whew im just glad you said you didnt plan on getting married lol bored and its only beenrtwo months??? yeah, I agree with demon, slow down and do other things some.
Im also 19, been with my man of 24 for 6months now and am certainly not bored!
if u spend a little less time having sex and do other stuff instead u will be more "gagging" for each other (sorry but dont know how else to phrase it!).
we often just do simple things like take the dog for a walk, or give each other back massages to unwind, and after sharing these lovely experiences things just begin to build up and happen i just generally cant keep my hands off him!
well yeah i can imagine you'd run out of ideas after 21 times a week lol
i guess that goes to show sometimes too much of a good thing is a bad thing.
maybe instead of actually have sex 3 times a day do other stuff. like maybe do oral on eachother or just tease eachother whenever you come in contact.
start a major build up then back off.
so then by the time you actually have sex at the end of the day you both will be so horny it won't matter what position you are in. lol
Okay, so this is playtime, not necessarily a serious relationship. That makes a difference, I suppose. In that case, demonbuttercup makes an excellent suggestion(as usual).
I agree it is soon for us to get bored...but to justify that a little, we have sex on average 3 times a day which is waaaaay more than I'm used to...I'm not expecting us to even get married or anything, I'm just trying for us to have a little more fun
I have to agree with demonbuttercup. It seems a little soon to be bored already.
However here are a few ideas. There are other positions just pick up a copy of the Kama Sutra, but I hope you're in pretty good shape because a lot of those require flexibility.
There are all manner of sex toys you can buy to spice things up. There is fantasy and role playing- even with costumes. You could do something as simple as change locations. Dining room, kitchen, sex in the shower(be careful) or take it farther afield- a hotel, outside, even in a car ( be aware the more public places can be illegal, so if you get caught it's at the least embarrassing ).
Now that I've listed a lot of temporary fixes, might I suggest you find out why you are really already bored with each other?
That would be the smartest and most permanent solution. To be honest it could be that you aren't right for each other. But either way, if it were me, I'd want to know as soon as possible.
i'm 19 he's 26, been dating about 2 months, sex is always the same...either missionary or doggie style, occasionally me on top...he's mentions that he's bored with it but i'm out of ideas and any little way of turning him on would help
i dunno
its pretty bad if you are already bored and its only been 2 months.
i guess just try variations of what you are doing. those are the 3 main positions.
maybe you are just bored of eachother.
whew im just glad you said you didnt plan on getting married lol bored and its only beenrtwo months??? yeah, I agree with demon, slow down and do other things some.
Names? You're suppose to get names, wiseman!?!
lol
Yeah, I guess a little conversation occassionally might be nice. You know his last name yet? Just kidding
Focus on the quality, not the quantity.
Yeah, I guess a little conversation occassionally might be nice. You know his last name yet? Just kidding
Im also 19, been with my man of 24 for 6months now and am certainly not bored!
if u spend a little less time having sex and do other stuff instead u will be more "gagging" for each other (sorry but dont know how else to phrase it!).
we often just do simple things like take the dog for a walk, or give each other back massages to unwind, and after sharing these lovely experiences things just begin to build up and happen
i just generally cant keep my hands off him!
Talking dirty to a guy will usually get the trick done nicely.
well yeah i can imagine you'd run out of ideas after 21 times a week lol
i guess that goes to show sometimes too much of a good thing is a bad thing.
maybe instead of actually have sex 3 times a day do other stuff. like maybe do oral on eachother or just tease eachother whenever you come in contact.
start a major build up then back off.
so then by the time you actually have sex at the end of the day you both will be so horny it won't matter what position you are in. lol
Demonnnnnn!!! i think im gonna use that :P thanks gurlie
jamie
glad i could help
Okay, so this is playtime, not necessarily a serious relationship. That makes a difference, I suppose. In that case, demonbuttercup makes an excellent suggestion(as usual).
awww
thanks oberon
its nice to hear i have good suggestions
I agree it is soon for us to get bored...but to justify that a little, we have sex on average 3 times a day which is waaaaay more than I'm used to...I'm not expecting us to even get married or anything, I'm just trying for us to have a little more fun
I have to agree with demonbuttercup. It seems a little soon to be bored already.
However here are a few ideas. There are other positions just pick up a copy of the Kama Sutra, but I hope you're in pretty good shape because a lot of those require flexibility.
There are all manner of sex toys you can buy to spice things up. There is fantasy and role playing- even with costumes. You could do something as simple as change locations. Dining room, kitchen, sex in the shower(be careful) or take it farther afield- a hotel, outside, even in a car ( be aware the more public places can be illegal, so if you get caught it's at the least embarrassing ).
Now that I've listed a lot of temporary fixes, might I suggest you find out why you are really already bored with each other?
That would be the smartest and most permanent solution. To be honest it could be that you aren't right for each other. But either way, if it were me, I'd want to know as soon as possible.
i'm 19 he's 26, been dating about 2 months, sex is always the same...either missionary or doggie style, occasionally me on top...he's mentions that he's bored with it but i'm out of ideas and any little way of turning him on would help
i dunno
its pretty bad if you are already bored and its only been 2 months.
i guess just try variations of what you are doing. those are the 3 main positions.
maybe you are just bored of eachother.
A little more information please. Age, married or not, how long you've been together, etc.