I've noticed for a few weeks now that whenever my gf and I have sex, the next few nights she'll be fairly dry. Is this something normal? Maybe the condom is causing her some kind of irritation, but I've never noticed the dryness in the past.
Mon, 07/06/2009 - 21:13
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vaginal dryness
Maybe you just need more foreplay, and she has just not been fully aroused?
There is an entire industry built on "personal lubricants." In other words we all have this from time to time and some women always have this issue. It is possible that the condom is irritating her a bit. Condoms should be used with some vaginal spermicide. Use vaginal jelly (Gynol II or K-Y+) and that will take care of the issue as well as improve protection from pregnancy.
no it's def not foreplay. i'll spent 10 min and it's still super dry and she can't figure it out either. I guess it sounds like it's just a normal thing every now and then.
10 minutes ??? lol that a very quick bit of oral
> no it's def not foreplay. i'll spent 10 min and it's still super dry
Maybe he means ten minutes from start to start of intercourse. If so, this is definitely not enough warm up time!
All the more reason to know if he means "foreplay" or "necking and "petting" and all the other making out stuff, too.
usually she'll be wet just from kissing an petting. Before I even touch her breast or vaginal area, she'll be very wet. I always thought 10 min of oral was enough time. Even during all that oral time though she's still very dry. It's like my saliva doesn't keep her wet and she's not getting wet herself.
I think you need to spend more time getting in the mood. Its not all physical, light some candles, some incense, maybe some music and give her a back massage before you get into it, see if that changes anything. I usually spend a good 30 minutes of foreplay at least with my girl. If its still a problem, maybe get some lube.
[QUOTE=jl80;240147]usually she'll be wet just from kissing an petting. Before I even touch her breast or vaginal area, she'll be very wet. I always thought 10 min of oral was enough time. Even during all that oral time though she's still very dry. It's like my saliva doesn't keep her wet and she's not getting wet herself.[/QUOTE]
lol I had a vision of you setting your stop watch for 10 minutes:D
There is no set time maybe she needs a little more, maybe a little less at times.. Just experiment... look around the site for body worship and "the Program".. :D and if all else fails get some lube;)
All women have this issue from time to time. Get some lube
[QUOTE=Brandye;240168]All women have this issue from time to time. Get some lube[/QUOTE]
yeah but it sounds like she isn't old.
far more likely is just that he isn't quite getting her into it enough on those days, especially since she's fine on the first day of sex.
i guarantee she's just only REALLY horny with you not needing much foreplay on that first day. and the other days you aren't quite doing the trick.
pretty much all the women on here will probably say no you gotta put another 10-15 minutes of foreplay in there... i'm gonna agree but tell you that you can skip a lot of it when you're feeling sorta lazy with some lube (maybe you still need another 5 minutes though). she'll get into it pretty quick and you don't have to starve yourself for as long.
Odd how he never noticed it before.
Doesn't matter how old she is. May not matter how aroused she is.
YHelo - stop arguing with doctor Brandye
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;240721]Odd how he never noticed it before.
Doesn't matter how old she is. May not matter how aroused she is.
YHelo - stop arguing with doctor Brandye[/QUOTE]
uh did you read his post? there's no problem on the first day, as in the first time they haven't done it for a while. i'm sure you appreciate that you're most craving sex with a person when you haven't done it for a while, and then you might need a bit more effort to get into it the next few times.
LOL
when you haven't done it for a while?
how about - it has been 5 minutes - aren't you ready yet?
and 10 minutes of foreplay is nowhere near long enough!
Really, you have no idea!
yeah i mean like if you went a week without having sex (i.e.: she was on the rag).
A week? Wow! Sure must be tough!
Given your language, I'm not surprised.
yeah, well i'm sure you have sex while on the rag and shitting on the toilet too - i can't handle the rag stuff and we are rarely in a position to shower together so that doesn't really happen either.