Hi,
In answer to your following questions:

> Do you peel back i.e. retract the foreskin of your penis when fully errected before inserting into the vagina??

Whatever works. It is an individual call.

> Do you peel back i.e. retract the foreskin of your penis when masturbating?

Whatever works. It is an individual call.

Here are the reasons:
Whatever works, means that some guys absolutely cannot stand to have the surface of the Glans touched directly. Others are less sensitive, either because they just are, or, because over time they have repeatedly exposed the Glans and it has become accustomed to being touched.

That it is an individual call means that for those guys who can have it both ways, they can enjoy variety, sometimes stroking and sometimes masturbating with the foreskin forward, and at other times, with it retracted. The sensations are quite different for each position.

Now, having said that, some foreskins automatically retract as part of the erection process.

Regardless of whether this happens automatically, or if the owner does it manually, if you like having the nerves of the Glans stimulated directly, then do it. If you like it better when forward, then this is your answer. If you like your having your cake and eating it too, then do it both ways as the mood strikes you. Whatever works.

If you want to experiment and try being stimulated directly, yet know the surface of the Glans is much too sensitive for this, you can work with it over a period of time in order to desensitize yourself just enough to make direct stimulation pleasurable. You can retract the foreskin while walking around dressed so that the penis rubs against your clothing; and/or, you can just play with it a while every day and get it used to being out in the open and in contact with things in the world.

There is no one correct answer or method. Each of us is different and will react differently to having his Glans touched and stimulated. Just explore and do some experimenting to see what you can or cannot tolerate and then work within those limits.

> I find that peeling back the foreskin,while erect, is too tight therefore I haven't had sex

Is your foreskin the style that extends out in front of the Glans/Meatus with a straw-like extension? Even if it only partially covers the Glans, you can try working with it in order to stretch it slightly. This will take a few weeks of daily work if it is to be successful at all. You can also see your doctor and ask him to nick the forskin just enough so that it has the necessary freedom to move back and forth when erect.

It sounds like you can retract the foreskin when your penis is flaccid, if this is correct, then what happens when it is retracted and you then become erect?

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

I say:
you try to retract it all the way before insertion to get it out of the way.
girls say it is easier to give handjobs to uncirc. guys because you don't need lube.
alright, this probably took me only about a week or two to get the foreskin stretch over the erect glans. ( it is genetic how tight it is) and yes, doctors can help by loosening it. but try it yourself first
maybe a little drop of lube under the skin first. Don't worry about being able to ejaculate without retracting it, that is normal. Kepp working on it, and hopefully it will get to the point where it'll glide right down

Thank you very much for the additional comments, Novice.

> I can retract the foreskin back,while flaccid, and it feels comfortable-ish but the glans is very sensitve.

This is normal. The definition of or to what degree "very sensitive" is to a person varies from individual to individual. Much depends upon a person's tolerence and to some extent how he is wired. Some men report that while the nerves are very sensitive, they are not so "touchy" that they cannot enjoy manipulating them directly. Others say no way!

If you are in the latter category yet want to try and involve them directly, you can retract the foreskin and let it become accustomed to the elements during the day; and/or you can just work with it by fingering the Glans a little at a time over time when home alone.

> As I said while fully errect it is tight to retract, but I can retract it but I don't think I could have sex this way. It would be just too uncomfortable.

Here are two suggestions you might like to try:
A. With your penis erect and foreskin retracted, liberally apply some lubrication to your shaft and fingers and then let them lightly glide over your shaft, glans, and the foreskin. If you can pleasure yourself this way and not be bothered by grazing over the retracted foreskin then you can assume intercourse will not be a bother.

B. I recommend this for boys who write in stating that they are bored masturbating in the same way day in and day out. What I suggest is that they fashion a pseudo-vagina. Here's how.

* Take a small Ziplock plastic sandwich bag and cut a slit along the bottom of one side of sufficient length to accept your penis
* Spread lubrication over the inside lower portion of the bag, and your penis
* Insert your penis, wrap the bag around it
* Fold and wrap a hand towel around the outside of the bag to add bulk
* Place two pillows on the bed and assume the Missionary position, placing the pseudo-vagina in between the pillows at the required angle.
* As you kneel or semi-recline, you can then stroke, thrust, and hump away to your hearts content.

This makeshift substitute for the real McCoy feels remarkably lifelike. Give this a try a couple of times and see how you react to it--other than having great orgasms! What you learn from these two experiments will answer your concerns about having intercourse enjoyably.

> If the penis enters the vagina retracted,will the foreskin retract and unretract while moving the penis in and out of the vagina??

More often than not it will if the guy's foreskin is loose to begin with. Because yours is tight, I would rather doubt that it will move and change positions as a result of sliding around within the confines of a vagina. Also, not every penis/vagina mating is a snug fit. The vagina will also swell when a woman becomes excited so this will also reduce whatever snugness there is. I wouldn't worry about the what if's until you encounter them.

When it does come time for intercourse, what does it matter who retracts the foreskin? Let her do it once in a while if you want it retracted during intercourse sometime.

Have fun learning what your options are. Begin by doing daily stretching exercises and then letting the surface of the Glans become accustomed to the elements and with being fingered. If convenient, perform the exercises in the bathtub or alternately while taking a shower, The warm water will soften the foreskin. Over the course of several weeks or months you will be able to build up an acceptable level of tolerence if the nerves in the Glans are too sensitive to handle now when exposed.

btw when i said " get in the way" even thought I have never tried it, I would assume that it would feel weird during penetration if the foreskin wwas partially retracted, I would think it would make a little ridge in the glans

Just thought i would give a little feedback through my own experiences.

When i was younger and newish to sex i never considered pulling my foreskin back before having sex. Everything was cool. But lately i have started to pull my foreskin back for everything, i find that it gives you much more intense pleasure ( eyes rolling to the back of my head lol) So i would just say you should give it a go and see which works for you. Try using a shower if you cant quite get used to masturbating with your foreskin back! :)

> I would think it would make a little ridge in the glans

The "ridge" actually appears in the form of pleats when the foreskin has been retracted to its resting position behind the Corona Rim.

Of course, the ridge of real concern is the Frenulum. Now rubbing this ridge will definitely cause a reaction when you involve it just before triggering an orgasm!