Ok I don't know if this is a weird topic but I need help and figured this would be the best place to ask for it.
My boyfriend may be the best one ever, every time we have sex he always holds back so he pleases me first and then he finishes. I was thinking about what i can do to make him cum before I do and besides a sneak attack lol I'm stuck. Any ideas?
Fri, 09/19/2008 - 00:49
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unselfish
> I was thinking about what i can do to make him cum before I do and besides a sneak attack lol I'm stuck. Any ideas?
Asked and answered.
1. Bring him to the brink of an orgasm from oral and/or manual stimulation and then finish him off with both
2. As above with the finish being intercourse
You can concentrate your efforts on his pleasure while delaying your own. Seems simple to me.
If he typically leads the way, my bet is he'd love the spice of you taking charge. Just make a decision some time that this is YOUR show this time around. YOU are making the decisions, and it's YOUR choice that he go first. Then take him there.
I would not worry about it that much. I personally like it when the she comes first. I think there is nothing sexier then the look on a women’s face when she comes.
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The last thing I've done for my boyfriend like that, was when I surprised him in the shower with a bj.
It went like this...
We were showering, lalalalala then I started washing his manhood for him and when he had his eyes closed, I kneeled down (after rinsing the soap off) and BAM, he was in freakin heaven.
Then later we talked about it, he said it was sooo hot and he had no idea that I was going to do that so it was even better
You should try it! You'll find it fun to surprise him!
well tell him once in a while you want to make a night where it's more focused on him getting off than it is for you
i was actually thinking about that shower idea...thanks
and thanks so much to everyone!
Aww.. good!!
Hope all goes well!!
i'm thinking all will go well a couple times hahaha
i'll update as needed :)
If you guys sleep together, try to wake up before him. Often men will have erections right before they wake, because that's when they dream the most often.
If he is hard, try to mount him before he can realize what's happening... I think that'd be a great way to wake up!
oh yeah we've had morning sex, which i'm a big fan of, and i try to wake up before he does or let him fall asleep and then wake him up but the plan always falls through lol.
I still say take charge and one night you make all the decisions until you've finished him. If he goes to interrupt you, playfully say 'oh no you don't, I'm not done with you yet' or something along those lines.
oh i like that one!
well ladies and gents, i've started to become more assertive and i think it's really working. the first couple times i initiated (i would always wait for him to send me the green light) he was really turned on and came quicker than ever (totally not complaining!) we've also explored more positions (love this website :) ) and we have a great sex life. i've talked to him about me always coming first and he said he does it so he knows he's doing his job right and i assure him he does. his birthday's coming up soon and i think i'm gonna plan something amazing for him.
just wanted to update.