Friends,
I'm experiencing sex for 3 months and I know very few things of it. My gf and me had sex today and somehow my entire cum was into her thigh and vagina areas but my penis wasn't into her at that time.
How risky that can be???
I am so anxious to know......please help...
:( :( :( :(
good luck my friend
Whenever semen comes in contact with vaginal fluids there is always a risk for pregnancy. Although it is very low, on the same hand, all it takes is one to reach the destination.
Depends on many things, but there's always risk.
If this happened today, dayafter pill.
The resident doctors may have more options, though.
I usually go for drastic solutions on this case.
And if you didn't want to have kids, what happened?! You were having unprotected sex?!
We were not having unprotected sex.. Actually we were having fun and somehow I was trying to cum in her lower chest area.. but suddenly she tried to got off and it went through her vaginal area.. haha its funny i know...
but what we should do now?? It happend today.. We are not planning for any kids now, since were not married yet, and in India it is not legal to have child before marriage.
You can see if there is access to the Morning After Pill, or Plan "B", there in India. If not, speak to a doctor ASAP regarding pregnancy prevention, see what he/she suggests since there are other ways which may be an option for you both. But you need to speak to the doc.
Oh man, India? Do you have the dayafter pill there on the health centers? Should have in Bombaim, but I dont know where you live... or if it's illegal to buy the dayafter pill. I'm pretty ignorant of Indian laws. :( sorry
Should pills have any side effects?? We can find out the name of the best pills here and start immediately from tomorrow.. But I am not starting to worry about it.. since it is very hated here having child before marriage
Sera and Brandye will correct me on this one, I'm sure...
These dayafter pills are large quantities of hormones, an emergency exit to accidents. Should never be used too much. But in your case... I would start NOW! Don't leave it for tomorrow. Find a pharmacist and buy one. There is usually just one or two brands to chose from, specially in smaller towns.
Oh, one more thing: don't try any more stunts like that mate. :D may cost you dearly...
I know alban.. i just need to get rid of it now.. actually we are plannign for marriage in the next few months and all it will be a chaos if we fail to survive now...i cant even laugh at your comments....
Check your local pharmacy. I honestly do not know what is available in India. In the US, Plan "B" can be purchased at a pharmacy without a prescription (based on age).
All of these emergency pregnancy prevention measures contain hormones & the side effects are nausea, occasionally some vomiting, and disruption of the normal menstrual cycle.
Start looking around today, if there is nothing available for you, get to a doctor since emergency contraception has to be started within 72 hours, the sooner the more efficient. Also, in cases placing a IUD is used to prevent a pregnancy and there are a few other "tricks" a doctor many use.
Honestly, if you are getting married in a few months, who would know she was pregnant when you married (if she is not showing)?
Actually it will be shame to live with other family members also, since we are a big family and after three months if we marry she would deliver after 6 months of it, so eventually everyone would come to know about it...
Actually its about 10pm here and I am so curious to know, if we can start the action tomorrow morning????
Probably not much you can do at 10 pm. But start looking on-line to see what options you have. Search for local information on the topic within your Country. Have a good plan of action in the am & remember the risk is fairly low, but as I said it does only take one. So try to relax a bit and do some research.
Thanks Sera... I will remember your help along with all others in future...
I will get back to you all tomorrow...
wow, i did pretty much the same thing as you...but luckily we could just go the local pharmacy and get Plan B. but man was i freaking out, like the before we got the pill and the whole entire time until she had her period again. and Plan B is pretty harsh on the lady with a lot of bad side effects.
the pill+condom+spermacide = no worries.
[QUOTE=highschoolmale;179474]the pill+condom+spermacide = no worries.[/QUOTE]
does not = no worries, it = less worries.
Friends,
Thanks to you all for your time and comments. We went on a vacation.
Finally she has been able to continue with her period. It has been a tough week for us!!!