My boyfriend and I are really close and I love to pleasure him. When it comes to oral he never has to ask me because I like to do it for him. However, when it comes to him performing oral on me it's a different story.
Before he wouldn't do it because he said that sometimes it smells down there but later told me it was only around the time of my period.. so in other words every other time is fine which doesn't explain why he wouldn't go down on me when he has the other times I'm not close to my period.
I've made sure to make sure that when I'm shaven really well and have taken a good shower or bath he knows it but even then it only leads to him getting oral because he likes it or us having sex.
There have been so many times I've brought this up to him and each time he's gotten mad at me for implying that he isn't good enough and leaving off by saying that if I want it, I should "ask for it." I find it completely unfair and it truthfully hurts my feelings that I am willing to go down on him without him hinting or asking, but when it comes to me wanting the same thing I have to ask for it even though he blatantly knows how much I want it because of all the times I've made it clear. It really hurts my feelings... To add onto it, it was my birthday a few weeks ago and I went over to visit with him. I wasn't shaved down there so I didn't expect any action from him in that area. We had normal sex. The very next day I was over there and shaved really well and all it led to was me giving him a blow job... He never even mentioned wanting to do anything for me.
He actually tells me that I smell really good down there and that he likes to give me oral but I don't see any proof. He's told me before that if I want it I should make the move and put it in his face. All of this has made me insecure about myself because he tells me one thing and doesn't have actions to back it up. He went down on me a month or so ago for basically the first time and it was a little after I had brought it up about wanting it. He wasn't down there very long and came back up for sex.
I don't know what to do or say to him anymore. We had an argument last night because I brought this up after him saying that I give good oral. I told him that I don't know how to make it clear to him that it's unfair what is going on. All I want is for my boyfriend to show a little interest in doing things for me that make me feel good.
Dump him. Find a new one. Simple as that. He's double talking and trying to cover his own butt when you confront him.
It is one excuse after another - is THIS how you want your life to be? No? Then CHANGE IT - get rid of him. He's being SELFISH.
Dump him, find someone else who can satisfy you since he's finding reasons not to...and therefore, not being honest. What makes you believe that he's honest about other stuff??
I have found out a female that has a lot of fruits in her diet will help with taste and sent. But no matter what it is a strong and a selective sent.
Kind the difference between a beer drinker and a scotch drink. One may be more toned to like the other over another. So the morral is. He may never may be to stand the smell.
So if you want bad, clog his nose . . .
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;273501]It is one excuse after another - is THIS how you want your life to be? No? Then CHANGE IT - get rid of him. He's being SELFISH.[/QUOTE]
Amen to that !
I don't see why that guy would not what to go down on a girl... and esp a girl who went to all the trouble of being clean and fresh for him... I the kind of guy that will go down on my GF before every sex session, it's important to me and it make her feel good.
I'm sure you can fine some better then him.
Just don't quit
oK so i have to give a guy's 2 cents. DUMP HIS ASS
To me I cant think of anything I like more then the feeling of my girlfriend experiencing orgasm after orgasm with her legs around my head and screaming :Stop and Ill kill you" at me.
You shouldn't have to ask for it if he obviously already knows you want it! I say don't ask, straight up tell him to do it! If that doesn't work stop giving him oral, ill bet he'll change his mind fast. Or just leave his selfish ass...
you know he is not worth to be your bf.just goodbye to him..he is selfish....
So Have you left his ass yet or did u get him to eat u out?
Some guys just dont like to do it, Im married to one of them.
I just ask him for it, of course it doesnt always work. Normally he will tell me we will both take a shower the next night and he will do it. Of course he thinks Im going to go down on him as well and I tell him he is wrong since Ive went down on him without him doing to me.
Ill take a shower, shave, etc and pretty much put it in his face without giving him a choice.
But Im lucky if he goes down on me once a month.
Am I going to leave my husband becouse of this? No... Ill just go some where else
I'm not a fan of going down on women myself, and I don't mind women not performing oral on me, I don't understand why everyone is being so harsh about it. Of course he's not being honest, but you're pressuring him a lot.
I'll never put pressure on my partner to give me a blowjob, I'd be glad not to have any pressure from her to go down on her.