Hey everyone,
I understand that most of you are new to sex, and have lots of questions, but believe me when I tell you there is only a tiny chance your problems haven't already been discussed.
Rather then making the assumption that your problem is unique, use some of the search functions on this site to have a good look to see if the topic exists already... Helping people with the same old stuff, day after day gets irritating for us older board members.... So please check the site, and search the board before starting new topics...
Second thing is naming your topics well. This isn't a place to write "help me", the more descriptive your tiltle, the more likely you are going to get responses.
People have been growing up and getting interested in sex for, what, 80,000 years or so? Nothing we can discuss has not been thought of before. Cool Macs is giving great advice. We regulars will help with most anything if you have done your preparation - like trying to find the answer. There is a richness of knowledge her, mine it.
i do understand what you are both saying but by my experience the easiest way to get your question across is to get peoples opinions on the matter, so writing a post, lots of people can respond with their own experiences. i used some of the information on the site, and information doesn't help, advice helps. i understand if the information is already in posts then it doesn't need to be repeated
I don't see why the older board members get irritated. I mean, wouldn't you rather help someone out than see something bad happen to them? I'm new to this board, but not to messageboards. There's one messageboard that I've been going to regularly for 2 years. It's a music one, but you still get the same kind of stuff. People always asking the same questions is honestly not that terrible. Reading through some of the posts on this forum, some act like this is a job. It's supposed to be fun, or at least helpful and informative.
Julie and Honeyb- I think the message is to simply look through similar posts from the past. For example, in Pleasing Her, there are no less than 14 individual topics that clearly indicate a question about oral sex for women. Cool Macs and Brandye are simply suggesting that before asking a question about receiving oral sex, read through some of the other posts because you may find what you're looking for. There is also a "Search our Site" link at that top of the window. Try that as well to locate posts related to your question. If you don't find what you're looking for, post a new topic.
Personally, I don't mind the multiple posts but I do admit I shake my head from time to time when one topic is "Oral sex- how to do it" and the very next topic is "how do I go down on her ." (only a hypothetical)
in my post i did say that i agree some people should read through other posts but i agree with julie, it really shouldn't matter, just seems a waste of time to create that post.