Hey Ya'll
I've been seeing my gf for about four months now. From the word go we have been at it like flies on sh** (First night we hooked up - which in retrospect bothers me btw as we are serious) I'll get to the point. She intimidates me. I've talked with her about past realationships - never a good idea - and she didnt have to say alot for me to know that she has done basically every posistion you cld think plus a whole lot of other sh** i probably havent even heard of. (Apologies for saying sh** the whole time 
I know its pathetic but I can't stop thinking about it. She's 24 and i'm 20. Not saying she's the village bysical at all but she's got a hell of alot more experience than I do. We've talked about it and she say's I have nothing to worry about - that I drive her wild without even touching her. But this isn't the point. We average about three times a day now but I am so fuc**ng paronoid that I can't experiment because I have the FEAR. That i will not be as good as the others - I feel like a child both in the sense that i am a pri** for feeling this way but also that I can't help myself.
She is wild. I love it. Yet I resent it because I don't know if I can handle it...when I said average I meant every freakin day - is that normal? We've been going together now for 5 months; i'm bloody knackered! Anways I'm venting so if this pisses you off then so be it but can anyone tell me how to satisfy an ostensibly insatiable appetite? I don't know whether its even my c*** she loves or just co** full stop.
Goddamn I sound like an a** but I need help. I love this girl but at the same time i feel that this must be infatuation if i feel like i'm walking the green mile when we get intimate. She doesn't appear to have any shame whatsoever about places in public. She loves it. Trouble is I don't know where to go anymore...literally. It bothers me. It shouldn't: by all accounts most guys would jump at this - I don't now i know what it can be like. Help me please. I've never felt so pressured in all my life...yet I don't wanna give up.
Laters
N.B. Excuse my post for being a boring n' poor naration of my oh so excitig insecurities.
Bonjournay!!
Thanks for all your replies, they've been a big help. Minx I really appreciated what you said, female persective definately needed!
Anyways just to let you know things are really much much better, I can't say that I don't still think about it but its under control now and most of the time at the back of my mind.
I realised that if I love her and she loves me thats all that really matters (round of applause please). Its hard work keeping up with her but hey its fun fun fun!!
Cheers for the help
"You are what you love, not what loves you."
My fiance and I had the same problem. She was a virgin and I was experiencd so she'd be intimidated and is sometimes still scared she doesn't satisfy me (especially since before I was only with guys so she was scared she didn't have the "equipment" to satify me). But I constantly tell her that she not only keeps me satisfied, but she's also better than anyone I've ever been with (which is true. If wedidn't have such an honest relationship I never would've guessed she was a virgin from the way she fu**s; or kisses for that matter).
So trust me, you have nothing to worry about except maybe driving her insane by asking all the time. Just try to relax and remember that sexy isn't about seeing who can do the most positions, it's abot showing someone you love them (IMO anyway).
Well, there's me 2 cents, hope it helps.
Okay, I'm gunna say somthing to you, and yeah its a little harsh, and yeah, I'm a chick, but I'm going to say this with all the confidence and (true and honest) compassion of someone who has plenty of her own anxiety issues: Suck. It. Up. Period (period, period, lol). You've talked to your girlfriend, you've discussed your fears and she's told you that you have nothing to worry about, and if you care about her you have to trust that she's not lying. There isn't much more that SHE can do, and you shouldnt expect it of her (not saying that you are). This is in your hands now. You said that she's 24 and you're younger... a certain amount of extra experience is gunna come with that particular territory. You need to stop focusing on your insecurities and START focusing on your strengths. You two are in love, nothing can touch that. Who's to say things with her other partners had significant feelings involved, and if thats the case there is absolutely no competition at all. Sex is always better when there's love involved because there's emotion behind the action. If you're worried that you dont know as much about things as she does, HELLO! Take this as a golden opportunity to explore and learn with someone you love! Ultimately this comes down to you; you can either learn to deal with it and move past it.... or you can't. And thats okay too. It's alright if you discover that this is not an issue that you can get over. If your not happy, and dont think you can be, then of course you both need to move on, but are you sure that you want to risk losing someone you love (and obviously have a quite healthy sexual relationship with REGARDLESS) because you're letting her phantom past step in between you?
Everyone has a past and nobody likes to think of their partner with anyone else, but just remember that she is with you now and that's what counts.
If you really do love her try and forget about it
ok i had pretty much the same problem with my gf i was so worried about pleasing her and like after talking to her about her past i was worried about being as good as her ex... and as hard as this is going to sound to do it did work 4 me STOP WORRING lol... am jk but really u gotta relax if she says your pleasing her than you are u dont have to worry about comparing to everbody else and just have fun and go with sex is 1 thing you should not worry about... so talk to her and see what she says thats exactly what i did just tell her how you feel and just listen to what she says