me and my girlfiriend have both just turned 16 and we've had unprotected sex 4 times in the past 6 days or so, first of all i know how stupid i am for not usin protection and i'm doing something about that soon.
ive read other messages about the topic of un circumsized guys but still dont fully understand it. when i first enter my girlfriend she is too tight so the foreskin pulls bak in order to get in, this is very painful for me as its never happened before(painful enuff to be writin this message lol), and is still painful now, i think i have the membrane still attatched to the head and this is probably why it hurts so much, but ims ure ot shouldn't hurt so much when i first enter her? she is wet enough for it to slide in but in but it doesn't go that smoothly n so realyl hurts, will this get better in time as my penis adapts 2 havin sex?
also what are the chances of my girlfriend gettin pregnant? I'm not afraid to say that im worried over this because i have been really stupid but what if she is? i live in britain so can anyone give me any suggestions as what to do if she is?
and ive also noticed some red spots/pinples at the base of my penis but im not sure if they are spots/pimples but they wreen't there before i had sex but are now
any help would be appreciated thanks.
Forget the damned foreskin for the moment. The way people have babies is by putting uncovered penis' into unprotected vaginas. Are you ready to be "Daddy?"
Get straight on your priorities and then we can talk about the pulling foreskin.
The foreskin retracts to expose the glans but it still remains free to move back & forth.
http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/
Like they said, either stretch it yourself or talk to your doctor, I think they can snip it loose or something.
What are the chances that your gf is pregnant? Well it depends on a lot of things, but the chances are high enough that you should be very worried, especially if you ejactulated in her. Hopefully you'll be lucky and dodge the bullet.
for the for skin thing demonbuttercup, no the fore skin does not supposed to fully retract back it is supposed to stay loose so that the penis can smoothly enter the the female without any friction.David, yes its probably hurting you because its probablly still attached, and no your penis will not get used to having sex and stop hurting. you need to ether pull your fore skin back yourself or go see a doctor about it.
(you know u messed up big by not using protection so i wont mention it past this)
here is a link to some posts similar to yours asking about the foreskin.
usually it is advised to gradually work that membrane away from the head of the penis b4 you start having sex as to not rip it and be very painful.
i think on most uncircumcised guys once they are fully erect the foreskin is supposed to retract back fully exposing the glans penis. guys out there correct me if im wrong??!?
as far as the unprotected sex thing goes yes that was very stupid. why would you even consider that?
you say you are going to do something about it later but it might already be to late.
yes, its very possible she could already be pregnant. it only takes once. are you at least pulling out???
tho, precum can also get you pregnant so that doesn't help much there either.
i dunno what the red spots could be, hopefuly someone else can help.