Interested in knowing whether this is something mental. I know it can't be all the technique, it feels great and I almost get there, but never do. Any ideas as to why I might not be able to climax from felacio? If BJ is part of foreplay, the moment I start to have sex, climax is reach in minutes, I believe it might be mental, as well, as desensitized from masturbation. Would love to hear success stories from other who took a while to climax from BJ's, or simply a solution so that I can enjoy this without my partner feeling inadequate.
Fri, 03/23/2007 - 20:00
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Unable to cum from BJ's
Please look around a bit. This has been discussed in great detail.
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[QUOTE=TotallyInterested;171787]Interested in knowing whether this is something mental. I know it can't be all the technique, it feels great and I almost get there, but never do. Any ideas as to why I might not be able to climax from felacio? If BJ is part of foreplay, the moment I start to have sex, climax is reach in minutes, I believe it might be mental, as well, as desensitized from masturbation. Would love to hear success stories from other who took a while to climax from BJ's, or simply a solution so that I can enjoy this without my partner feeling inadequate.[/QUOTE]
The problem is that you may loose your senses too quickly. You have get the power to think that you don’t have to reach climax so early and that whatever happens you have to prolong the moment. More, a rush will not help a low. :)
Have her try different things. My girlfreind at first couldnt make me cum but i had her put her right hand over he mouth so she was jerking me off and get a bj at the same time. and i was also ****ing her mouth
In the beginning I had problems cumming from oral sex too, because I got weird from the attention only being directed at me.
Try 69'er, where you give each other head and see if it helps.
[QUOTE=TotallyInterested;171787]Interested in knowing whether this is something mental. [/QUOTE]
It’s definitely mental. It happened to me back in my early teenage. What it helped me were some magazines (do not spread the word, please) first and then there was my girlfriend that helped me a lot.