That is defiantly a unique problem. Try quality verses quantity. Like spend a long getting ready with lots of foreplay and such. Another thing you could try is preparing yourself mentally all day for one encounter. Or one thing that helps me, I don’t know why, is just laying with him in me and flirting. Not concerning myself with the act of sex but the connection I share with him. Or multiple stimuli, like dildo, vibrator, fingers, cock ring, what ever. Other wise you might just have to wait until your hormones change or if this continues long term you could try taking hormones. I hope this is helpful somewhat.

Try masturbating, if your boyfriend cant keep up. It's a lifesavor if you're experinceing such arousal as you say.

Here's a good site with alot of tips. It's all about female masturbation.

http://www.clitical.com/

She has included masturbation, Buffy. Thanks for including the link to a great site.

I am concerned that her situation may be more psychological than physical. An insatiable sexual appetite might need the expertise of a head doctor to understand and eliminate. Yes or no, it is something that you should consider, rain3....

Just for the sake of discussion, this is most often the problem and concern of post pubescent boys. Even after masturbating three-four times a day, they need more and are further frustated when their bodies refuse to respond any more for the time being. The need for more is often the result of ongoing stress, although, it can be exasserbated by visual and sexual stimuli that we encounter throughout the day.

Because it takes the male of species longer to recoup after his body cries "Uncle", he has to make a choice:

A. to continue masturbating after several hours when his body has partially regrouped and to be satisfied with half-hearted, less than full blown orgasms just to help relieve the stress and tension, or--

B. to hold off masturbating for a day or two in order for his body to completely recoup. In so doing, he has to endure a certain amount of anxiety and stress in order to fully release it, later. Tough choices.

My suggestion for you is to take stock and try to understand more about your needs. Do you believe they may be psychological, or, do you just enjoy orgasms for the pure enjoyment? Another question is whether you have stress that is contuing to place a demand on your nervous system. If the latter, I would certainly suggest trying to identify the source(s) and then working to eliminate them. As mentioned, it may just be a hormonal problem that can be balanced by a qualified physician.

If you simply enjoy orgasms and just want more, be they one or more a day or multiples during any session then you might want to make a similar decision as described, above.

Multiple orgams for you come right on the heel of the previous one as is often the case for women. In general, women can enjoy many more than guys. The male of the species, on the other hand, can also enjoy multiple orgasms, allthough the spacing between any two is on the order of 15-30 minutes, and the maximum number depending upon age and drive is usually limited to three or four; what's more, is that the number of multiples also affects the total number we can have in any twenty four hour period.

With all this in mind, you might want to work with your man and devise a plan that the two of you can be happy with. For example, you might want to space one or more of your multiples out to coinside with one of his. As long as he is interested, he can continue to pleasure you without having to engage in intercourse. Very often we derive more physical pleasure from the acts of foreplay than the act of intercourse. Another thing you can do is to pleasure yourself while he contributes with loving kisses and caresses.

If you must masturbate in between love making sessions, so be it. There is nothing wrong with this as long as it does not disrupt or keep you from doing other things that are required of you during the day. Devoting more time and attention to making out as was suggested is an excellent plan.

One of the things you and your man might want to work on is having more cuddle sessions. Perhaps more "us time" will help satisfy your need for orgasms. These would be separate and apart from your love making activities. I also like the idea of staying connected even when he looses his erection. I mentioned that foreplay is more intense than intercourse. Intercourse satisfies the souls. The vagina is the gateway to a woman's soul; the penis is the essense of man. When the two come together, we become one with the other for a moment in time as our psyches join. It may be that you are lacking in this very important aspect of your relationship.

These are just ideas to look at and ponder and then to act upon if any seem to be a contributing factor. There is nothing wrong with having a high sex drive. The question to ask is why? Sexual tensions and daily stresses are generally the needs to have orgasms. Orgasms for the sake of enjoyment is also high up there on the list. If there is nothing wrong with you, then I think just finding a balance in your lives will be of help.

She has included masturbation, Buffy. Thanks for including the link to a great site.

I am concerned that her situation may be more psychological than physical. An insatiable sexual appetite might need the expertise of a head doctor to understand and eliminate. Yes or no, it is something that you should consider, rain3....

Just for the sake of discussion, this is most often the problem and concern of post pubescent boys. Even after masturbating three-four times a day, they need more and are further frustated when their bodies refuse to respond any more for the time being. The need for more is often the result of ongoing stress, although, it can be exasserbated by visual and sexual stimuli that we encounter throughout the day.

Because it takes the male of species longer to recoup after his body cries "Uncle", he has to make a choice:

A. to continue masturbating after several hours when his body has partially regrouped and to be satisfied with half-hearted, less than full blown orgasms just to help relieve the stress and tension, or--

B. to hold off masturbating for a day or two in order for his body to completely recoup. In so doing, he has to endure a certain amount of anxiety and stress in order to fully release it, later. Tough choices.

My suggestion for you is to take stock and try to understand more about your needs. Do you believe they may be psychological, or, do you just enjoy orgasms for the pure enjoyment? Another question is whether you have stress that is contuing to place a demand on your nervous system. If the latter, I would certainly suggest trying to identify the source(s) and then working to eliminate them. As mentioned, it may just be a hormonal problem that can be balanced by a qualified physician.

If you simply enjoy orgasms and just want more, be they one or more a day or multiples during any session then you might want to make a similar decision as described, above.

Multiple orgams for you come right on the heel of the previous one as is often the case for women. In general, women can enjoy many more than guys. The male of the species, on the other hand, can also enjoy multiple orgasms, allthough the spacing between any two is on the order of 15-30 minutes, and the maximum number depending upon age and drive is usually limited to three or four; what's more, is that the number of multiples also affects the total number we can have in any twenty four hour period.

With all this in mind, you might want to work with your man and devise a plan that the two of you can be happy with. For example, you might want to space one or more of your multiples out to coinside with one of his. As long as he is interested, he can continue to pleasure you without having to engage in intercourse. Very often we derive more physical pleasure from the acts of foreplay than the act of intercourse. Another thing you can do is to pleasure yourself while he contributes with loving kisses and caresses.

If you must masturbate in between love making sessions, so be it. There is nothing wrong with this as long as it does not disrupt or keep you from doing other things that are required of you during the day. Devoting more time and attention to making out as was suggested is an excellent plan.

One of the things you and your man might want to work on is having more cuddle sessions. Perhaps more "us time" will help satisfy your need for orgasms. These would be separate and apart from your love making activities. I also like the idea of staying connected even when he looses his erection. I mentioned that foreplay is more intense than intercourse. Intercourse satisfies the souls. The vagina is the gateway to a woman's soul; the penis is the essense of man. When the two come together, we become one with the other for a moment in time as our psyches join. It may be that you are lacking in this very important aspect of your relationship.

These are just ideas to look at and ponder and then to act upon if any seem to be a contributing factor. There is nothing wrong with having a high sex drive. The question to ask is why? Sexual tensions and daily stresses are generally the needs to have orgasms. Orgasms for the sake of enjoyment is also high up there on the list. If there is nothing wrong with you, then I think just finding a balance in your lives will be of help.