Hmm, I love doing stuff in public, my gf is the one who turned me on to that. I guess its just the thrill.

O, and I dunno why, but when she wears a miniskirt with no panties, and we have sex with it still on her, that is a major turn on.

Im sure theres more, I just can't think now..

my ears are a massive turn on for me, my girlfriend will nibble, bite, lick my ears and i will just go crazy

The list of what turns me off is much shorter than the list of what turns me on.

Call me crazy, I love to be tickled--gets me absolutely wet. A gentler touch will allow me not to try to fight it off, but a torturous fight seems to be just as effective.

It seems to be related to dichotomies of sensations-the urge to stop it, but the wish to feel it. I think that's the true turn on for me-the battling of two opposite ends of a sensation spectrum.

How would liking a girl to wear his boxers make him homosexual?

I think it's hot when a girl I've been having sex with walks into the room wearing one of my dress shirts the morning after... maybe I'm gay?

I love to ear my boyfriends clothes, but that's mainly a comfort thing wearing his t-shirt in bed ect.
I dont really have any strange turn ons, i get turned on by most things, touches ect glances and smiles turn me on, but you no thats quite normal.

[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]There is something sexy about a woman in uniform. For me it dose not have to do with the girl looking like a man, but the appearance of power that comes with it. I also think that it is really sexy when a girl puts on one of my shirts and panties and nothing else. As for me having any wired kinks, well I would not say it is wired, but I like it when the women is more dominate then I am during sex. [/SIZE][/FONT]

[FONT=Times New Roman][SIZE=3]I forgot something. One time this girl took of my tie off and tied my hands to the headboard. It was a big turn on for me and was a lot of fun but it ruined my good silk tie, it was so worth it. [/SIZE][/FONT]

Never worry about the ties. Saks and Harrod's have plenty of ties available. LOL
You can simply buy another few.

Silk? I'm a Polyester kinda guy.

I love feeling like I have no idea what I am doing. My husband has soo much more experience than me and even after 2.5 yrs I look at him like" HELLO, why havent we done that before !!!":eek:

[QUOTE=dlb;219227]The list of what turns me off is much shorter than the list of what turns me on.[/QUOTE]

Thats good!!

Well if you're looking for truly odd, how about simultaneous hand jobs at 60mph in the back seat of a moving Greyhound bus? We haven't, but it's been mentioned.

I have a thing for women in skirts and blouses.

I like to have sex while they keep them on, just pull the panties and bone away.

If the sex is hot maybe the blouse gets ripped open by me or her....even if its not its still VERY hot.

I dont know why but naked seems boring.

The hottest of the skirts and blouse look is indeed a schoolgirl outfit. And its not an age/nubile/teen thing cause i have masturbated to 40 yo women who are wearing a plaid skirt and white blouse.... its just hot! FACT.

Sarah you are very unique and original............and those are good things.

I also have a sexual turn on with odd/unique women.

Like if a women my age has braces on her teeth.

I was at a party and became fixated with a woman who had a smoking bod but was missing an arm.

I kind of find myself attracted to women who are a little chubby but still put off a sexual confidence and attitude. Especially when a woman with a few extra plbs is dress in a sexy business skirt/blouse. Its usually a specific look and body shape, its not all + lb women just very specific ones.

Red headed women with lots of freckles on face and body.

Puffy nipples

flat chest/small breasts/oddlly shaped breasts on an adult woman.

Curly hair or short spikey hair.

Glasses.

For the actual physical sexual traits I have beyond the realm of conventional would be the typical new age porn attitudes of oral sex. Hearing a woman choke on my cock or cum drives me wild. ****ing a womans face. cumming on her face or in her mouth. having sex until she gets off first and then she finsihes me off with her mouth.

Yeah i have an oral fixation.... oh wells, its not the most attractive sounding sexual act on paper but when you have a willing partner and the right confidence Im not ashamed of my perverted sadist sexual desires. I get to act them out on special occasions and enjoy them with my own imagination while masturbating.

and now most recently its been anal play for me. Butt plugs are awesome :)

Tall socks. Like up to the thighs, with either polka dots or horizontal stripes. But nothing else at all, totally naked with just the tall socks :)

I'll think of more.

That was unusual to say the least............

he has these boxers with a smiley face on them. (remember he's 60) But that sock thing, that's one of my big turn off's.

I am totally lost now................are we at least talking nice quality socks. LOL

I still don't see anything here that seems genuinely UNUSUAL to me.
I just got a post from one of my groups that says that the American Psychiatric Association is revising the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). Here is a wikipedia article on DSM http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diagnostic_and_Statistical_Manual_of_Mental...\
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Many "kink activists" are hoping that the paraphilia section will be eliminated.
Many of the most popular kinks could be considered paraphilias.
http://www.askoxford.com/concise_oed/paraphilia

Just some food for thought here.

