This past week or maybe more my girlfriend hasn't been getting wet at all down there. We use condoms so that dries it out too, as well we use lube but it absorbs too quick. This has made sex for her not so pleasurable, and we cannot go to the doc's for another two weeks when our health insurance is renewed. So does anyone have any ideas whats going on? Everything else is in order, no mood swings, no swelling, not pain nothing.
Wed, 02/13/2008 - 19:32
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Unusually dry
There could be many reasons. Where is she in her menstrual cycle? What meds is she on? Condoms really make no difference, especially with polyurethan.
Use a full applicator of vaginal jelly or personal lubricant. See if that helps.
She just got off her monthly, last... Thursday or Friday, she is on no meds.
We did use a lot, I mean enough to coat every inch of her inside. And it dries out, she is also the one that engages sex with me, and we aren't very active like crazy, maybe once or twice a week. We go out pretty regurarly as much as our work schedule will permit of course.
Reapply as necessary. Various lubricants have varying "staying powers". Just keep the bottle to hand.
Well we had sex again last night, and she regained her ability to stay wet, whatever it was.
I personally find that even though I may be enjoying the act of having sex, I am not really turned on and that will keep me from staying wet. In that case, we try to take a few steps back and go into ptting and other stuff that really gets me going. Keep the lube nearby and reapply as needed. She may also have been dehydrated. She should try to stay away from soda/coffee and drink H20. Glad to hear that everything is better.
[QUOTE=Yariome;208972]Well we had sex again last night, and she regained her ability to stay wet, whatever it was.[/QUOTE]
Hi, Yariome!
It might be that your girlfriend is having stressful moments. You mentioned there was no pain, itchiness, and other symptoms. It might be that she is experiencing or undergoing certain stressful moments in her life. You might want to talk her about what is going on in her mind (good way to diagnose how she is fairing with life). There are other physiological reasons for such and you might want to consult this site http://www.estronaut.com/a/vag_dryness.htm. I find it very helpful, hope you do, too. :)