You sure as hell explained it alot better than I did, hmmm maybe I should have left out the molestation incident. I also am not a woman but thought I could loosley explain it because I am metrosexual and have traditionally been very understanding when it comes to these matters but also with me I tried to explain it like Thetease but then my fingers just get stupid and I can't explain it. I have the same problem talking to stupid people. Anyways, if guys don't except it just say something like how most women prefer bisexuals, also most people are 'warming up' to bisexuals and homosexuals but there is strong opposition, if you are insulted brush it off and only take action if you are shot/harassed in any way for being bisexual or hell take action if you are shot/harassed in any way.

Goodbye and Goodluck,
-François

[Edit: 'my fingers get stupid' would be an example of my explanation problem]

Women tend to like guys they can be friends with. The gay or bi male tends to be a bit more interested in stuff that lots of girls care about (like shopping). They tend to be more "fun" and more "perky" and more "enjoyable" than those who sit around all day and say, watch sports.
They also tend to be less judgemental than lots of women, which is always a plus.

I personally tend to make better friends with males than females because I find lots of females to be too gossipy, and too judgemental, and well, just too bitchy lots of times. lol. I'm not your typical female anyways. I hate shopping. I don't like girly things. I don't even carry a purse.
But guys are more laid back. They tend to forgive and forget rather than drag it on and on and on.
Any time I argue with my guy, we make up anywhere from 30 minutes later to sometimes a few days later. We're back to being friends even if we just pissed each other off 30 minutes ago. Last time I argued with a good female friend of mine, we didn't speak for 2 weeks.

So anyways, that's my take on the matter.
I've had gay male friends and I've had straight male friends. Both I find fun to be around because of just who they are.

Ok, I am not homosexual or bisexual but I will try to answer this as best I can;

-Women

1) There is a stereotype that all gay men are more femine.

2) The girl likes the idea of watching her man have sex with another man.

3) They just like them 'because their cool' (I found that out at my highschool)

-Men

1) To be perfectly honest many men are homophobes (I used to be one because I was molested in a locker room by a 15 year old gay teen)

Note: by many I mean ones who live in my city and after a year of therapy and severel lawsuits against him I have overcome the molestation. And the molestation was in the shower, he would either grab my ass or grope my crotch.

2) Men believe that gays and bisexuals are and I quote 'stealing the ladies'

-----There are my two cents. Please no flames they are my opinions.