Was wondering if any women could help me on this, maybe even men. I lived with my ex a couple of years ago and there were times where we would have conversations about sex. Even after having sex. He was an a** most of the time. (thats why i left him). He asked me once that i must of been with more than a couple guys since i lost my virginity. Which telling him long ago at the time ive only been with 4 guys over the years including him. He said they were too wrinkled and said i was lieing. Ladies can you help me out here?? ive always been like this and the men ive been with before him never had a problem with the place between my legs . 
Need some advice.
Sat, 10/22/2005 - 16:52
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vaginal lips...
that guy definitely sounded like a naive jerk, sorry. Glad you've found someone else who sounds great. I love this forum, u can talk about anything! I use to worry that I was "abnormal" down there, but after reading heaps on the net, apparently i am normal. I just hope that guys realise this! Although I've never had any complaints or comments about that, I still feel like i can't relax 100% and enjoy myself.. especially with oral sex, when i'm with a guy..
Thanks brandye i figured out that much and it is good to have adivice with it. Yes I also figured that my ex was being a jerk anyways.
But i moved on and found me a Seneca indian hottie! 
....it might be long distance, but that doesnt rule out emails and phone calls. 
Thanks again
Reddress,
I look at several sets of lips each week and no two of them are alike. Generally, we all have the same basic structure but that is where it ends. Some are nearly smooth and closed with no sign of the labia menors peeking though; others have the inner lips protruding all the time. Some are bright pink and some, muddy brown. Some women eventually have surgery because of the discomfort of distended inner lips. I do not recommend even thinking of this for cosmetic purposes, only for discomfort during sex or, even, just sitting.
The biggest change in any of us is with having children. Usually the stretching of childbirth causes some change in coloration and size. This may or not be visible until sexual arousal when we open up like flowers. The aging process results in some discoloration and "drying up" both literally and figuratively. Rapid changes in weight may also have some effect.
No conclusion regarding a woman's sexual activity can be made from looking at her pudenda. The exceptions to this are extreme and grotesque. I do not reach a conclusion on virginity or sexual activity based on the absence of the hymen. Rarely do I examine a woman over sixteen with an intact hymen.
Your ex was simply demonstrating what you describe as his usual personality. Perhaps this gives you an excuse to visit some erotic photography sites (not out and out porn) to do some comparison.