of course there are 3, but one is most likely not noticeable. The front would be the urethra, or urinary passageway. The second, of course, being the vagina. And third the anus. I dont think it's possible to be fingered in the first one so im not sure why that person said they get fingered in the first one. Don't worry aobut slippin in the wrong hole, its easy, start up top, go down and it just kinda opens up.

dancingdoc2

> But, it hurts when he firsts starts to enter my vagina, right in the vaginal opening.

Make sure you have become sufficiently aroused and are adequately wet, first and foremost. Second, let him play down there a bit in order to distribute your vaginal mucus around the opening so that there are no dry spots.

> I never let him go any further than that. His fingers are pretty rough to the touch, also.

If intercourse is great, no problem, AND, if you are wet, then it may be that the roughness of his skin is a problem. Once you identify what is happening, and find a fix, there should be no reason not to let him insert a finger as far as possible.

> I recently started making him use lotion to protect his hands more often. I will try different angles as well!

I know about rough hand and fingers. Having him use hand lotion on a regular basis is a great idea. Good for you--and him.

Roughness is not exclusively a male problem. I have a woman student who has very rough skin. I do not know what her job is but I'm thinking it must be manual labor of some type.

Work with each other to learn what you can about this. Have him lubricate his finger, make sure you are very aroused. Very often a guy will want to insert a finger into a dry well so to speak and this is not the best approach. The fingering he does should be enjoyable to you and help increase your ardor and readiness--not jump start it from scratch (pun if any intended).

hummm I always ready to fill that one love hole...... but what happen the target increased one to three... lol..... difficult to fill three instead of one... ! one is better than three.....!!
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Marebear,

With the extra weight you are carrying, you are likely chronically cahpped among the folds. Again, the weight is the issue to be dealt with.

Marebear1991

What is chronically cahpped? I can finger myself just fine though?

emogirl17

what if when you try to masturbate vaginally with fingers it hurts but when you masturbate anally with those same fingers it feals great is there something wrong with me?

Aphrodite_66

I think Brandye means chapped Marebear.I think her finger may have slipped on the keys when she was typing, lol

unx3

I am glad Brandye explained this because I was about to. I also suggest that before you have sex or any sexual experience that you take what Brandye said study up. Not only will sex be more enjoyable but you will also know what goes where and why. Knowledge in this area will also help prevent STD's and unwanted pregnancy. Good luck.

jmns

your urinary hole is towards the front of the vaginal opening. it can be hard to find.

Thanks, Aphro, that is correct.

Marebear, you cannot get your own fingers to the same places.

Marebear1991

Hm, okay. Honestly, I still don't really understand how my fingers aren't in the same places but whatever. I guess I'll just go with that.

Richie1213

Hi, Im 17 and my girlfriend and I have tried having sex twice now, but to no avail have we suceeded, I know that might sound pathetic, but Im frustrated. I guess it's my lack of knowledge. We are both virgins, and I cant seem to enter her vagina at all. I tried to narrow my problem down, I figured maybe I was putting it in the wrong place, so I looked at the diagrams, and it shows that the vaginal opening is right next to the anus, and that around the area i was. I fingered her on both occasions and she was really wet, but when I tried again, i just simply wasn't getting in. Am I aiming for the right place?, is she too tight for me to get into? should i try some specific position to enhace me getting in. She also feels bad that "it's not working", and I try to tell her it's not her fault at all. Should I suggest anything to her as well, she has begun masturbating, but i didnt see any improvement around the second time..... We trying again soon, and I wanna get it right, I dont know if im putting it in the right place, (I think I am....not much to get wrong there) when i do finger her though, i can hardly get two fingers in, any suggestions?

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