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This sort of answers the last question.

Had he cum in the condom??
I mean I would take would probably just to be safe. And then from now on use some sort of backup method to the condom. Like condom + BC pill... or condom + spermicidal inserts... which help in just this situation.

MAP is usually the same ingredients as whats in regular BC pills. Some BC pills are used as a MAP... it's just a higher/concentrated dosage. In the link, Brandye explains the difference between the ones we usually encounter.

Go out and get Plan "B" and start it...end of story. Your friend is full of nonsenses as far as about taking it X times causing long term damage. But remember this is emergency contraceptive measure & not intended for monthly use. Go out and get it and start it.

Trust me...its a hell of a lot less expensive than paying hospital bills for giving birth, and raising a kid.

[quote=princessss;199734]I am aware it isnt for monthly use.. Like I said I have taken it twice in the last 2 years (actually a little more than 2 yrs)
It's so damn expensive as well! grr! im not happy!

thx for the advice
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You are welcome. Perhaps invest in a spermicide which is much cheaper then this stuff....and keep it with you in your purse. Condoms + Spermicide used properly= safe sex. May ease some tension for you in the future.

[quote=princessss;199737]lol! i can imagine! I jus thought I can get it free from doctors! stupid me for paying for it b4! duh! I shall get one in the morning.. x[/quote]
If you have a gyn you see regularly they can call in the MAP...to your pharmacy or the pack of birth control pills with specific directions on higher dosage's for this particular application.

> I dont really think he come inside me but i cant help being paranoid!

Contraception exists for a reason. Peace of mind, cycle regulation, safety, prevention. Yet you are willing to throw caution to the wind and take a chance. Why?

> im not on BC pills is because I dnt really have sex that often at the moment.. maybe couple of times a month if that! So I Dont want to be taking it everyday.

Do you know about other methods of contraception? How about the diaphragm and sponge to name two? I recommend being proactive and taking charge of your future by learning about the various methods available to every woman, sexually active or not.

At the very least, use a spermicide in conjunction with a condom.

Birth Control Failure Rates

Please consider that every time you pick up a penis to play with it, you are essentially playing a game of "Russian Roulette", only instead of handling a pistol with one bullet in the cylinder, you have a fully loaded cannon with many many "bullets" pointed in your direction.

I understand the misconception many teens have that they become all grown up once they are able to create life; yet the process of change from a child into an adult takes a decade with the brain being the last to fully develop at around age twenty one. Maturity takes time. If you want to play adult games then you have to play by the rules and act responsibly. You can tell those who do not because they are the children with children. (Oh, and do you want to know what the last of the brain to develop does? It lets us predict the consequences of our actions and predict the consequences.)

Birth Control Methods:
http://www.orthoevra.com/html/pevr/birth_ctl_know_option.jsp?gclid=CIbkg...

Choosing:
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/contraception_which.htm

If you're really 24 then you damn well should give over being a "princess" - and start being an ADULT. Adult women get themselves on the most reliable form of birth control and they manage their sex lives with forethought and maturity. They do not just rely upon 'what their friend's told them'; they get the information they require from reputable and knowledgable sources. They ask doctors about medicines, for example.

Yes, I thought you were a teenager too. Please review your post and perhaps you'll see why. It is your haphazardous way of dealing with your sex life. You're not paranoid - you just being childish and taking childish risks. Excuse me but you are PRECISELY throwing yourself at risk by not using anything - condoms are to prevent disease transmission they are NOT to be used for birth control. Condoms are used so HE is bearing his part of the burden of practicing safe sex. It is YOU who are trying to get out of your responsibilities. Condoms are not 99% effective - only BCPs are that effective. Condoms come in at 96% when combined with other methods, I believe. But I will consult Brandye about that. (Yes, she's a doctor).

As for not "talking down to you" - don't go there. If you do not like the advice or the tone in which it is given - too bad. But frankly, since you have taken this Day After twice before already - how many times do you have to get HIT before you LEARN to NOT play in traffic???

So condoms alone are 85% effective, with spermacide 97% effective.
Thank you, Brandye.

Like me or hate me - whichever - but the advice you get is accurate, valid, effective, and based upon vast experience whether or not you accept it or like it or the manner in which it was given. I carefully choose the manner in which I give advice based upon the type of person you show yourself to be. You have done this particular error twice before. Therefore you do NOT learn easily or well. Very well. That means that the heavy guns have to come out to penetrate your self-image. But getting personal and using invective only displays your poor character while injuring me - not at all.

How many times do you have to get run over before you learn NOT to play in traffic?

So put your ego on hold and open up your mind to the facts. You are in error. FIX IT so no one has to go through this nonsense again with you.

[quote=princessss;199849]whatever... advice i do appriciate! being talked down to I dont! get over urself silly ***... and get a life.. i dnt have time for this... *** to u...[/quote]
Princess...you don't have the time [SIZE=3]not[/SIZE] to hear this...this is the damned honest truth. So, you don't like the way someone went about tell YOU how to protect yourself??? Someone needed too...it got drilled in your head regardless of what you think of the opinion..it hit home huh? This is for your safety...not ours.

Face facts. She's 24. Uses text-speak. ****s relying upon a less than reliable method. Has had to resort to Plan B or its equivalent twice before and STILL keeps on doing the same damn old thing that got her here, asking for advice that she has apparently NO intention of taking. Age 24 going on 14. Does that sound like someone worthy of respect? NO. That sounds like someone who needs an ass-kicking.

Babycakes - you're doing something stupid. Stop it.

Cool down and accept the fact that condoms are not 99% effective.

If 100 sexually active women use condoms properly every time for a year, fifteen will become pregnant. Add vaginal spermicide and it drops to three.

And, do learn; it is important for your future health.

[QUOTE=princessss;199870]whatever ***.. move on to judge someone else... sad ***[/QUOTE]

Princessss....ummm...I think EEK prefers to do the milking...she is a dom after all ;)

I think the point is she does not want to act like a woman her age rather like a kid. Might as well talk to the wall; she has the info and will learn the hard way. We all make choices; hers is based upon lack of knowledge or wanting to learn...the language she uses; speaks to the attitude and issues. I believe she needs to self correct herself or go find another informative forum where such language is "normal".