BTW goof'schik I used to have some boxers with a smiley face, not too long ago, and also own a pair with about 100 of the Rolling Stones toungue thing on them---every tongue is a different world flag.
That's hopefully not in the DSM!

Ok I got one (I think). I was thinking about things again today (I do try to limit myself. It always gets me in trouble.) and I think it could be fun to have sex whilst wearing fursuits. It would definitely be very hot, but I'm thinking I could work that statement into a double entendre. A small minority of the furry community is into this, and it very well could be an enriching experience. I'll most likely never have the kind of money laying around to buy two mascot outfits and rig them for sex on a whim, but a man can dream... A man can dream.

Dib you are funny. Are you sure it isn't Gene and Kiss? And one more for you, reading all this.:rolleyes:

Fur suits Massdebater!!!!!! LOVE IT!!!!!!
And Goof'schik they are Rolling Stones tongues. I have never been a fan of Kiss, but it would be pretty kinky to wear Gene Simmons boxers I'll admit.

dlb, I forgot, when was the last time you looked at an album cover, for a minute there about The Rolling Stones and their logo. And I saw Gene on some show the other day sticking out his tongue.
So I went to dinner last night with a friend and 5 of her friends and well I thought why not get 6 more female ideas. Now all of these ladies are married and some of them didn't see a connetion between turn-on and sex anymore. However by the end of the night I am sure each and every one of those husbands got some. ha ha ha It was just toooooo much fun, and being the single one wasn't as bad as I thought. We didn't talk about a kid all night.
One remembers picnic blankets and stars, on the 8th green of a golf course. The sneaking in and having to hide when the security guard rode by on this golf cart. Her and her husband now live on a golf course. Another one's husband had bought the old car to fix up, and well when he was done she realized it was the same kind of car SHE drove when she was 18 and it has, or so I have been told a great backseat. He gave her the keys. Now I am totally into reality tv, so when someone who's posters hung on my wall as a teenage girl took his then pregnant then fiance into the carwash I was like what. In the middle she goes into labor, yes guys sex brings on labor, well there is a carwash around the corner from my house and need I say more. So with what I have read and what I have heard almost anything can be a turn on to somebody it just has to find the right somebody.
dlb, I'm going to have to look for them Rolling Stone boxers, but I think it's that bright yellow of the smiley face ones that helps. And he has no clue.

Goof, if you don't mind, what was the age bracket of the ladies at the dinner?
I bet there was a bunch of laughing coming from that table as well. Were most of
the ladies pretty open to the conversation? The reason for the questions is that
men/guys do the same sort of thing..........LOL

Goof'schik,
Good luck finding the boxers. Mine are probably semi bootleg, haha. I bought them last year in Veracruz, Mexico when I had to be there for a couple days and realized I had not packed underwear!

I agree that getting back to the simple sneaking around sort of things one did when younger is a turn on---cars, golf courses, basement stairways, theater dressing rooms....

By the way, Sarah your English terms are quite interesting......."Shag" for
instance.

We would of all graduated high school the same year 1979 so 46, 47, 48 (gotta give a year here and there for when bdays fall). It's wierd to know that guys talk about that stuff.
And dlb, if I find them or the smiley face ones I'll let you know, I have a friend who loves ebay??????

Yes, it's funny as much we like to think things are different in reality there
is so much that is the same......Was it loud at that table. LOL

Class of '79!!!! And when I said tongue you thought of KISS? Stones really is the greatest rocknroll band of all time altho Led Zeppelin is my personal favorite. Now before we get in trouble for getting off topic I'll just say that Whole Lotta Love by Zep gets me horny; lost my virginity to that one.

[QUOTE=goof'schik;219954]We would of all graduated high school the same year 1979 so 46, 47, 48 (gotta give a year here and there for when bdays fall). It's wierd to know that guys talk about that stuff.
And dlb, if I find them or the smiley face ones I'll let you know, I have a friend who loves ebay??????[/QUOTE]

It was actually here in motown that Kiss got it's first taste of love. They opened for I think it was Led Z and it was awesome. The crowd wanted them back. It was a great time for rock n roll. My class chose We are family as it's grad night song, I have to see them people next summer at our 30th lord help me.
I think it was more Gene than Kiss with the tongue. I wonder how we get his girlfriend and her sister to join, now that would be a hoot.

