A problem that i'm worrying about at the moment is something that effected me before. i lost my virginity awhile back now to my ex girlfriend, we were together for almost 2years before actually having sex, we were quite young at the time and therefore decided to wait.
A problem that i faced with this at the time was exposing my naked body. I expect for most men this hasn't really been a massive issue, but for me it was. Throughout my teen years i have suffered from eating disorders, and therefore always focused on the imperfections of my body, thinking that because i was so under weight, how could my girlfriend possibly find me attractive!? This caused many problems with sexual intercourse for a long time and it was only after a long time i felt comfortable enough around her.
Currently i am "recovered" and am eating "properly", but still am very aware of how underweight i am, and am worried this problem may happen again with my new girl.
What should i do? i don't want to have to wait as long as i did last time.
Should i talk to her and explain how i feel?
Not going to lie...its abit shit really! lol
I am sensitive to your past; however, please understand this very important part of human nature:
* When a person falls in love with another human being, we accept him/her completely including the parts as yet unseen.
Men and women both have certain insecurities about their anatomy. It's common. If she did not like the way you filled a pair of pants, shorts, or a shirt, she would have dropped you long ago.
Concentrate on your personality, personal qualities, and work to please her always in all ways. Begin reading the articles listed in the Index found at the top of the main screen.