Ok so I got tired of looking (I've been at it for a few hours on here) and I know this has probably been brought up before, but here goes...
I've been fooling around with this guy that I know (safely, and I've known him for forever) and I know that he is uncircumsized. We have had sex before (twice) but it was more hurried and not as much time as eather of us wanted (circumstances and what not) but the next time we are looking at loads more time to get to know eachother sexually. He eats me out before we have sex, he absoutly loves it. He told me that he was wondering if I gave head or not. Well I do and I want to but I don't have any experence with uncircumsized guys. I've been told that I give great head, but I'm a little uncerten about giving it to him because I have absoutly no idea what to do or how to do it! I've heard that uncircumsized guys are way more senceitive. Do I do anything diffrent or just keep on doing what I do? Any help please and thank you.
my suggestion is to keep on doing what you have been doing but...
from my experience this is a little tip.
Basically a uncircumsized man just has extra skin around the head of the penis.
make sure he is hard, than nicely not rough, gently slid down the extra skin off his penis , eventually the whole head will appear (which i am sure, since you've given head before, you are aware of what that looks like). then again just continue what you would normally do. You will notice his body jump a little if he is much more sensitive, than just lighten up on the sucking and or grip.
Thank you :) I am looking forward to something new. and I love experminting and finding out what he likes and wants and if this feels good or if that feels good ect. I just didn't want to get there and be all like wtf do I do with this, and as he is vary insecure about his body and how it looks, so I didn't want to hesate and give him any reason to be shy or uncerten... the less hesitation the better really :) so again Thank You!
Please find and then do The Program, a sticky post here on the forum.
2little is quite right - uncircumcized is no problem.
yeah its really no different! i think you will find it exciting
No Problem: yes and no. The glans of the uncircumcized penis is vastly more sensitive than one which has had a "lifetime" of exposure to the elements (clothing and air) and is now desensitized. Some fellas do not like much direct contact with the exposed glans as like with the tip of a clitoris, it is sometimes too sensitive to touch much. The fix is to keep the foreskin forward covering it.
It is also important to know that the foreskin comes with lots of sensitive nerve endings, also. So, there are two parts of a guys penis that are able to be stimulated enjoyably, not just one!
My recommendation for a girl/woman who encounters an uncircumcized penis is to ask the owner just how sensitive his glans is and whether it can be rubbed directly or if it can only be caressed thru the foreskin. Either way, there are tons more nerves and I understand that this is a good thing. :D Experiment with him and see what he enjoys and can tolerate then go from that.
Thank you all :) I have read both the program and body worship (please excuse the spelling if I make any mistakes).
I am glad I decided to do stuff with the guy I'm currently sexually active with, because he knows how to take his time and not rush into things, even if we really don't have the time. My past lovers really didn't know how to, and when I tried they got irritated (they need to visit this site badly lemmie tell you).
I think I might also have a little bit of an issue with my current guy with body worship, or well just getting him compleatly naked... he has a nice bady (I like it any way) but he is soo self concious. I'm hopeing to help him over come this by not being self concious myself. If I'm confertable with him maybe he'll be confertable with me... but who knows...
I was just truly concerned about the whole foreskin thing... I think I'll be fine if I go slow and gental at first and ask him how he likes it. I just didn't want to ask him the question "what do I do".
[QUOTE=KittenLover;246702]Thank you all :) I have read both the program and body worship (please excuse the spelling if I make any mistakes).
[COLOR="blue">In addition to these articles, I would like to recommend that you browse thru the Index and read the many articles listed in it.[/COLOR]
I am glad I decided to do stuff with the guy I'm currently sexually active with, because he knows how to take his time and not rush into things, even if we really don't have the time. My past lovers really didn't know how to, and when I tried they got irritated (they need to visit this site badly lemmie tell you).
[COLOR="blue">It sounds to me like you have a fella that understands the way of Eros.[/COLOR]
I think I might also have a little bit of an issue with my current guy with body worship, or well just getting him compleatly naked... he has a nice bady (I like it any way) but he is soo self concious. I'm hopeing to help him over come this by not being self concious myself. If I'm confertable with him maybe he'll be confertable with me... but who knows...
[COLOR="Blue">Time is on your side. Take things very slowly and progressively. There is no need to get naked all at once; instead, unbutton buttons, unzip zippers, open shirts all before removing the article. The idea is to get him all worked up and highly aroused with all the necking and petting activities, first and foremost. As your make out session progresses, you can then go from opening shirts and flys to removing a sock and then another, or, from opening a shirt to removing it, and so on and on. The same goes for you and your clothing. What you are doing is building arousal, building excitement and anticipation. The more highly aroused your guy becomes the easier it will be to get your skin on him (skin to skin contact).[/COLOR]
I was just truly concerned about the whole foreskin thing... I think I'll be fine if I go slow and gental at first and ask him how he likes it. I just didn't want to ask him the question "what do I do".[/QUOTE]
You can ask him this and that and gather information and one of the articles discusses the importance of communication and feedback. In this situation, I think I would recommend not asking and using "Implied Consent", instead. Please read the article that has the section on this (Refer to the Index).
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new-sex/26789-ummm-yeah-new-can-i-get-ad...
There is some info that I posted in the link above that will help!
The only thing I would add as an uncut guy is that if youre pulling back the foreskin dont be rough or try to force it. Sometimes it just doesnt want to go all the way down, so just take it easy.
Thank you for the advise, the last thing I want to do is hurt him, ever.
I might have more questions later lol... I keep thinking of random "what do I do"'s
and scence he is currently working 12 hour shifts for all of this week and this weekend and all next week and maybe next weekend too... I donno... but scence he's doing that he cannot come down and see me. I cannot go up and see him because well I kinda don't have the money for it. (I went up last so it's his turn to come down any way, as he would say)
[QUOTE=SimplePleasure;246715]The only thing I would add as an uncut guy is that if youre pulling back the foreskin dont be rough or try to force it. Sometimes it just doesnt want to go all the way down, so just take it easy.[/QUOTE]
I'm not sure if the length of the foreskin makes any difference but I find that when I caress my man's shaft, his foreskin "follows" my hand, thereby alternatively exposing his glans and covering it. He hasn't complained yet.
I agree that he is more sensitive than the cut guys I've been with but this has not caused any problems, it's only meant that I find him more responsive to my touch.
Yes, more sensitive and responsive and..."hey, could you wait to cum until I get mine??? Okay, now, let's try this again."
I've never really experienced him cumming too fast (save for two different times when he had been in the field for quite a while and hadn't thought of playing), but that's twice out of a LOT of sex. IF he was uncut, I'm pretty sure he'd be inhuman and I'd die.
I've had a circumcised guy who used to cum within seconds of penetration if he made it into me at all. I've had another circumcised guy who could only cum after ages of vigorous thrusting.
My uncircumcised partner has only cum quickly possibly two times in over 4 years and they were times when he'd been a few days without orgasm. Most of the time he lasts the perfect length of time for me to get in as many orgasms as I want. On Sunday I had four before hopping off and finishing him orally. :)
If he orgams too quickly - you know he'll just have to do it over again...and again...and again... until he gets it right.