Shannon and Tracy Tweed? Get them to join what, chik? Want to have a 4some or a moresome with them? You know Shannon is so much more attractive now at 51 than she was as a playmate in her 20s.
I am pretty sure that Kiss never opened for Led Zeppelin tho'. By the Time Kiss came out Zeppelin had already founded their own Swansong record label and Kiss never worked for Swansong. Also Zeppelin never used an opening act that I am aware of after the early 70s.

Now to work this into the thread: I STILL like having sex to the 30 minute live version of Led Zep's Dazed and Confused- from the slow foreplay of the descending bass walk at the beginning, the thigh strokes of the guitar entrance with the harmonics B,E then repeated and octave higher followed by the clitlicking blueswail of the guitar-Robert Plant's voacl entrance leads to breathing in the aroma of your lover's hair ansd neck and deep soul kisses.
By the end of the bluesy A section everything is juicy and swollen and when the heavy metal riff of the B section begins the oral sex or coitus or whatever is going on at that pooint gets really hot and agressive. The lilting lapse into John Phillips' San Francisco(Be Sure to Wear Some Flowers in Your Hair) gives a chance to slow down, breath, change positions or techniques. The Hendrixesque psychadelic mid section is where I like to become totally lost in my love making often reaching a mindblowing orgasm where the bowed guitar section climaxes in a whirlwind of distortion the sound bounces from speaker to speaker-this is the section where the laser pyramid would spin around Jimmy Page's body. Now comes the transition and return to the A material where I either make my partner cum if she hasn't yet, or we go for another climax if we came together and if for some reason neither of us has made it there yet we keep working for it because musically the performance goes from one climax at approximately .618(golden mean) of the duration of the piece rather than desecending in a denoument it works to a final climax which is where I like to arch my back as the final spasms of our final orgasms correspond with the final two power chords. Of course after this is a good time to lie side by side panting, touching, have a glass of water-

Alright, maybe my heavy metal sex is not "unusual" enough for some people's definitions-I like to think of it as normal-but what about this? I had a roomie in college who back then and to this day likes to have sex while listening to Brahms' German Requiem!!!!!!

I just want to hear what the Tweed sisters have to say. I have never wanted another in the mix, and didn't want to be that other. Been asked a time or two but have always said no.
I'll have to ask my brother about that concert, he didn't know I was there but I know he was. I saw the Stones at the Super Bowl here in Detroit, man them men need to talk to the Tweeds. OLD:cool:
the only thing better than a tall glass of cold water, is a jump in a warm lake.

Nipples. It's always the nipples, whether it's mine getting licked or hers. Sometimes I just can't get them out of my mouth. I almost like breasts more than vaginas.

MY nipples. Many years ago, my nipples were so ticklish that even I couldn't touch them. My wife was always dying to play with them but they were just too sensitive.

After we divorced, my girlfriend (now wife) discovered how to handle them and she can now control me with them. Playing with them at the right time in our love-making cycle makes me feel submissive and VERY eager to please. Later on, she can make me cum using them. She plays with them so often that they seem to stand out when I'm wearing dress shirts so I constantly look cold or excited.

Is this weird for a guy?

[quote=Matty Walter;221104]MY nipples. Many years ago, my nipples were so ticklish that even I couldn't touch them. My wife was always dying to play with them but they were just too sensitive.

After we divorced, my girlfriend (now wife) discovered how to handle them and she can now control me with them. Playing with them at the right time in our love-making cycle makes me feel submissive and VERY eager to please. Later on, she can make me cum using them. She plays with them so often that they seem to stand out when I'm wearing dress shirts so I constantly look cold or excited.

Is this weird for a guy?[/quote]

My former fiance was the same & was the only man which enjoyed it or found it a turn on v. annoying. Issue was when we parted; you have a "habit" of doing the same to the next man & he really may not appreciate it.

No, you are not abnormal.

Sera, you are sooooooooooo naughty naughty.

[quote=constantlylearning;221139]Sera, you are sooooooooooo naughty naughty.[/quote]Yes, Dearest CL, I am; however, in a good way--I love to be bad! :D

I almost believe you..............almost too tired to laugh.........LOL

[quote=constantlylearning;221141]I almost believe you..............almost too tired to laugh.........LOL[/quote] Laugh my dear...although tired; life is too short not to! :D

How bad are we talking???

Depends...:)

Upon..?????:p

Mood...sometimes nice and "lovey-dovey" is great but there are times when, well, being less tamed is so much fun! This part applies to men which I am comfortable with. Odd part is, the longer I have known the man, intimately, all inhibitions are lost!

I once recall being at the pool at my formers home, secluded area, and removing "garments" so he had to "punish me"...I was a very bad girl. I know strange; however, it was much fun for both of us!

do they make dress shirts with pockets on the left and right for men. All my shirts, womens, have dual pockets. can't see the nipple hard ons, even without a bra.