Hi all,
Im goin outwith a girl 7 yrs now, but i feel te need to be with other women a lot of the time. I do love this girl but its the sex with other women i crave. I havent cheeted but would love to know if any ladies feel the same way and what do you do? Is is possible to fullfill your fantazies and hold on to your relationship?
Cheers,
Irishboy
is it a matter of craving a different person to have sex with or are you boared with the sex you and your gal have? perhaps play out your fantasies with he gal youre with. adding variety to your current sex life might be something to try rather than adding variety of partners ....
a 7 year relationship with the same person and you havent cheated is something you really ought to be proud of yourself for. it says a lot about the feelings you have for your mate and shows you have more morals than a lot of folks.
i dont beleve it is acceptable to stay in a relationship and at same time be fulfilling your fantasies outside of that relationship.
how happy are you with the other parts of your relationship, friendship, fun times, support, .... if however good all the rest is cant make up for what the "somethig" you feel is missing, be honest with your mate, break the relationship off and then feel free to fullfill the fantasies you crave.
Well, how many people (men or women) do you know who are messing around AND maintaining a healthy primary relationship?