Hey there,
My girlfriend and I have been having sex for some time, but in the last couple weeks, shes been complaining about discomfort while I finger her or even when I have myself inside her. I'm not doing anything new, and shes getting rather frustrated. She describes it like a tickle thats too intense. Like it starts out really nice feeling, but then she just feels that uncomfort feeling. She says its not pain, but she feels like it could be. Its only when I'm penetrating her, not when I'm teasing her on the outside. Were both frustrated because were both rather horny and we haven't had full-blown sex for a little while.
Can anyone help put a stop to these strange "pains" (even though they aren't painful)?:confused:
Can anyone help? We want to do the deed! Quick help!
Sorry...You'll have to go to McDonalds if you EXPECT faster service....for gawdsakes!!..how rude!!
and besides...this is for the WOMEN to post in...not GUYS...sheesh!!
Here's a thought, if there's any kind of pain, go to a doctor. No one can diagnose anything over the internet.
wow... tanks for the help guys. I really feel welcome. I can't belive people are so rude! I came here for help, and it just gets thrown back in my face? I was just asking a question. About womens health. I figured someone might be able to help. I saw everyone else asking for help and this is what I get? I cant belive this!:mad:
[QUOTE]Men are welcome to join in, but we ask that they only do so if they have a good contribution to make.[/QUOTE]
There you go. Sorry for the misunderstanding. I thought I could post in here.
Sorry Indy,
Its just that for one, the post is very vague about how your G/F is feeling. Its not a pain... but could be... just an uncomfortable feeling?? that could be anything!
When in doubt...ask a Doc and get an exam.
She should have already gotten a gyn exam since she is sexually active.
And I know the exam is scary and embarrassing, but its just part of being a woman and its something we ALL have to do!!!
I was not being rude, I'm stating a fact.
And yes, you can post here, but perhaps you should read the second part of that again. "but we ask that they only do so if they have a good contribution to make."
By coming in here and telling us that someone else sometimes has pain but it's not really pain but then it kinda is, doesn't help any.
We discovered the problem on another site. I'm sorry I caused so much distress, but we were just trying to find help.
For the record: She had pelvic congestion, and it was all solved with (I kid you not) Benadryl. (sp?) Shes in tip top shape and we are able to enjoy each others company now.
Thanks to those who helped. I guess I just thought it would be a good contibution in the womens health section. My mistake.