My advice is to invest in some decent handcuffs (police issue, at least over $25). Many couples buy the cheap ones you can find at adult stores. They are way too flimsy, plus they come with a little quick release on them...what's the fun in that? The real pleasure is in knowing you're locked up and have to depend on your partner for getting out of the situation. Bondage isn't bondage if you can free yourself without much effort.

Oh, just make sure you have a spare key incase you lose one, otherwise things could get embarrassing.

Well said Wally, I just assume those things are already said and agreed upon in my two statements.

Thanks for not assuming.

So Wally, what are some of your ideas in tying up your honey and making her sing for you?

I'd just add that you might consider some assurances as the play intensifies. Some couples have a "safe word" that immediately puts a stop to whatever is going one. You might think she's "acting" an objection that is real... or that her fear is a turn on when it's not.

Personally, when venturing into new areas, I like to know where my partner's head is... in otherwords, before things get too far out or kinky (for lack of a better word), I want to know what's going on... if she suddenly starts getting increasingly demanding... is she doing it because she thinks that's what I want? does she have whips hidden in the closet?

That's not paranoia. (For all people know I might be hoping there are whips!) It's about keeping the relationship in balance and the sex mutually pleasurable and satisfying.

Well, if she likes to be pinned down then I would say she will like light bondage and your creative ideas if they are
1. not to far from the feeling she has when being pinned, and
2. ideas that do not make her feel uncomfortable in doing them.

handcuffs and a blindfold, mmmmmmmmm

Me and my girlfriend have some handcuffs, there fun to play around with when your both in the mood.

[QUOTE=Quote (Akuma @ Mar. 29 2005,01:04)]Ello, I'm just curious to know how many girls actually like being just tied up and teased/pleasured etc.  No pain or whips or chains (well maybe handcuffs :-P) but just plain light bondage.  I was dating my ex for about 1 year and 2 months, and I think we are getting back together again.  I would like to try to introduce her to this maybe, but I am a little frightened on how to bring it up.  I dont want to mention it and then have her hate it  Maybe theres ways to subtely find out?  I know what you'll say, we've been dating for a while and I should just ask her for best results lol, but I'm a whimp.

But anyway if she ends up liking it, I have plenty of ideas of combining it with activities I know she does like.  Such as tying her down to the bed and whippin out the whip cream.  I know she likes to be blindfolded.  She also loves having her legs sucked on, lickied, kissed all up and down.  So why not do it while tied up     Its just a really big fantasy/passion of mine, I'd hate not to be able to use it.  So any ideas?[/QUOTE]
sounds like a great idea...there's no harm in suggesting it! my guy suggested it n i thort it was a great idea...it leads to a lot of nice feelings 4 both ppl!

uncreativename

Try pinning her hands down above her head with your hands first. That's a light form beginning of tying her down. If she likes that, talk about it afterwards that you'd love to use handcuffs or tie her down and she what she says.

AND you better share your great ideas!!!!

I love to be pinned or tied after a hot intense chase and........

whew... let me cool off.. unzzzzzzzzzzzip.

Well I mean if its something youre passionate about.. just tell her youd like to try it. Bondage.. light or otherwise involved a great degree of trust between the two people. If you have that in your relationship I dont see it would be a huge obstacle. Just communicate your desire to her and let her know if she feels uncomfortable or whatever the session immediately ends.