my girlfriend and i have become more and more active lately and have had sex a few times...everytime i would finger her to stimulate her, the 1st time we did it she was hurting before sex to much and we didn't continue, the second time, we were able to have sex but immediately after she was hurting, the 3rd time was the same and las night (4th time)we tried again but she was hurting way to much after the fingering..when we have sex we have it pretty hard and she loves it..also i seem to have a wider then average penis..also the 3rd time i didn't move her upper ring? i guess thats what its called i dnt relle know but it sounds like its a ring in the vagina and it bruised the vagina, even before this she was hurting before we finished...does anyone knows whats going on?
Wed, 04/18/2007 - 02:59
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Vagina hurting?
Sounds as if she needs to see the Gyn about this. Pain to this degree is not normal and what you are describing is too vague.
yes a trip to the local WGP or to the local gyn would be a good idea.
Fingering shouldn't hurt that bad....
Is she wearing a Nuvaring birth control?
Is that what your talking about?
[quote=Vper;175274]yes a trip to the local WGP or to the local gyn would be a good idea.[/quote]
Whats Walgreens Pharmacy going to do for her?
it hurts her after a while of fingerin, mayb after 2 or 3 minutes, it is mostly after we have sex that she will start hurting, but the hurting will last for about a week or so, she has gone to the gyn and she said we just bruised the inner ring, but before we bruised it she hurt after sex anyway, are we doing it too hard or something?
and no she is on, The Birth Control, by the way we are not using lube we are relying strictly on her wetness, which becomes another problem because sometimes when im fingering her i will stop 4 2seconds she will dry up ALOT and in a quick time and then we can't do anything
[QUOTE=sera300;175279]Whats Walgreens Pharmacy going to do for her?[/QUOTE]
WGP or Womans GP aka doctor for women.
as for the other question.. try using lube one time and see if that helps. it may be that she is too dry and the friction is rubbing too intensly and hurting her... that or you are going too fast too soon.
I think WGP is W general practioner... not sure what the W is lol... but the Walgreens thing got a giggle :)
What is The Birth Control?? Meaning the Pill??
Wetness could be a factor... after too long of fooling around.. most women will tend to dry up... lube could help.
Also, no matter how HARD she likes it... you might want to just take it easy a little...
It also depends on what kind of pain she is having?
Is it in her stomach? like she bruised something (still no clue what this ring is..cervix?) or maybe pulled a muscle?
Or is it more of an irritation pain? Like if I've have multiple sessions or like you said, dry up some and it makes insertion difficult... then the entrance of my vagina will be rubbed raw... and it take a day or so to feel better.
yaa it seems like a bruised pain nd it takes more then a few days to heal, and also we go slow at first and then we do go hard, ive never heard of this ring either but she went to a gyn nd thts wut the gyn said
Hmmm no clue
Does she hurt during sex? or its just afterwards?
Like some positions that are too deep can make my b/f hit my cervix and its a immediate pain... so I have to move or adjust myself so that its not being hit.
Thanks for the clarification on Walgreens :). I know they do BP checks but thought maybe they expanded to gyn exams :).
Yes, hard sex can cause bruising of all sorts of wonderful internal structures. I think regardless of how hard she likes it, you both have to take it easy, trauma is a bad thing. Perhaps it was bruising to the cervix? Either way be easy.
Probably with the anticipation of pain, she is getting dry. Go to Walgreens and buy some lube and use it. Give her some time to heal up first though.
LOL
Sera do you own Walgreens stock or are they paying you to plug them :)
Who knows Walgreens might have a drive thru gyn exam... wouldn't surprise me:p
Heck, I just love those drive up services! LOL! Walgreens, you can buy anything there! :)
Here is a thread on bruising of the cervix, read the response not so much the question, note the position is doggy style.
http://www.sexualhealth.com/question.php?Action=read&question_id=8524
When I was in middle school we had a sex ed teacher who was funny, but this kid kept confusing the cervix with the vaginal opening and she explained to him "The cervics is a ring at the top of the vagina and it can change size, that is why babies don't fall out when they are very small but can get out when they're ready." Perhaps this is how the GYN explained it to this girl?
that may have been it...she is hurting after about 5minutes of pain, i always thought she cummed and didn' say anything and dried up while my dick was in it and thats why she's hurting, what i don't get is how quickly she dries up, i will be fingering her and we'll get up for 2seconds to go to the bed and when were up there she jus cant get wet and then its serious pain, thanks for the tips tho, on the lube do you lube up the penis and the vagina or jus the penis?
Pain does odd things to your body, it causes "responses". It could be the pain (or anticipating it) is just causing her to get dry. Or if a woman is nervous, same can happen, we dry up.
Lube her and yourself, and keep it near you during keep applying if needed.
(Ps. You can buy it a Walgreens!) LOL :)
k well it looks like walgreens is lookin pretty good after this haha, thanks for the help all