*virgin*

Me and my girl have tried once to have sex, but to no avail since Ive always had trouble with condoms. I found that this week getting a condom on was no problem if I used my fetish, and techincally anytime I masturbate I tend to use my fetish (diapers) by concentrating on it and using fantasy (works like a charm ;)

A good thing to note about my fetish as well is that unlike other diaper fetish people it is not 100% of my sexual drive, I also get something from being with a woman, but at the same time for the little extra bit I always seem to need that little fantasy.

One of my questions is actually about myself like I mentioned that I can masturbate to images of normal pornography and get an errection during foreplay with a woman, but at the same time need a partial fantasy involved. I dont see much discussion of this in sexual fetish where as the description usually says the object is required for orgasm or sexual gratification where as I find that sometimes just giving it a little thought it all I really need, technically I should be able to have normal sex with a woman without using the object if I just indulge myself briefly in my head like I do during masturbation right? That's pretty much my main fear / question and was just hoping for some reasurence or possible explination.

I'm going to see her again in a few days and am hoping for the best, but seeing as I can maintain a hardon in a condom and get off in one now it doesnt seem like too much of a problem. I was just wondering if anybody else did the same thing during sex or otherwise, and what you do. And help is always appreciated. Thanks ;)